FR: Why oh why?

[Guest]

Last night I went to a happy hour birthday celebration for a co-worker at Sherlocks, which by the way is a totally different place before night fall, totally. The chicks are actually HOTTER but they're ALL in mixed sets, which would be their co-workers I imagine.

Anyway, I get there and join the group. I had no intentions to sarge that night, and for the most part, didn't.

The waitress was cute though so I did throw down some game on her throughout the evening. Which was kind of difficult because I had already successfully bedded three of the chicks in our group...I'm such a whore. The three of them saw right through my game, I suppose they recognized the way I was talking to the waitress and sort of understood what was going on. Which brings up a million questions that I'd love to ask them, but whatever. The waitress eventually shot me down when I went for the number close...she said something like she has a feeling a lot of women aren't too happy with me or something like that. Probably one of the funnier blow outs I've ever had.

But, that's not the point of this FR.

The group is drinking and laughing and whatever. The group starts thinning out around 8/9pm. Which is when shit starting getting interesting. There are only 4 of us left by 10pm. I routinely get up from the table to walk the room and eventually do open a couple of sets but nothing really special, just average girls.

The other 3 decide to bounce to a local pool hall and invite me to come with...what the hell right? Nothing doing at Sherlocks and it's freaking midnight so what the hell else am I going to do right?

Turns out one of the 4 was really into me, BIG time and she let me know it at the pool hall. The problem? She was married. But, I couldn't stop myself from playing along...escalating the interaction, building the sexual tension even though she was married.

So, I decided it was time to leave...just because you can doesn't mean you should. Right? Right!

Unfortunately, she followed. She walks out with me to my car. I'm totally ignoring her...totally. She just keeps walking and talking. Right when we get to the car she pulls this ninja-esque move on me and somehow manages to slip between me and the car she's facing me with her back to the car.

Then the bitch opens the car door and sits the drivers seat.

Me: "What the hell are you doing?"
Her: "Do you want me to move?"
Me: "Yeah, I do..."
Her: She proceeds to climb over the center console to the passenger seat.
Me: "That's not what I meant..."
Her: "Just drive me back to my car..."
Me: "Fuck you. Get out!"
Her: "Just drive me back to my car..."

So, I drive her over to her car...which is literally 40 feet away...lazy bitch.

Me: "Get out..."
Her: "Do you want me to get out?"
Me: "Yep"
Her: "Why?"
Me: "Because I want you to get out of my car so I can go home."
Her: "Where do you live?"
Me: "The M Streets...get out."
Her: "That's too far..."
Me: "What the fuck? Too far? Get out!"
Her: "Drive around to the back of the building."
Me: "Why? Are you going to murder me? Seriously. Get. Out."
Her: "I want to suck your dick..."

She's married guys. I knew this. I should have stopped the interaction well before this point. I'd love to say that I didn't drive around to the back of the building and that nothing happened...but I can't. I'd love to say that I did this because I was drunk or because I hadn't gotten laid in a while...but I can't.

Jesus!!!

I didn't get into this shit to nail married chicks! Just because you can doesn't mean you should...why oh why can't I follow that motto all the time?

I just feel disappointed in myself...I thought I was stronger than that you know?

[Guest]

LMFAO, I'm calling BULLSHIT on ye' ole BULLRUN! you fucking loved it you slut.

[Guest]

hahaha yeah i know!!
i'm callin bs on u too!
u wanted it, son!!

[Guest]

That is the problem man. It is so easy to say you wouldn't do this or that but when it presents itself...that is when your true nature comes out.

Just another slap in the face to society and marriage.

Where o where are the quality girls????????

I suspect this ladies marriage is already on the rocks. I suspect that she has done this before. I suspect her husband has as well. I suspect they had no business getting married in the first place.

[Guest]

It's not like you were some sort of predator searching for the lonely housewife. She wanted it and when she saw you didn't want it she pressured you. Don't beat yourself up over it.

If you feel bad because of your rule, then next time just tell her, "I have a rule..." and she might back off (and gain respect for you at the same time).

[Guest]

Yea I gotta agree with the other people calling you on this Bull... you know how you say women decide if they're going to sleep with a guy before the opportunity arises? I think this time BOTH OF YOU had already decided that :) The only reason I say you had decided it as well... well the flirting and escalation I can maybe get past... but the argument at the car with her... you knew what she was after and could've said 'I don't do married women' or [insert statement here] but you didn't say any of that... :) before you got in the car you knew she was gonna be suckin' your dick moments later!!! don't lie!! lol

[Guest]

Justice:

True. But the fact that I decided to fuck her in my car, which was quiet a feat fucking thing is small, still disappoints me. I knew she was married, yet I still went for it...like I said, I thought I was better than that.

[Guest]

BR, how hot was she? lol not that that matters in a moral sense but it's hard to turn down a hottie throwin' herself at you :) i know what you mean about hoping you'd say no, but I think just about everyone here probably would've done the same thing. you knew what she was offering and would've been turning down guaranteed hot sex -- not easy unless the chick is a total turn off to you

[Guest]

I had a situation that was not quite the same but evoked the same emotions as you seem to be having BR. I was out of town for a conference with a girl in my program who is married. Not only that but we work together closely and I see her multiple times per week. Plus I know her husband and think he is a cool guy.

We got a hotel and somehow got stuck with 1 bed for the 2 of us. The first night everything was fine. The next day we met up with a friend of mine from undergrad and he showed us around. We went out and had some drinks. When the girl and I got back to the hotel, she kept giving me the fuck me eyes. I ignored it and we both got into bed. Both of us were in our underwear. She kept hinting that she wanted to fool around saying things like, "I wish I would have dated around more before I got married," talking about how she wants to be with a girl and how she likes to experiment. She ran her fingers through my hair. I got up to piss and literally was having an argument with my penis.

I went back and shit was the same. She gave me a backrub and then we talked a bit more. Then I gave her a backrub and straddled her while doing it (she was only wearing a thong and a top). She gave me another backrub and was pushing her vag into my ass during it. Finally, I had enough turned over and we started making out. No resistance for at least 3-4 minutes. We were groping each other and then I went to take out a tit and she stopped me. I am glad she did now.

Surprisingly the next day was fine. She didn't care that it had happened and even hinted at it. I still felt guilty bc I don't want to break up a marriage. Later that night it came up again and I said, "It is probably good that we didn't go any further," and she said "Yeah, but it would have been fun."

She has sent me a couple flirty messages since we have been back and looks at me differently (like she wants me). I have made sure to treat her no different than before because I am not going to do that shit...

[Guest]

Dude I have more respect for you Sal. You always gave good advices, and I see how strong your will is.

I turned down 18 yr old blonde dancer because I wanted her only for sex. I would have gone for it if she was normal 18 yr old girl... However, she has a baby at her age. I am sure she has been hurt by a guy and I just couldn't get myself to just use her for sex. I am kind of proud of myself for not going for it.