by Twitchy » Mon Apr 09, 2007 7:25 pm
I don't put much merit into anyone's rankings, whether it be PUA status, hotness of a HB, etc. If you find a female attractive and you can successfully have her feeling attraction for you, then you win - no matter if anyone else in the community finds her hot or not.
Sexiness to me is much more important that physcial beauty any day.
However, regarding the ranking on this board, it can be misleading. I have seen PUAs who have been in the community for years and still have their v-card or rarely succeed in picking up. They know every opener, every line, NLP, palm reading, etc. and yet still can't get a girl.
There is no magic formula of saying and doing X, Y and then Z which wins you a successful seduction. It comes from confidence, knowing the stages of seduction and how to navigate them, and logistics. Everything else is just fluff.
The last true fresh PU I did (in which I didn't know the girl) I accomplished with a friendly smile followed by a mischevious grin and a head jerk indicating I wanted her to come over and talk to me. She crawled over 3 over her friends in a booth to come say hi. I was kissing her and got her phone number 30 minutes later.
PU doesn't require lines, routines, or NLP. Those are merely tools you can rely upon to help boost your confidence in approaching women and getting them attracted to you.
So what am I saying? If you have more more than a few hundred posts, you better have seen a lot of growth in your field work. Otherwise, you are wasting precious moments of your life. Consider the 80/20 rule.... 20% of this stuff will get you 80% of your success. Learn 3 or 4 openers, learn the MM stages because they are invaluable, implement cocky and funny, dress well, have good hygiene, clean up your house and go sarge. You will progress a lot more just practicing out in the field than memorizing anything you read on any PUA board.
If anyone is competing with themselves or others to increase their ranking on this board by posting, then reconsider your goals. If the rankings were tied somehow to success in the field (number closes, day2s, LRs, etc.), then I think they would mean something. Even if they were tied to FRs instead of just a generic post they would have some meaning as that would show a PUA is active. As they stand now, I just consider them something fun and don't even pay attention to them.
And now, taking my own advice, I am signing off to take a HB out to dinner. Ciao!