They are only high quality, attractive, have-it-together girls. They aren't all fresh lays - some of these girls I have been seeing for quite a while.
Great girls bring other great girls.
Just be selective, fuck when you decide to, not when you have the opportunity to and you will build a brand around yourself of a selective man.
There are many, many times when I am talking to a very physically attractive woman but after I qualify her, I realize I don't want her in my life and I move on. Or I realize that I would never want to date her so I keep her as a friend.
The choice is yours. Don't be a chaser. Be a chooser.
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by Guest » Thu Aug 14, 2008 1:28 pm
i think twitchy was saying those girls he slept with were girls he had had 'in the pipeline' already... not women he just met...
[quote]However, I had been selectively working these girls over the course of several months - they weren't chance pick ups with some skank at a bar.[/quote]
[quote]However, I had been selectively working these girls over the course of several months - they weren't chance pick ups with some skank at a bar.[/quote]
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Aug 14, 2008 4:35 pm
[quote1218749669=grimm1111]
[quote1218749353=Twitchy]
[quote1218727600=playercool]
[quote1218677970=grimm1111]
[quote1218672032=Twitchy]
Actually, I purposely don't f-close quite often the first opportunity or two that I have.
I like to build sexual suspense. Its fun and if you are looking for a relationship, it lays down a solid foundation that you are not just in it for the lay.
Sometimes, I will hold off several times until the girl is either begging or demanding that we have sex.
Nothing like teasing and turning the tables.... Plus, when you are indifferent to the lay, you stand out from every other guy out there.
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Or she will think you're gay/uncomfortable/weird. Better move is to fuck her. Even if you want a relationship.
[/quote1218677970]
Gotta agree...
But to each their own.
I also like to fuck as soon as possible because it just changes everything with the relationship.
Just like with everything in this community there are no set rules. No one is ever correct.
[/quote1218727600]
Gay? Weird? Seriously?
I fuck 4 - 7 different girls a week, every week. Last Sunday, I had sex with 4 girls in one day. That is not uncommon fo me. However, I had been selectively working these girls over the course of several months - they weren't chance pick ups with some skank at a bar. Girls know I am not gay or weird. Instead, they think that I am picky, selective, know how to use my dick and not afraid to use it which is what I want them to think because its true.
A few weeks ago, I stopped seeing my #1. That very day, word got out in my social circle that I was suddenly "single" again and 5 girls called me and asked me out. One even offered to fly me to Miami for a weekend. Why did this happen? Not because I am God's gift to women but because they know that I am a high value guy who has high standards and knows how to treat women. I turned down all 5 because they weren't my type (or I would have already been trying to date them). Its about personal branding. You are who people think you are. If you fuck anything, people will know you for that. If you are selective and high value, word gets out and women try to meet your standards.
One thing most guys in the community don't do is truly qualify. They pretend to but they don't really. It is just an imaginary step they do for a few minutes while they are trying to pick up a girl. Most guys are so desperate for female attention that they will take any cute girl that they can get, not ones that they truly value.
Try really qualifying a girl as a change. And by that, I mean get to know them, decide if they are worth your time and attention and then DECIDE to sleep with them. (not just get the opportunity to sleep with them) If you are just out for a lay, that is one thing. But if you are really looking for someone you enjoy spending time with, holding off on sex until you decide they are worthy is magic. Trust me.
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[/quote1218749669]
I'm just going to flat out say it - I don't believe you.
You've come out of nowhere, I have never seen you out. To me it seems like every post you write, you are trying to qualify yourself and impress random dudes on an internet board.
If you were that awesome, I don't think you'd take every opportunity possible to point it out.
However, I don't KNOW that this is bullshit. Hey man if it's true, then you are a better PUA than I am. In fact that would make you the best PUA I know.
No hard feelings but I'm just calling it like I see it. I could be wrong.
[quote1218749353=Twitchy]
[quote1218727600=playercool]
[quote1218677970=grimm1111]
[quote1218672032=Twitchy]
Actually, I purposely don't f-close quite often the first opportunity or two that I have.
I like to build sexual suspense. Its fun and if you are looking for a relationship, it lays down a solid foundation that you are not just in it for the lay.
Sometimes, I will hold off several times until the girl is either begging or demanding that we have sex.
Nothing like teasing and turning the tables.... Plus, when you are indifferent to the lay, you stand out from every other guy out there.
[/quote1218672032]
Or she will think you're gay/uncomfortable/weird. Better move is to fuck her. Even if you want a relationship.
[/quote1218677970]
Gotta agree...
But to each their own.
I also like to fuck as soon as possible because it just changes everything with the relationship.
Just like with everything in this community there are no set rules. No one is ever correct.
[/quote1218727600]
Gay? Weird? Seriously?
I fuck 4 - 7 different girls a week, every week. Last Sunday, I had sex with 4 girls in one day. That is not uncommon fo me. However, I had been selectively working these girls over the course of several months - they weren't chance pick ups with some skank at a bar. Girls know I am not gay or weird. Instead, they think that I am picky, selective, know how to use my dick and not afraid to use it which is what I want them to think because its true.
