Fun Times in the Fast lane Friday Nt.

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Let me preface this little story by saying strip clubs are my home turf. I've spent enough time in one and sharpened my skillz so I always end up having a good time.

My #1 wing and I had planned a little party at one of Dallas's adult ballets! ( . )Y( . ) & ( ! ). Its byob and we had plenty of alcohol for everybody! We also made sure to invite the right players and a few non-working girls that liked what the adult ballet had to offer!

Anyhooters, I had invited this smoking little spinner(HB9) who I had went out with on a "just friends" date a few weeks ago. We have been flirting with each other online and I had a feeling she was just as interested as I was in something more than just friends. I thought I'd just see how things would roll out. The "just friends" was my idea. I had never employed that strategy on a girl nor have I heard anybody use it before. So I thought wtf. Hahaha, it works!

Before my HB9 gets there I am busy hustling the honies & collecting numbers. HB9 is texting me that she's running late but is on her way. So to thicken up the "just friends" game, I text her that she better hurry up because I can't handle all of these strippers by myself. HB9 told me on our first date she liked strippers and I knew she was a little freak from the start. "you can just tell"..right???..hahahhaha. I also told HB9 that I'd got several phone numbers from these strippers and she better get there before I had every girls number and there were none left for her!

She finally gets there and she is definitely dressed for good times!.....Hot sexy skin tight little black party dress. She looked sexier than half the dancers in there. She sits right down on my lap and we've got some other girls socializing at the "fun" table! HB9 is super comfortable right away. Next thing I know shes grinding her little poonie poon poon against me and takes my hand in between her legs! Hahahhaha I'm McLuvin it!!!! SHE HAS NO PANTIES ON and shes turned on already. So I smile and make a comment about us still being "just friends". Next thing she let my buddy catch a peak of her privates while I was fingering her right at our table! Fucking $$$$$$ blinga linga dinga.

Later on I find a girl that I knew that my HB9 would be attracted to and have got both of these girls on my lap. I wisper into HB9's ear and ask her if she wants a dance from this girl. Of course she does. So I tell the dancer and they get up to go to the back. HB9 turns around and asks me if I want to come watch!!!! lmfao, who am I to tell 2 hotties "NO" I don't want to see you guys munch rug together!!!!!!

3:30 rolls around and we decide we better head home. On the way home some drunk was heading south down the north bound lanes of 75 and hit a car head on. The drunk lived, and the 2 people in the car he hit are killed on impact. We happen to be 30 seconds behind the initial impact and hit a wheel that broke off one of the crashed cars. Our car gets jacked up and requires a wrecker. I was riding with HB9 when it happened and she got shook up real bad. I stepped up to the plate and took control of the situation. I also made sure I comforted her emotionally. Later on she told me how impressed she was with how I took control of everything! Women like assertiveness.

We get back to my house at 6am SAturday morning with my buddies and HB9. HB9 has already got it in her mind that shes sleeping with me. We end up playing around with each other in between naps until late that day.

She hints around that she wants to go out Saturday nt. so I'm down with that. I take her home and then pick her up later Saturday nt. and shes already got her "sleepwear" ready. She had it in her little mind that she was already spending the night with me again. Had to laugh....silly girls.

Later that night she's in my bed and asks me "did you read a book on how to get what you want from a woman?".............I'm laughing my fucking ass off inside thinking about my fellow pua's and everything I've learned from you guys. So I just grin and give her a big kiss and take it as a compliment.

Good times it was. Theres nothing better than being laid up with a sexy woman half the weekend.

Somethings I learned about building attraction with a woman:
1. Dress sexy
2. Be assertive
3. Let these women compete for the #1 spot.
4. Put them all on a points system and reward them with points when they do something you like. (HB9 and I got out of bed today and she insists on making my bed for me. She asks how many points it would be worth. I tell her ohhhh maybe 2 or 3. Naturally she thinks it should be worth more. So I tell her, well maybe if you were topless when you made my bed!!!! lol, she ripped that shirt right off and made that bed.....I rewarded her with 6pts.
5. Be open with your feelings. Show them you've got emotions.
6. Tell stories about your relationships with others that demonstrate you have value. For instance I always let these girls know that my niece and the neighbor kid are important to me in my life and I fill a "father-ly" role for them.
7. Ask these girls about their kids if they have any.

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4. Put them all on a points system and reward them with points when they do something you like. (HB9 and I got out of bed today and she insists on making my bed for me. She asks how many points it would be worth. I tell her ohhhh maybe 2 or 3. Naturally she thinks it should be worth more. So I tell her, well maybe if you were topless when you made my bed!!!! lol, she ripped that shirt right off and made that bed.....I rewarded her with 6pts.

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damn. scary story there about the accident.

I was going to post about this, good point HS.

For some reason chicks love(and hate!) the point system. I use this regularly, and i will find any reason to deduct points(escpecially before a meetup). It's great for a setting the frame and just a fun little game. And it drives them nuts, they think about it. Just last night i got a text from my fri/sat FR girl, i deducted some points on sunday... "By the way, your point system suckssssss" lol

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Tell me more about this point system.

What is the point? Is there some grand total they try to achieve to get to?

Or is it just a funny way to measure good and bad?

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Tell me more about this point system.

What is the point? Is there some grand total they try to achieve to get to?

Or is it just a funny way to measure good and bad?
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its ridiculously stupid, i don't know why they play along. women are curious little creatures. but it seems to really get to them. lol

you can give points. I like to actually like to first TAKE points cause then they look to earn them back. Most often, they'll do something and ask me if they earned their points back. :) And by finding some reason to take points(especially before a meetup) it just is a fun way to shift frame that they are already BEHIND and must earn back. it's hard to believe it works typing it, but i've never not had it work. almost hate talking about it. :)

use it lightly and very sparingly with each girl very early. i use it only 1-2x with each.

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Yeah TopDog offered some good info.

Every now and then I'll tell them they have to earn 10pts before I take them out. The more "competitive" her personality the more they'll enjoy this silly game. I continue the game until they aren't giving me feedback that they are still enjoying it.

Using the points game to build attraction/qualify a woman goes back to the idea that you are the prize. The best way to seal the deal with any woman is to get her to work for you. It also gets across the point that you are strong and non-needy which attracts women.

When they start giving you points its a good indicator they they are enjoying the game and interested in you.

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I've done the points thing many times, what it does is set the frame that she is the one who has to impress you and you're the one who decides whether you're impressed. It's kind of like saying "you get a gold star for that" or "you get a sticker for that" or anything. Works the same way, but those also throw up a fun/childish frame.

Careful though cause you can overdo it which causes resentment.

I once had my ex girlfriend exclaim "well now i know who i need to impress around here!" and storm out.