by Guest » Tue Sep 23, 2008 11:38 am
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So is it just the insecure personalities that have an issue with too much value in relation to themselves?
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I would put it this way, it's insecure BEHAVIORS that are the underlying cause of these problems in almost all cases, in my opinion, when we're talking about a loss of attraction. I wouldn't peg some people as secure and others as insecure, because it's never all or none.
Attraction is NOT a rational process, it's a knee-jerk reaction. As you're attracted to a nice rack, a woman is attracted to a confident personality. As someone said, attraction is not a choice.
But confidence is something nobody has 100% of the time.