I have been laying a bit low lately mainly because of work but also because I decided to get more serious with my #1. I let most of my other LTRs go, quit going out as much and just focused on building a solid relationship with my #1 with the plans of possibly an engagement in the near future.
Alas, it didn't work out. She became all kinds of drama in the last few months and I gave her an ultimatum to pull her head out of her ass or else but she failed.
That was Thursday. Since Thursday, I re-engaged my social circle which resulted in 4 lays in 4 days. The last one, one of the hottest girls I have ever been with, just left my place. A potential new #1....
Anyway, the purpose of the post. I want to trade time. I can and do get laid anytime by hot women but am seeking an amazing relationship with just 1 girl who I really connect with.
I have an amazing social circle built up that can benefit me most anytime I want it to. It is made up of many friends and friends of friends with a great bunch of guys and girls in it. I am newly motivated to improve my skills and am actively re-engaging my circle that I let go stale. (Shame on me) However, I am ultimately looking for someone to marry and have kids with and don't believe I currently have that someone in my circle. I might but at first blush, it doesn't seem so.
So, since I am very rusty at meeting new people, I would like to trade some time and lessons learned with someone who isn't rusty at cold opening but doesn't necessarily have their game firing on all cylinders and needs help with social circles, day 2s, MLTRs and relationships - things I am VERY good at.
Ideally, this person has a lot of success opening, doesn't use a lot of canned openers, has taken some formal training like Mystery Method and can help motivate me to get back into the cold approach game. They are an opening machine who don't have a problem opening the 9s and 10s which is pretty much all I go for. I don't have approach anxiety at all but live in my own head often and sometimes need a kick in the ass or inspiration to go meet people.
I can share many of the ideas in my head regarding having a social system in place, social circles, relationship management, marketing you as a brand, etc. Many of these concepts I am currently putting into a book I am writing.
I am only asking for a couple of nights (or days) of dedicated winging and sharing ideas. And a partner to open sets, shove me into sets and re-inspire me in the cold game. Your skills do go stale if you ignore them.....
Interested? I normally only frequent more upscale places and usually open women that I am very attracted to.
