I have to say one thing in regards to people who are "community" but regularly dont show to events.
I have met and seen several guys that are known and are versed in PU but choose not to associate with the others that are active in it.
Their reasons very, but usually the route is that they are doing their own thing, and succeeding in ways I wish we all would do.
The community has a way of showing us what exactly were the character flaws we each had, and the ones in which we are here to fix. Some find this community and find comfort, some find it and feel overwhelmed. Some find this community and while they agree with the philosophies, they do not wish to be a part of something that is viewed as a social stigma.
Before we chastise those who do not wish to join the reindeer games, I'd like each of us to pick one women tonight, go up to her and at some point after comfort is formed tell her straight out with no special wording, "One of my hobbies is going "sarging" to pick up women."
See how they respond.
It's socially unacceptable to be part of this community, so I can see a valid point in keeping it under wraps and not becoming too big. Its easier to manage.
However, this community is also part of a sort of brotherhood. So there are instances were we will get together and hang out, and talk about all that we have in common... and for most of us, sarging is the only thing that we have in common with other members of this board.
Just an outside observation. Continue with regularly scheduled programming.
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by Guest » Fri Oct 17, 2008 6:10 pm
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Do you guys meet in front or is there some special place where you sit? I am going to try to make it.
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If you are going to make it out try to go to Taco Cabana. This way you can at least sit down and chat a bit. You will feel better and more comfortable with the guys before everyone heads over to Sherlocks.
It is pretty easy to tell as there will be a decent sized group of guys sitting around talking. Typically hard to miss.
Do you guys meet in front or is there some special place where you sit? I am going to try to make it.
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If you are going to make it out try to go to Taco Cabana. This way you can at least sit down and chat a bit. You will feel better and more comfortable with the guys before everyone heads over to Sherlocks.
It is pretty easy to tell as there will be a decent sized group of guys sitting around talking. Typically hard to miss.
- Guest
by Guest » Fri Oct 17, 2008 8:12 pm
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I have to say one thing in regards to people who are "community" but regularly dont show to events.
I have met and seen several guys that are known and are versed in PU but choose not to associate with the others that are active in it.
Their reasons very, but usually the route is that they are doing their own thing, and succeeding in ways I wish we all would do.
The community has a way of showing us what exactly were the character flaws we each had, and the ones in which we are here to fix. Some find this community and find comfort, some find it and feel overwhelmed. Some find this community and while they agree with the philosophies, they do not wish to be a part of something that is viewed as a social stigma.
Before we chastise those who do not wish to join the reindeer games, I'd like each of us to pick one women tonight, go up to her and at some point after comfort is formed tell her straight out with no special wording, "One of my hobbies is going "sarging" to pick up women."
See how they respond.
It's socially unacceptable to be part of this community, so I can see a valid point in keeping it under wraps and not becoming too big. Its easier to manage.
However, this community is also part of a sort of brotherhood. So there are instances were we will get together and hang out, and talk about all that we have in common... and for most of us, sarging is the only thing that we have in common with other members of this board.
Just an outside observation. Continue with regularly scheduled programming.
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Finesse, I agree with you to an extent. Yes, there are guys here that have no desire to be associated with said Community. Sometimes, I feel as though I'm one of them in that I hide my 'nights' from my 'days.' I understand the reason that these guys remain unknown.
However, the Community isn't only about picking up chicks. It's also about building bonds with each other. Most of us enter the Community with the idea that we want to get laid and surround ourselves with women, but find ourselves making great friendships with our brothers. This, in my opinion, is the most rewarding aspect of the Community.
The fact is that I'm on still here because I have friends that I made through here and because I believe in this movement. If it weren't for those two things, you'd never see or hear from me again.
The Community taught me how to get pussy, how to keep pussy...but ironically, it also taught me that some things are more important than pussy.
I have to say one thing in regards to people who are "community" but regularly dont show to events.
I have met and seen several guys that are known and are versed in PU but choose not to associate with the others that are active in it.
Their reasons very, but usually the route is that they are doing their own thing, and succeeding in ways I wish we all would do.
The community has a way of showing us what exactly were the character flaws we each had, and the ones in which we are here to fix. Some find this community and find comfort, some find it and feel overwhelmed. Some find this community and while they agree with the philosophies, they do not wish to be a part of something that is viewed as a social stigma.
Before we chastise those who do not wish to join the reindeer games, I'd like each of us to pick one women tonight, go up to her and at some point after comfort is formed tell her straight out with no special wording, "One of my hobbies is going "sarging" to pick up women."
