Field Report- Never underestimate the power of honesty

[Guest]

Actually, I purposely don't f-close quite often the first opportunity or two that I have.

I like to build sexual suspense. Its fun and if you are looking for a relationship, it lays down a solid foundation that you are not just in it for the lay.

Sometimes, I will hold off several times until the girl is either begging or demanding that we have sex.

Nothing like teasing and turning the tables.... Plus, when you are indifferent to the lay, you stand out from every other guy out there.

[Guest]

When I care about the girl and think she might be worth keeping I don’t f’close. If I do f’close right away, I just end up losing interest in her very quickly. Its all about building attraction if you want to keep them, no matter if its in the first 15minutes of meeting her or 3 dates later. I’ve got a HB8.5 Cougar right now that I’ve taken out on 3 dates so far. First date this girl is busy telling me how she “is not THAT girl” who puts out on a first date. I had to laugh when I heard that. Later that night she pulls me into her apartment and is asking me where I am staying! Second date she is pouring me a drink after we got back to her apartment. We had drank plenty already at the bar. I tell her I’m only drinking that if I’m staying here tonight! She tells me “of course you are, I'm not letting you go anywhere”. We get into her bed within 5min & shes totally naked. I almost gave in but just played with her. Next morning her girlfriend calls her up and the first thing out of her gf’s mouth was “did you have sex with him?”. She replies “no, he was a total gentleman but were working on that”!
She had told me how easy her girlfriend was and was not impressed with it. So I knew from that statement what I needed to not do if I wanted something serious with this girl. Sometimes these girls will test you! Nobody respects anything that comes easy either.

By now I’ve got some desire & feelings built which escalate attraction. I've also demonstrated that I'm not easy and set my self above a lot of guys who try to fuck as soon as they can. There's a little seduction & mystery that gets created with her. I knew on the first date she would have had sex, but I thought why??? Whats another 2 or 3 weeks for someone that I might end up liking.

[Guest]

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Actually, I purposely don't f-close quite often the first opportunity or two that I have.

I like to build sexual suspense. Its fun and if you are looking for a relationship, it lays down a solid foundation that you are not just in it for the lay.

Sometimes, I will hold off several times until the girl is either begging or demanding that we have sex.

Nothing like teasing and turning the tables.... Plus, when you are indifferent to the lay, you stand out from every other guy out there.
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Or she will think you're gay/uncomfortable/weird. Better move is to fuck her. Even if you want a relationship.

[Guest]

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[quote1218672032=Twitchy]
Actually, I purposely don't f-close quite often the first opportunity or two that I have.

I like to build sexual suspense. Its fun and if you are looking for a relationship, it lays down a solid foundation that you are not just in it for the lay.

Sometimes, I will hold off several times until the girl is either begging or demanding that we have sex.

Nothing like teasing and turning the tables.... Plus, when you are indifferent to the lay, you stand out from every other guy out there.
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Or she will think you're gay/uncomfortable/weird. Better move is to fuck her. Even if you want a relationship.

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Gotta agree...

But to each their own.

I also like to fuck as soon as possible because it just changes everything with the relationship.

Just like with everything in this community there are no set rules. No one is ever correct.

[Guest]

Day 3 just set for Sunday... Here's the text message thread:
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Me: How's ur Sunday look? I'm thinking your world famous lasagna and a movie.

Her: Hmmm. I think that's doable. My lasagna really is something everyone needs at least once... :)

Me: Wow- now I really gotta get a taste...but if it's that good I'll be coming back for seconds. Why don't you come by at 3.

Her: ok- see you then:)
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gay/uncomfortable/weird? not likely.

[Guest]

[quote1218681484=leonydas]
Day 3 just set for Sunday... Here's the text message thread:
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Me: How's ur Sunday look? I'm thinking your world famous lasagna and a movie.

Her: Hmmm. I think that's doable. My lasagna really is something everyone needs at least once... :)

Me: Wow- now I really gotta get a taste...but if it's that good I'll be coming back for seconds. Why don't you come by at 3.

