How to game girls who say "I have boyfriend."

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How to game girls who say "I have boyfriend."

Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:05 am

Ok I've ran into few girls while I gamed who said "I have a boyfriend." I know I usually don't go there if I know the boyfriend or he is a friend.
So how do you supposed to break thru that?
For example like... I go open and start convo. However convo or interaction happens, let's say we get to the point where she says "I have a boyfriend." How can I still game her? How can I still make her want me? What should I say to get her? What is the best thing to do to win her?
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:08 am

If you're going indirect, it shouldn't phase you. Since you can't be certain she actually has a boyfriend...just keep going. All you're doing is talking to cool people in a social environment. Most of the time it will come out later that she doesn't actually have a boyfirend...it was just a shit test.
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 3:24 am

I'd recommend you read up on Zan's material about this. There is a ton by him out there on this subject that I feel is pretty good.

Some of his stuff is like:

"So whats he going to think about you hitting on me?"
"Thats cool, Im still going to hit on you."
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 7:36 am

fastseduction.com

a ton of material on this.
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 10:25 am

"Great you have a boyfriend, me too. Let's make sure they don't catch us talking"
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:42 pm

lol, I'm trying to win my ex back right now and dealing with her and her boyfriend. I did succeed in getting her to break up with him this week. Try to tap into what she dislikes about her boyfriend. Use her own words to build a case against him. Promote yourself by demonstrating you have more value and you will play the game better than her boyfriend. Basically demonstrate to her what he is not!

I'm not sure but I don't think you'll bag the chick overnight, its going to take a little time. Go for the friend relationship first thing and escalate from there. Its very important to bring all of her emotions out too! You'll break those walls down and she'll feel a deeper connection with you.
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 2:14 pm

[link=http://youtube.com/watch?v=NvdR747OG5I]http://youtube.com/watch?v=NvdR747OG5I[/link]


JC feat. Gorilla Zoe - Nobody Gotta Know

[Intro]
Yeah, this ya boy JC
and i got my homeboy Gorilla Zoe with me (yeah)
Ey homey, you better come look for a girl
I think she choosin' (hehehe)

[Verse 1 - JC]
Walked in the spot, first thing I spot
Shawty straight choosin', lookin' real hot
Dolce Gabana, Apple Bottom jeans on,
Now she lookin' at me like she got my on a ringtone,
Doin' her dance, no ring on her hand
If she got a man I sure can't tell
Girl I got 'em on my game in here
She gon' make me make it rain in here

[Bridge]
Now shorty what ya name is?
Got a nigga thinkin' that you're famous,
Now tell me what I gotta do
Took you outta superstar

[Chorus]
So tell me who you came with!
Are you alone or with your girlfriends?
No ring, no husband, Shawty what it do
I got one mo' question for you:
Do you got a boyfriend? Girl I really don't care!
Just thought I ask you, gon' tell a swag (gon' tell a swag)
I just wanna kick it, I just wanna kick it,
I'll be your little secret
I just wanna kick it, I just wanna kick it,
Ain't no body gotta know.

[Verse 2 - JC]
Shawty I can the things the other man won't never do,
Like coppin' you a range or maybe a ring that is chevy blue,
I can see the pain in your eyes, when I look at you,
Cause you are not satisfied,
And I can guarantee, I can change what you are goin' through,
All I really need is your name and your number, Boo
And I can call you in the mornin'
Or cook you breakfast in the morning.

[Bridge]
Now shorty what ya name is?
Got a nigga thinkin' that you're famous,
Now tell me what I gotta do
Took you outta superstar

[Chorus]
So tell me who you came with!
Are you alone or with your girlfriends?
No ring, no husband, Shawty what it do
I got one mo' question for you:
Do you got a boyfriend? Girl I really don't care!
Just thought I ask you, gon' tell a swag (gon' tell a swag)
I just wanna kick it, I just wanna kick it,
I'll be your little secret
I just wanna kick it, I just wanna kick it,
Ain't no body gotta know.

[Verse 3 - Gorilla Zoe]
What's happenin', What's happenin'?
Shawty what'cha name is?
Maybe we can kick it, take my numba we'll arrange it!
So you got a boyfriend,
How can that offend me?
When I look so player in this black on black Bentley.
Got my own funds, wonder what the funds worth.
Who is show? Show! Just gimme tickets to your concert.
I can make your back, I can make you feel good.
I keep it to my self, guess i cheese(?) to ?

[Bridge]
Now shorty what ya name is?
Got a nigga thinkin' that you're famous,
Now tell me what I gotta do
Took you outta superstar

[Chorus]
So tell me who you came with!
Are you alone or with your girlfriends?
No ring, no husband, Shawty what it do
I got one mo' question for you:
Do you got a boyfriend? Girl I really don't care!
Just thought I ask you, gon' tell a swag (gon' tell a swag)
I just wanna kick it, I just wanna kick it,
I'll be your little secret
I just wanna kick it, I just wanna kick it,
Ain't no body gotta know.


