Bull Run's Day2 Formula

[Bull Run]

We've just had a lengthy discussion about LMR and I held the assertion that LMR is thought of in wrong way in the Community. I've never really experienced LMR on a day2 because I've crafted a formula for a really great date, or day2.

I actually refer to my patented day2 formula as my Bar Hopping, Whirlwind, She's Not Too Sure Where We Went But Each Place Was Different From The One Before Date.

Ok, so I need to work on the name a little bit but it's so descriptive. Fine, I'll change the name...

This is The Bull's Run...

On a day2 here's what I think you need to achieve:

1) You've got to SHOW her that you're a man of action
2) You've got to lead her
3) You've got to take her places (notice I said places, as in plural) she's never been to before
4) Be spontaneous
5) As the day2 progresses, you've got to get her closer to your (or her) place

If you execute each step, you'll build HUGE amounts of comfort and while you're out, she WILL decide to fuck you. LMR is managed in the field.

I'll elaborate on each ingredient...

A Man of Action

A man of action is a guy that's going to take her by the hand and GO! You have to decide where you want to take her. Don't ask her what she wants to do, just do what you want. The way that I achieve this is to tell her stories that subcommunicate that I am a man of action...I've got a ton. She's got to know that if I see something I don't like or something I want, I'm going to get off my ass and take care of business. You have to mirror your words with action. She's got to hear that you're a man of action as well as see it.

The way I show girls that I'm a man of action is to bounce...Venue Bounce. I pick a handful of bars and clubs that I like to go to, we have a drink or two...maybe an appetizer. Then, we leave! We go. I say things like "this place is dead tonight" or "I'm not feeling it here" or "I want to go to XYZ Bar." So, what I've done is created an artificial problem, a slight inconvenience, then I FIX it by leaving!

A Leader

Don't ask her opinion about where you're going. If she asks what you're doing or where you're going I tell her. If she doesn't like that place I always say something along the lines of "well, they make the best drinks/have the best appetizers/etc so let's have one drink there then we'll jet." They almost always agree.

When you're ready to leave, assert that it's time to go to the next venue then GO!

One way of pacing her reality and raising her buying temperature is to randomly kiss her in the car on the way from one venue to another. I'll wait for a stop light, then lean over and kiss her. OR, we'll be driving and I'll say "hey, come here..." then I point to my neck. They always get the hint and scoot over to kiss my neck.

It's a Ride

I always take girls to several places, at least three. All of which are different. For example, I'll take a girl to a local dive bar, a place that has a band playing that night, another dive on the way to downtown, a downtown bar/club, and a coffee shop for breakfast.

The next day when her friends ask what you did and where you went her answer should be: "I don't know, but we had fun!" You've got to get her lost in your world. Tell her this is how you roll and then show her.

Also, logistics are important. I never, ever, ever, ever sit at a table. I'll sit at a booth, at the bar, or stand. Sitting at a table only puts a barrier in front of the two of you, and prevents you from sexually escalating using your body. You should always have your hand on her somewhere...her hip, the small of her back, etc. Finally, sitting destroys your energy. Ever hear of inertia? A body in motion tends to stay in motion, a body at rest tends to stay at rest? Yeah, that holds true for people and their energy level...so, MOVE! Sitting causes you to become sedentary and thus aids in losing your energy.

I also take this women to places they probably haven't been before...usually you can find a neighborhood bar (it will be a shithole) that she's never been to. Shit, even if she's been to every venue you go to I can assure you she's never been there in the order that you take her there. The order alone will make her feel as if you're showing her something new!

Spontaneous

I believe your day2 needs to be totally spontaneous. So, find a list of interesting places that you might take a girl in your neighborhood. Local bars, coffee shops, clubs, etc. Also, be sure to get tapped into bars and clubs in the hot spots, i.e. downtown, Greenville, Deep Ellum, and Uptown. You should probably at least visit each place on your list once so you know what the atmosphere is like. Then, while you're out simply think of where you've been, where you want to go, then go there. For some reason girls seem to know when you've planned something, which is when you get the 'how many girls have you taken on this date' question.

I remember I was on a day2 and we were at Mi Cocina in West Village...I grabbed her hand and said let's go. So, we crossed the street and hit The Loon. I literally was pulling her, by the hand, across the street as we crossed. It was cash money. Later she told me that that was when she decided that she wanted to fuck me...spontaneous, leading, man of action...get it?

Proximity

As the night progresses you should get closer to your, or her, place. This may be hard to achieve based on where you live, but if you're 5 minutes from your place and she lives 30 minutes away and it's late and she's a little bit tippsy...guess what? She'll more than likely prefer to just go to your place.

A Bull Run Approved Day2

I live in the M Streets...

They come over to my place, we have one drink at my place, or walk to a local bar on Greenville.