Her: ok- see you then:)
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gay/uncomfortable/weird? not likely.
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See i love your pickup style man because it's straightforward.

Still think you should have fucked her though. That's a trend I find in a lot of the more mature PUAs - the waiting to fuck her part that is.

Still, if it makes YOU more confident then I suppose that's what matters.

[Guest]

Thanks Grimm- appreciate it. And I completely agree- there is no right or wrong game...it's all individual. What does matter is if you're getting better at your own game- Are you better this week than you were last week...

Just one correction tho- because I like to set the record straight...

It's the other way around- I can wait to fuck because I'm confident I will.

I'll catch up with you guys Friday...

[Guest]

[quote1218727600=playercool]
[quote1218677970=grimm1111]
[quote1218672032=Twitchy]
Actually, I purposely don't f-close quite often the first opportunity or two that I have.

I like to build sexual suspense. Its fun and if you are looking for a relationship, it lays down a solid foundation that you are not just in it for the lay.

Sometimes, I will hold off several times until the girl is either begging or demanding that we have sex.

Nothing like teasing and turning the tables.... Plus, when you are indifferent to the lay, you stand out from every other guy out there.
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Or she will think you're gay/uncomfortable/weird. Better move is to fuck her. Even if you want a relationship.

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Gotta agree...

But to each their own.

I also like to fuck as soon as possible because it just changes everything with the relationship.

Just like with everything in this community there are no set rules. No one is ever correct.

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Gay? Weird? Seriously?

I fuck 4 - 7 different girls a week, every week. Last Sunday, I had sex with 4 girls in one day. That is not uncommon fo me. However, I had been selectively working these girls over the course of several months - they weren't chance pick ups with some skank at a bar. Girls know I am not gay or weird. Instead, they think that I am picky, selective, know how to use my dick and not afraid to use it which is what I want them to think because its true.

A few weeks ago, I stopped seeing my #1. That very day, word got out in my social circle that I was suddenly "single" again and 5 girls called me and asked me out. One even offered to fly me to Miami for a weekend. Why did this happen? Not because I am God's gift to women but because they know that I am a high value guy who has high standards and knows how to treat women. I turned down all 5 because they weren't my type (or I would have already been trying to date them). Its about personal branding. You are who people think you are. If you fuck anything, people will know you for that. If you are selective and high value, word gets out and women try to meet your standards.

One thing most guys in the community don't do is truly qualify. They pretend to but they don't really. It is just an imaginary step they do for a few minutes while they are trying to pick up a girl. Most guys are so desperate for female attention that they will take any cute girl that they can get, not ones that they truly value.

Try really qualifying a girl as a change. And by that, I mean get to know them, decide if they are worth your time and attention and then DECIDE to sleep with them. (not just get the opportunity to sleep with them) If you are just out for a lay, that is one thing. But if you are really looking for someone you enjoy spending time with, holding off on sex until you decide they are worthy is magic. Trust me.

[Guest]

Gracias Senor Twitch.

The last girl I passed up sex with referred to me as a "gentleman" for doing so! She didn't say I was weird/gay/or not confident! I'll take that "gentleman" comment and pat myself on the back, I know my actions earned me respect down the road with her. I showed her I wasn't easy and had some depth to me. Too many times in our society people want instant gratification and are willing to compromise themselves to get it.

If I want "physical sex" I'm going to go buy it. Its cheap, its easy, no bs, and those working girls know what they are doing. But if I want "sex with some intimate feeling" which is the best kind there is, it takes some "relationship" building to make it happen. And to me thats worth it.

To each his own. Sex with somebody you actually care about and have a deep connection with is pretty freak'n amazing! Everyone should experience that some time.

[Guest]

I'm confused twitchy. So you are tellin us not to fuck anything (meaning not to put out easy) but u havin sex with 4-7 different girls every week. Isn't that like fuckin almost anything? lol Having sex with 4 girls a day and all seems like having sex with just about anybody u know. But then again, I don't know ur ciircumstances. If you're having sex with so many girls like that, it seems like people will think you fuck anything and don't see much reason to work for you.
I don't know. Maybe I just interpret ur story wrong.