by Guest » Thu Jul 31, 2008 6:19 pm
There are nice guys, nice girls, and nice PUAs.
The truth is that nice guys are bad boys who give and give to get what they want because they don't have the courage to take it, because they are afraid of the consequences. But nice guys don't know any better.
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Nice girls want a man who excites them and who is good relationship material, they really do. The "can't help" what they are doing because they "don't know any better" or "they believe their own bullshit"
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Nice PUAs are the guys who AMOG forum boards, they whip newbies that ask stupid questons and shit on the use of canned material and rant on and on about inner game and values and standards ... most of their posts are chest beating, they are on the forums they post on for their own entertainment, and they generally do not give a shit about anyone else on the boards, save them selves and their wings/fellow masters/teachers/skilled PUAs/whatever...this is my experience from posting on certain boards (not this one). These guys know who they are and probably feel justified in doing what they do.
The fact is that there are nice people all over and all around. And generally, nice is the problem. Nice = liar. And it's ok, as soon as you figure that out, and can tell the difference between nice behavior (= fake kindness so they get something they want from you) and genuine affection/kindness, you will be above this.