LR: Sleek loses his virginity

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I was just mad when I found out all the truth bout women. They would cheat and lie. I always thought women were innocent and good. I had this ideal image of women... until I learned pickup. It revealed the whole truth bout them and how fucked up they could be. Pick up taught me that this world is not a nice place. I was angry at women. I think I worded it wrong. Sorry if I offended you in any way. I was angry at girls because I learned the truth (such as fellow puas fuckin married girls or engaged girls etc) However, not all women are same... I was missing lots pieces. I have learned my lesson today.
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Ya, they can do that. But a few things about that. Every person is different, and where you meet them will give you a generally good idea of what kinda person they can tend to be. Meeting a girl in a bar or club usually means she isint gonna be the kind you take home to meet mom.
To treat people like shite on accident is one thing, to be a liar, manipulator on PURPOSE is a dirty, dirty thing to do. Hell I knew the "truth" about women when I was 13 when I saw my mom cheat on my dad, if I'm judging by your terms. Has that experience kept me from having both meaningfull as well as purely sexual relationships with girls? No.

I'm not sure how having sex just once turns you into a woman hater. The good ones can be incredibly sweet, warm and responsive, and trustworthy. Many girls are dirty little hoes, you dont want to keep around for the long term. Hit it and quit it. You will meet both kinds

Learn to be discerning on what you want. Never feel guilty for liking a girl. EVER.

I'm not sure what "lesson" you learned today, but you might want to go back and re-examine a few things.

BTW, CONGRATS on losing the V-card!!! Welcome to a whole new world!

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Congrats man!

Number one thing tho:
Don't put yourself down or feel bad for doing 'shitty'...I'm pretty sure most people didn't know what the hell they where doing their first time.

I sure as hell didn't, and I made a complete fool of myself...ask me in person next time and I'll give you the story.
I guarantee its more embarrassing than yours.

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No.... That's not what I meant. I am not hatin girls after having sex yesterday... My hatred started when I learned the truth bout them until tomorrow. I had connection with her. It was genuine... I learned that I was wrong all along.

lesson I learned was what you exactly described. Not all girls are dirty little hoes. This girl was sweet, warm, and nice. That is the lesson I learned. Not all girls are same and there are sweet girls out there.

thx el fenix!

Sleek



ps. thx grimm for advices! :)

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haha thx alphamo!
we soon need to hang again. hope you have been doin good.

btw, I think I like cuddlin more than sex lol. is that normal for a guy? or am i being gay? LOL

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btw, I think I like cuddlin more than sex lol. is that normal for a guy? or am i being gay? LOL
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Yeah that is a little GAY!

I think you just have some anxiety about sex because you are worried about your performance. Hence why you were losing your erection during sex.

Just get outside of your head for a minute and go nuts. I guarantee going nuts will be much better for her then some gay homo love making gayness.

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HAHA dude congratz man... I want tosee how hot this girl was. Anyways yeah lets hit it up sometimes soon. This reminds me a bit of 24's first LR in the game

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btw, I think I like cuddlin more than sex lol. is that normal for a guy? or am i being gay? LOL
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Yeah that is a little GAY!

I think you just have some anxiety about sex because you are worried about your performance. Hence why you were losing your erection during sex.

Just get outside of your head for a minute and go nuts. I guarantee going nuts will be much better for her then some gay homo love making gayness.


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The ONLY times I enjoy cuddling more than fucking is when I'm not really all that attracted to the chick I'm with...which pretty much never happens these days...

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congrat's man....i'm happy for ya

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PC: yeah you were exactly right. I really liked her so I wanted to put a good show for her lol. I was thinking in terms of performance during sex... Next time I will try going nuts.

Acuity: thx man. I sent a pic of her to unclehowie lol. He thinks she is super cute and wants me to introduce him to her lol. btw who is 24?

BR: That's good for you. I guess I am not like you. I was attracted to her, but was enjoyin cuddlin with her more... I think it's because I was really terrible at sex and had lots anxiety that made me not enjoy sex as much.

Rembrandt: thx man. I am happy for your LTR, too. Hope everything is going the way you want it to with her. Keep in touch man. good luck!

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Quite often I hear women tell me that "cuddling" is quite high on their list of things they enjoy! Just food for thought.