A few weeks ago, I stopped seeing my #1. That very day, word got out in my social circle that I was suddenly "single" again and 5 girls called me and asked me out. One even offered to fly me to Miami for a weekend. Why did this happen? Not because I am God's gift to women but because they know that I am a high value guy who has high standards and knows how to treat women. I turned down all 5 because they weren't my type (or I would have already been trying to date them). Its about personal branding. You are who people think you are. If you fuck anything, people will know you for that. If you are selective and high value, word gets out and women try to meet your standards.
One thing most guys in the community don't do is truly qualify. They pretend to but they don't really. It is just an imaginary step they do for a few minutes while they are trying to pick up a girl. Most guys are so desperate for female attention that they will take any cute girl that they can get, not ones that they truly value.
Try really qualifying a girl as a change. And by that, I mean get to know them, decide if they are worth your time and attention and then DECIDE to sleep with them. (not just get the opportunity to sleep with them) If you are just out for a lay, that is one thing. But if you are really looking for someone you enjoy spending time with, holding off on sex until you decide they are worthy is magic. Trust me.
[/quote1218749353]
[/quote1218749669]
I'm just going to flat out say it - I don't believe you.
You've come out of nowhere, I have never seen you out. To me it seems like every post you write, you are trying to qualify yourself and impress random dudes on an internet board.
If you were that awesome, I don't think you'd take every opportunity possible to point it out.
However, I don't KNOW that this is bullshit. Hey man if it's true, then you are a better PUA than I am. In fact that would make you the best PUA I know.
No hard feelings but I'm just calling it like I see it. I could be wrong.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Aug 14, 2008 5:12 pm
Justice - you seem like a cool guy but I'm not trying to challenge anyone in that way despite how it sounds. That would be an unfair dickhead move on my part if I haven't already crossed that line. Chances are that this guy Twitchy is a cool guy and who knows, maybe he is everything he claims.
I feel we need to have some integrity on this board, that's why I fully am happy to call myself "Intermediate to Advanced" or somewhere in that range, not great.
If the people on this board who I know and trust tell me it's true, that'll be enough for me. I'll believe it.
I feel we need to have some integrity on this board, that's why I fully am happy to call myself "Intermediate to Advanced" or somewhere in that range, not great.
If the people on this board who I know and trust tell me it's true, that'll be enough for me. I'll believe it.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Aug 14, 2008 6:59 pm
[quote1218758166=grimm1111]
I'm just going to flat out say it - I don't believe you.
You've come out of nowhere, I have never seen you out. To me it seems like every post you write, you are trying to qualify yourself and impress random dudes on an internet board.
If you were that awesome, I don't think you'd take every opportunity possible to point it out.
However, I don't KNOW that this is bullshit. Hey man if it's true, then you are a better PUA than I am. In fact that would make you the best PUA I know.
No hard feelings but I'm just calling it like I see it. I could be wrong.
[/quote1218758166]
Grimm, I am not trying to impress you or anyone else. I have been in the community for over 2 years now and am just trying to impart some wisdom and some lessons learned. Take it or leave it as you wish.
I don't post as often as I used to because I have a busy life.
I'm just going to flat out say it - I don't believe you.
You've come out of nowhere, I have never seen you out. To me it seems like every post you write, you are trying to qualify yourself and impress random dudes on an internet board.
If you were that awesome, I don't think you'd take every opportunity possible to point it out.
However, I don't KNOW that this is bullshit. Hey man if it's true, then you are a better PUA than I am. In fact that would make you the best PUA I know.
No hard feelings but I'm just calling it like I see it. I could be wrong.
[/quote1218758166]
Grimm, I am not trying to impress you or anyone else. I have been in the community for over 2 years now and am just trying to impart some wisdom and some lessons learned. Take it or leave it as you wish.
I don't post as often as I used to because I have a busy life.
- Guest
by Guest » Thu Aug 14, 2008 11:54 pm
[quote1218775105=grimm1111]
I'm just going to flat out say it - I don't believe you.
You've come out of nowhere, I have never seen you out. To me it seems like every post you write, you are trying to qualify yourself and impress random dudes on an internet board.
If you were that awesome, I don't think you'd take every opportunity possible to point it out.
However, I don't KNOW that this is bullshit. Hey man if it's true, then you are a better PUA than I am. In fact that would make you the best PUA I know.
No hard feelings but I'm just calling it like I see it. I could be wrong.
[/quote1218775105]
I've known Twitchy for a while now and he is for real. Twitchy is among the best PUAs I know. But if you're Hugh Hefner you don't need to do cold-approach or "pick-up" in the usual sense of the word.
I'm just going to flat out say it - I don't believe you.
You've come out of nowhere, I have never seen you out. To me it seems like every post you write, you are trying to qualify yourself and impress random dudes on an internet board.
If you were that awesome, I don't think you'd take every opportunity possible to point it out.
However, I don't KNOW that this is bullshit. Hey man if it's true, then you are a better PUA than I am. In fact that would make you the best PUA I know.
No hard feelings but I'm just calling it like I see it. I could be wrong.
[/quote1218775105]
I've known Twitchy for a while now and he is for real. Twitchy is among the best PUAs I know. But if you're Hugh Hefner you don't need to do cold-approach or "pick-up" in the usual sense of the word.
- Guest
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