Sticking point in text/online message games

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Sticking point in text/online message games

Postby Guest » Sat Jul 26, 2008 6:33 pm

So I've noticed that I get about 80% of women to talk to me once I messaged them. I think it's a lot better percentage compare to before when I didn't know about PUA stuff. Gettin women to message me back isn't the problem anymore.
I can get those girls to exchange in between 2 to 4 messages usually. I can't usually go further... About 10% of times, our interaction go further than that. What am I doing wrong? Is there some good way/methods to have longer interaction on message exchanging and eventually convince girl to go on Day 2 with me or meet me off online? I've never gotten Day 2 since I learned PUA stuff (in April)... I am thinking... what to do what to do?
Is there certain ways you guys play this text game/ online game?
Please teach me as much as you can! thanks!
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:11 pm

Can you post some sample convos?
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:20 pm

---------------read from the bottom---------------

HER
Not a lot. There's not much to do here that's for sure lol. Go see movies, hang out with friends, etc


=====ME=====
haha dork! What do you do for fun in Coppell?


=====HER=====
Ah man who knows. I wouldn't be surprised if it was true :)


=====ME=====
Ohh yeah! I heard of it.
Although, I heard that cooler people live in Denton area.
Way cooler than people in Coppell.


===HER=====
Coppell...have you heard of it?


=====ME
Denton is north of Dallas as well. Lewisville/Flowermound is in Denton county. Where is your suburb?


=====HER
I'm in a small city/suburb thing a little north of Dallas. Where in Denton county?


=====ME=====
so where in dallas are you from? I'm currently in Denton county.


HER=====
Haha well Im glad he's alright. Sounds like one of those "you had to be there" things


=====ME=====
my friend sells beats. He sold his beats to some guy. You have to put that on computer and play with it to work. That guy calls my friend and asked for instructions. My friend tells him to go to desktop (windows background). Unfortunately, this guy didn't know anything about computer. He says "What the hell is desktop??!! I'm going to shoot u!"
Ahahahhaa I thought it was so funny. It probably wouldn't have been funny if my friend got hurt. I am glad.


=====HER
woah! i'm sorry to hear that...what happened


=====ME
hey omg! my friend almost got killed!!


=====HER=====
Ha I dunno...whats your version of cool?


=====ME=====
You seem cool. Are you? :P
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:24 pm

HER

Do you think I'm hitting on you? Or are you hitting on me by asking if I'm hitting on you???


=====ME=====
Aww you're cute. You are grumpy because I said bi girls are cooler. :P
As long as she is funny and down to earth, I don't think I would have a problem. I think you possess those two traits which is a good thing.
Are you hitting on me? ;)


=====HER=====
Oh well...I guess you'll never get a chance to see mine either. SO haha...and I'm not bi so don't you have a problem with that?


=====ME=====
hahaha you're funny.
you smart ass... :P

For being a dorky smart ass, I would show you my super powers... but I can't show you on internet. Toooo baddd for you.


=====HER
I came out of the right vagina...lol.


ME=====
haha silly, you are from Earth. How do you have super powers?


=====HER=====
That's so badass....I have super powers too!!!! But I can't tell you what mine are either!!! =O)


=====ME=====
haha dork! I look Asian, but I am from outer space. I'm good friends with Clark Kent the superman. My planet is close to his planet. Unfortunately, I don't have alien accents. I can't tell you about my super powers though. It's a secret.


=====HER=====
Kind of...are you????? You are ( )AHHH!!! Don't worry...I dated an ( ) but he was adopted.... And I worked in a lab full of them for 2.5 years...haha.


ME
You look dangerous. Are you dangerous?
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:26 pm

HER
Nothin... yet, I am a student, getting ready to start back up in Aug.. You?


=====ME=====
haha you sound dangerous. I have to watch out for you.
btw, what do you do?


=====HER
Yummmmmm, hahahahahaha


=====ME
oh uh, CLEARLY your bf isn't spanking you enough.


=====HER=====
lol, I am always like this :p


=====ME=====
Indeed sarcasm is very essential in humors and life.
Are you always like this or only to guys you are attracted to? :P


=====HER
Sarcasm is part of my life :) Keeps things interesting


=====ME=====
I love your sarcasm.


=====HER=====
Very cool to hear


=====ME=====
hey that's cool you speak french.
I have few french friends. They taught me some french.
Though, we only talked in English.
Bonjour :P
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:34 pm

yeah these are very few of the online messages exchanged I think were long ones. As you can tell, I mess around a lot. Maybe I am skipping some phases?? I don't know what it is, but I can get 'em to talk most of the times... but can't have long convos. I did have really long convo with a girl, but somehow I fucked up towards the end... we sent messages every day for good week or two. I tried to look like I wasn't too interested in her. I think that tactic backfired and thought I wasn't a guy who would support her sort of thing. Soon she started to ignore me and I made sent her AFC message. It was downhill.
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 27, 2008 8:36 pm

My usual opener used to be like... "you seem like a bad girl. I have to watch out for you." / "you seem dangerous." etc along that line.

I recently just started to do non-banter opening. simply just like "hows it going? you seem like a cool person to hang with." / "i just moved from austin and lookin for some cool friends to hang wtih." etc along those lines to try if opening with no banters are better. However, it seem like banter opener is slightly better.... not much better though.
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 27, 2008 10:37 pm

eh here are some more samples

HER
Haha, sometimes.


ME=====
You're a shy girl, aren't you?

=====HER=====
No, I'm a good girl. :)


=====ME=====
You seem like a bad girl. Are you dangerous?
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Postby Guest » Sun Jul 27, 2008 10:39 pm

Oh don't forget that all these messages has to be read from the bottom. this is some really ordinary opener blah

HER
its goin man
you?


ME
hey how's it going?
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Postby Guest » Mon Jul 28, 2008 11:38 am

You need to match her length of text. You wrote an entire paragraph for that story about your friend and it was still unclear. Her response was basically 'I don't get it.' After that you go into the interview format that most guys do and this is boring for girls. You are asking her where she lives...who cares? Keep it light and funny. Also, when you call her a dork, it doesn't really relate to anything. In other words, it seems like you called her a dork for no reason.

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---------------read from the bottom---------------

HER
Not a lot. There's not much to do here that's for sure lol. Go see movies, hang out with friends, etc


=====ME=====
haha dork! What do you do for fun in Coppell?


=====HER=====
Ah man who knows. I wouldn't be surprised if it was true :)


=====ME=====
Ohh yeah! I heard of it.
Although, I heard that cooler people live in Denton area.
Way cooler than people in Coppell.


===HER=====
Coppell...have you heard of it?


=====ME
Denton is north of Dallas as well. Lewisville/Flowermound is in Denton county. Where is your suburb?


=====HER
I'm in a small city/suburb thing a little north of Dallas. Where in Denton county?


=====ME=====
so where in dallas are you from? I'm currently in Denton county.


HER=====
Haha well Im glad he's alright. Sounds like one of those "you had to be there" things


=====ME=====
my friend sells beats. He sold his beats to some guy. You have to put that on computer and play with it to work. That guy calls my friend and asked for instructions. My friend tells him to go to desktop (windows background). Unfortunately, this guy didn't know anything about computer. He says "What the hell is desktop??!! I'm going to shoot u!"
Ahahahhaa I thought it was so funny. It probably wouldn't have been funny if my friend got hurt. I am glad.


=====HER
woah! i'm sorry to hear that...what happened


=====ME
hey omg! my friend almost got killed!!


=====HER=====
Ha I dunno...whats your version of cool?


=====ME=====
You seem cool. Are you? :P
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