Then, we hit a reverse happy hour at a restaurant at Northpark (Kona Grill, stand at the bar)

Then, we hit a dive bar in Lakewood (Lakewood Landing, sit at the bar)

Then, another dive bar on the outskirts of Deep Ellum that's on the way to downtown (The Elbow Room, stand at a small table)

Then, we hit a lounge downtown (O Bar, sit on a couch)

Then back to Greenville for breakfast at Cafe Brazil

Finally, back to my place

That's 6 different venues (including my place), by traditional standards that's 6 different dates in one night. If she's not ready to pounce by then, then she's never going to pounce.

One final note: it's important that you're comfortable bouncing around so much, it's got to be congruent with you personality. Also, be sure you're comfortable at each venue (i.e you've been there before). The slightest bit of discomfort and she'll know you're a fraud.

[Guest]

Very nice bull... i'm definitely going to use this :)

[Guest]

I like it as well

[Guest]

Going to be using this on my stripper and seeing how it goes :)

[Guest]

Yeah definitely use it on that stripper!

Bullrun- I like all your bull.....its fuckin $$$$$$ and it cracks me up reading it! I'd say you know what the hell you're doing.

[Guest]

bull run....you need to write a book.....new york times bestseller

[Guest]

I totally agree with everything said by Bull Run. Never EVER let the woman choose the venue or even ask her what she thinks of it. Never EVER sit at a table, but if you do, sit NEXT to her and kino the hell out of her. DO NOT sit across from her at a table.

As for LMR, at the house, I occasionally run into SLIGHT LMR at my house, I've got some more good advice.

After you get her home, start making out with her in the kitchen or living room and then after a few minutes, just stand up, look her in the eyes and hold your hand out, as if she's supposed to grab your hand and follow. Then turn your back towards her, still holding her hand, and walk straight back to your bed. Throw her on the bed. They like it. Then start escalating from there. But in the event that you do run into additional LMR at this point, I have NEVER been denied using this tactic:

Sit up, get out of bed and tell her "Ok, I'm gonna give you a good massage with oil. You'd like that wouldn't you? I'm gonna get a towel out and lay it down right here. I'm going into the kitchen and when I come back, I want you laying face down right here,naked." Often times they decide right then that they're gonna fuck and they go to the bathroom first. I have NEVER returned with the oil and had a woman not be naked and laying there exactly as I ordered. Get the oil, I use Johnson's baby oil, rub it all over her back. Give her a good massage for while. Slowly start moving down to her ass, then massage the inside of her thighs and intentionally carress her pussy. Then, lean down to kiss her and start rubbing your chest all over her back with the oil in between. I always keep loud musing going (The Cure Mixed Up) and almost kind of move with the beat in a very sexual way. At that point, your basically fucking her already. Just start probing around with your dick and she'll take you.

It's worked for me every time, but like mentioned earlier, I think most women are deciding they either do or don't want to fuck you MUCH earlier in the date.

[Guest]

[quote1217518105=Alphagame]After you get her home, start making out with her in the kitchen or living room and then after a few minutes, just stand up, look her in the eyes and hold your hand out, as if she's supposed to grab your hand and follow. Then turn your back towards her, still holding her hand, and walk straight back to your bed. Throw her on the bed. They like it. Then start escalating from there.[/quote1217518105]

Absolutely this works! I do the same...

[quote1217518105=Alphagame]But in the event that you do run into additional LMR at this point, I have NEVER been denied using this tactic:

Sit up, get out of bed and tell her "Ok, I'm gonna give you a good massage with oil. You'd like that wouldn't you? I'm gonna get a towel out and lay it down right here. I'm going into the kitchen and when I come back, I want you laying face down right here,naked." Often times they decide right then that they're gonna fuck and they go to the bathroom first. I have NEVER returned with the oil and had a woman not be naked and laying there exactly as I ordered. Get the oil, I use Johnson's baby oil, rub it all over her back. Give her a good massage for while. Slowly start moving down to her ass, then massage the inside of her thighs and intentionally carress her pussy. Then, lean down to kiss her and start rubbing your chest all over her back with the oil in between. I always keep loud musing going (The Cure Mixed Up) and almost kind of move with the beat in a very sexual way. At that point, your basically fucking her already. Just start probing around with your dick and she'll take you.[/quote1217518105]

I view this as foreplay, not an LMR tactic. If a girl willingly takes her clothes off, gets on your bed, and waits for you to start touching her then she's already decided to fuck you. I view this as the beginning of sex, not an LMR destroyer.

[quote1217518105=Alphagame]It's worked for me every time, but like mentioned earlier, I think most women are deciding they either do or don't want to fuck you MUCH earlier in the date.
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LMR is managed in the field, sex is determined by how you make her feel while you're engaging in non sexual activities.