How would you respond?

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let us know how you replied and her response.

This will be a good frame control exercise regardless...especially if you two end up out one night(she's already tried to in her opening salvo). She's going to try to shift the frame and it's your job to hold your frame and steer it to whatever direction YOU want it to go

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Imager:

Haven't read that book. Maybe I will have to check it out sometime, thanks. I can't so much answer your questions because I don't know this girl that well and I'm having trouble remembering our conversation from that night.

Lion,

I want to fuck her, I want her around, but I have rules about how fast I commit to anything. I remember this girl was talking about relationships and weddings and babies the night I took her home. Not so fast.

PC,

Thanks bro.

Top Dog,

My relationship rule is not bendable at all, so yes it is "take it or leave it." I LOVE your C&F answer, it made me crack up laughing! I agree with you that this is a challenge on her part and the ONLY way to handle it is to dismiss it somehow or at least be unaffected. I'm not trying to dump on C&F, I know it works, it just isn't my weapon of choice for a variety of reasons.

Sleek,

what's up sleek?

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So thinking about it, I believe I actually saw this girl at Uptown on Saturday Night. Maybe? I remember seeing a girl that I thought might be her, and commenting to myself, but then I forgot. I was very hammered so I don't remember...

If so, it is possible that she would have seen me making out with a different girl at the bar. That could change things I suppose...

Man this girl is getting under my skin!!!! That's bad. I'm so fucking curious now, which makes me want to have her.



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Hold on slick. I never said commit. Just be strong and don't cave in to being ONLY friends. Stick it through and most likely she will be chasing you. But then again there is more than one way to play the game. Good luck to you.

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Hold on slick. I never said commit. Just be strong and don't cave in to being ONLY friends. Stick it through and most likely she will be chasing you. But then again there is more than one way to play the game. Good luck to you.
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HAHA!!! That "Commit" word.


"Never Commit, Never Surrender." ****in the voice of Tim Allen in Galaxy Quest "Never Give up, Never Surrender".

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Lion,

Some people say I AM pretty slick. Others call it "class." Me, I say like this - dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today.

hahaha i robbed that last line.



Top Dog,

"Only if we put up some ground rules. Rule #1, no drinking together."

Sexual tension, buddy.