See how they respond.
It's socially unacceptable to be part of this community, so I can see a valid point in keeping it under wraps and not becoming too big. Its easier to manage.
However, this community is also part of a sort of brotherhood. So there are instances were we will get together and hang out, and talk about all that we have in common... and for most of us, sarging is the only thing that we have in common with other members of this board.
Just an outside observation. Continue with regularly scheduled programming.
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Finesse, I agree with you to an extent. Yes, there are guys here that have no desire to be associated with said Community. Sometimes, I feel as though I'm one of them in that I hide my 'nights' from my 'days.' I understand the reason that these guys remain unknown.
However, the Community isn't only about picking up chicks. It's also about building bonds with each other. Most of us enter the Community with the idea that we want to get laid and surround ourselves with women, but find ourselves making great friendships with our brothers. This, in my opinion, is the most rewarding aspect of the Community.
The fact is that I'm on still here because I have friends that I made through here and because I believe in this movement. If it weren't for those two things, you'd never see or hear from me again.
The Community taught me how to get pussy, how to keep pussy...but ironically, it also taught me that some things are more important than pussy.
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by Guest » Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:33 am
i agree with you BR.
When you think of your hot little car, that i too would love to own, what all do you think about? When you first bought it, did you think about all the tail you could get with it should you so choose, did you think about how pretty you looked driven it? How sexy the exhaust sounds as you're flying down the highway? What about that engine uh? That thing is supposed to be able to beat a Porsche... Or did you think about all the payments you were gonna have to make? The amount your insurance probably went up, unless you had the same type of car. The fact that for it to stay pretty you have to change the oil, check the tires, refill fluids, wash and wax it, or clean and vacuum the inside on a regular basis? What about that rising fuel cost? Its limited in how many it can seat.
We all think of specific things meeting specific criteria for whatever situation we are in at any given time.
All I'm saying is that we can argue till we're blue in the face that the community is more than meets the eye, but for some, the price of that car payment and the increase in insurance is just too much.
It never hurts to point out though, that the community is more than meets the eye.
When you think of your hot little car, that i too would love to own, what all do you think about? When you first bought it, did you think about all the tail you could get with it should you so choose, did you think about how pretty you looked driven it? How sexy the exhaust sounds as you're flying down the highway? What about that engine uh? That thing is supposed to be able to beat a Porsche... Or did you think about all the payments you were gonna have to make? The amount your insurance probably went up, unless you had the same type of car. The fact that for it to stay pretty you have to change the oil, check the tires, refill fluids, wash and wax it, or clean and vacuum the inside on a regular basis? What about that rising fuel cost? Its limited in how many it can seat.
We all think of specific things meeting specific criteria for whatever situation we are in at any given time.
All I'm saying is that we can argue till we're blue in the face that the community is more than meets the eye, but for some, the price of that car payment and the increase in insurance is just too much.
It never hurts to point out though, that the community is more than meets the eye.
- Guest
by Guest » Sat Oct 18, 2008 12:01 pm
well this is really 2 different topics that have gotten mixed..
I think the original challenge was more towards the fact that for many, reading theory/tactics, KJing, is a very safe and easy thing to do, and let's a lot of people feel like they know something and are really making a change and improving, when in fact they are not because they never actually apply it in the field. That was how i interpreted it ... more people would find the time to come out and listen to someone talk about PU, rather than coming out and actually doing it.
Without any regard to community stigma since they are coming out to some form of event...
I think the original challenge was more towards the fact that for many, reading theory/tactics, KJing, is a very safe and easy thing to do, and let's a lot of people feel like they know something and are really making a change and improving, when in fact they are not because they never actually apply it in the field. That was how i interpreted it ... more people would find the time to come out and listen to someone talk about PU, rather than coming out and actually doing it.
Without any regard to community stigma since they are coming out to some form of event...
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by Guest » Sat Oct 18, 2008 3:58 pm
A true alpha male knows who he is, what he wants, and he doesn't apologize for it.
My challenge is still out there. I want to inspire everyone to be their best alpha selves.
Don't hide from your left hand what your right hand is doing, that is bullshit.
If people are ashamed of being in the community, it would be healthier for those people to have nothing to do with the community and that includes going to hear some dude talk.
My challenge is still out there. I want to inspire everyone to be their best alpha selves.
Don't hide from your left hand what your right hand is doing, that is bullshit.
If people are ashamed of being in the community, it would be healthier for those people to have nothing to do with the community and that includes going to hear some dude talk.
- Guest
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