Enjoy!
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 2:28 pm

[link=http://youtube.com/watch?v=b8-LkFBlp6s]http://youtube.com/watch?v=b8-LkFBlp6s[/link]

Bow Wow - He Ain’t Gotta Know lyrics

Greatness plus greatness equals great greatness

[Verse One: Bow Wow]
Unh see I know you got a man Ma
But understand he can't do you like I can Ma (Nope)
And all I'm saying is just give the boy a chance Ma
To lay ya down, I have ya screaming like a fan Ma
And yeah the plan is not to treat you like a hoe (Hoe)
But ya man ain't gotta know (Know)
Cause when it's summer time I can take you to where it snow (Ohh)
And when it's winter time I can take you to where it shine (Right)
So why settle for ripple when you can be having wine (Wine)

[Chorus]

Bow Wow:
I ain't tryna be rude, yeah I know you gotta dude but...
Omarion:
He ain't gotta know about me
Bow Wow:
See we could kick it in the states
Or switch countries to play it safe (You know, you know)
Omarion:
'Cause he ain't gotta know about meee
Bow Wow:
See I can come and put it down when your nigga ain't around
Omarion:
He ain't gotta, he ain't gotta, he ain't gotta
Know about meee
Bow Wow:
Nah we ain't the same
I ain't saying he a lame unh huh
Omarion:
He ain't gotta know about me

[Bow Wow Talking]
Lil Mama
Lemme just holla at ya
Look

[Verse Two: Bow Wow]
See you ain't gotta leave him
I be the nigga that you call when you need him
Yup and I'll be there for ya when he start to switch on ya
Play my role from the side line like a bench warmer
So sub me in, I ain't ya man but we can just pretend
Hit the mall girl I got enough to spend
And you could go home to him, I ain't hating him
'Cause see you just my lil secret like Xscape and them

[Omarion]
He can be your man, I'm gon' be the one
To take you out for dinner for two
And girl I understand
If he start acting up
Then I'll be there to comfort youuu
Shawty you know what it is
I can spend the night
But I gotta be gone by the morning
You ain't gotta talk to me
Ain't gotta see me
I'm every now and then like an old friend to you

[Chorus]

Bow Wow:
I ain't tryna be rude, yeah I know you gotta dude but...
Omarion:
He ain't gotta know about me
Bow Wow:
See we could kick it in the states
Or switch countries to play it safe (You know, you know)
Omarion:
'Cause he ain't gotta know about meee
Bow Wow:
See I can come and put it down when your nigga ain't around
Omarion:
He ain't gotta, he ain't gotta, he ain't gotta
Know about meee

[ He Ain’t Gotta Know lyrics found on [url]http://www.completealbumlyrics.com[/url] ]
Bow Wow:
Nah we ain't the same
I ain't saying he a lame unh huh
Omarion:
He ain't gotta know about me

[Bow Wow Talking]
Everything we do
We keep that between me and you
Know what I'm saying

[Verse Three: Bow Wow]
Baby he ain't gotta know about the necklace
Or waking up early to that four seasons breakfast
'Cause that'll screw it up like the homies down in Texas
And tell the truth, I ain't the one he tryna mess with
So keep it on the down low or whatever you call it
Before the greatest sex have me trapped in the closet
(Nah, haha) And like I said before
Girl look I'm not a hater
So if you in we can kick it like a soccer player

[Omarion]
I can be your friend
And let him be the one to take you out for dinner for two
And girl I understand
And I'll go right up out the back
Ain't gotta worry 'bout him catching youuu
Shawty you know what it is
That's if I spend the night
But I gotta be gone by the morning
But every time you talk to me
You wanna see me
I'm every now and then like an old friend

[Chorus]

Bow Wow:
I ain't tryna be rude, yeah I know you gotta dude but...
Omarion:
He ain't gotta know about me
Bow Wow:
See we could kick it in the states
Or switch countries to play it safe (You know, you know)
Omarion:
'Cause he ain't gotta know about meee
Bow Wow:
See I can come and put it down when your nigga ain't around
Omarion:
He ain't gotta, he ain't gotta, he ain't gotta
Know about meee
Bow Wow:
Nah we ain't the same
I ain't saying he a lame unh huh
Omarion:
He ain't gotta know about me

[Bow Wow Talking]
I'm saying lil Mama
He ain't gotta know about nothing we do
I'm saying
He ain't gotta know about the G5 trips
He ain't gotta know about the splurge on the black card
Up in Louie Vuitton and Gucci and all of that
He ain't gotta know nothin about that
None of that shit, you know what I'm saying?
Huh, I'm saying
Look I'm like a cold I come and I go
Ha ha ha ha
Yea unh huh (Un huh)
Yeah
Let's ride
Bow Weezy
(Oh, oh, oh)
Yup O-Eezy
I'm saying
Aye Pain
You a fool for this one homie
Haha
Yeah, yeah yeah ('til fade)
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 2:31 pm

Oh and this quote from an excellent motion picture called "Cruel Intentions"

Kathryn: My advice is to sleep with as many people as possible.

Cecile Caldwell: But that would make me a slut, wouldn't it?

Kathryn: Cecile, everybody does it; it's just that nobody talks about it.
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Postby Guest » Fri Jul 18, 2008 3:45 pm

haha thanks everyone! your advices gave me better idea on how to deal with that situation.
Finesse, where'd u find these songs? haha it's awesome :)
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