yea... i've been planning to go to the meet ups but i've been busy... i'll certaintly try to make it to one as soon as possible because i want to fix this problem with women...
grimm... that sounds great, i notice i have showed more interest than they do... i'll try it out... thanks
finesse... those are great things to focus on... i've been having problems with the tone of my voice and how i deliver words and i'm working on changing it... and i really dont know how to set up frames but i've been trying to build them
rembrandt... i know he is a good friend and yes... he has an agenda... and that's pretty much everyones agenda here... i have a secret plan my friend wont know about... if i wanna get laid, i'm going to have to do it without my friend... just because he amogs me in front of women doesn't make him any less of a friend... i'm just going to have to learn how to amog him back... fair game... and women aint everything
thanks every1
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being too creepy
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by Guest » Sun Jul 06, 2008 8:43 pm
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rembrandt... i know he is a good friend and yes... he has an agenda... and that's pretty much everyones agenda here... i have a secret plan my friend wont know about... if i wanna get laid, i'm going to have to do it without my friend... just because he amogs me in front of women doesn't make him any less of a friend... i'm just going to have to learn how to amog him back... fair game... and women aint everything
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don't get into AMOG pissing battles... That's not alpha at all. In fact either is AMOGing someone intentionally/overtly in the first place. Real alpha is just the way you carry yourself...presence, body language, eye contact, projection, attitude, etc..., so focus on all those self improvement aspects that will help you naturally improve, and the rest of that will work it's way out.
rembrandt... i know he is a good friend and yes... he has an agenda... and that's pretty much everyones agenda here... i have a secret plan my friend wont know about... if i wanna get laid, i'm going to have to do it without my friend... just because he amogs me in front of women doesn't make him any less of a friend... i'm just going to have to learn how to amog him back... fair game... and women aint everything
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don't get into AMOG pissing battles... That's not alpha at all. In fact either is AMOGing someone intentionally/overtly in the first place. Real alpha is just the way you carry yourself...presence, body language, eye contact, projection, attitude, etc..., so focus on all those self improvement aspects that will help you naturally improve, and the rest of that will work it's way out.
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by Guest » Sun Jul 06, 2008 10:11 pm
This first thing I would do is study my friend. Clearly he is good with women. If like you said he can say the craziest shit in the world to women and they eat it up...yeah he might be decent. Or he is just really good looking and has a shit load of value.
The second thing I would do is make it out to a meeting. Quit making excuses as to you are busy or whatever. If you really want to change I would highly recommend you come out. I guarantee there will be more than one person at the meeting who can help you out at least a little.
Also pick your friends brain some more. I do think he is a good friend. Because it is my experience that only good friends will call you out on stuff like this. He might amog you or put you down or whatever but right now he is trying to help you. Unless you are some pedophile freak you can change this creepiness factor.
The second thing I would do is make it out to a meeting. Quit making excuses as to you are busy or whatever. If you really want to change I would highly recommend you come out. I guarantee there will be more than one person at the meeting who can help you out at least a little.
Also pick your friends brain some more. I do think he is a good friend. Because it is my experience that only good friends will call you out on stuff like this. He might amog you or put you down or whatever but right now he is trying to help you. Unless you are some pedophile freak you can change this creepiness factor.
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by Guest » Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:23 pm
On topic of making it out to a meeting:
I don't know if this might be a factor playing into your inability to make it out to one of the meetings, but I'll say it anyway.
When I went out to a meet-up the first time, I was nervous as hell. I got to the meetup place and thought 'Man this is kinda weird. I dont know anyone thats going to be here...maybe I should just go home'. This is also known as AA....which is something you're gunna have to deal with anyway if you want to learn pick-up right?
I got there, introduced myself to the guys (you'll prob be able to pick em out from the crowd :) ), sat down and it turns out everyone was pretty cool.
I'd been trying stuff on my own for a month or so before that, but the meet-up really put some (good) pressure on me to try things out and TRY to be successful. Not to mention, you get some feedback from people with experience.
I really can't stress how much I think the meet-up helped me to jumpstart my learning....and I think you might get alot of good (legitimate) feedback out of it with regard to your problem.
-A
I don't know if this might be a factor playing into your inability to make it out to one of the meetings, but I'll say it anyway.
When I went out to a meet-up the first time, I was nervous as hell. I got to the meetup place and thought 'Man this is kinda weird. I dont know anyone thats going to be here...maybe I should just go home'. This is also known as AA....which is something you're gunna have to deal with anyway if you want to learn pick-up right?
I got there, introduced myself to the guys (you'll prob be able to pick em out from the crowd :) ), sat down and it turns out everyone was pretty cool.
I'd been trying stuff on my own for a month or so before that, but the meet-up really put some (good) pressure on me to try things out and TRY to be successful. Not to mention, you get some feedback from people with experience.
I really can't stress how much I think the meet-up helped me to jumpstart my learning....and I think you might get alot of good (legitimate) feedback out of it with regard to your problem.
-A
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by Guest » Tue Jul 08, 2008 9:21 am
cj come out to the 3rd thursday meeting at taco cabana in addison... i know you only live a couple miles away so no excuse :) these guys can tell you if you really are being creepy and give you suggestions on ways to improve so if that's what ya want you just gotta come out.
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by Guest » Wed Jul 09, 2008 8:59 pm
Yeah. It happens. Probably the best state of mind to be in is one where you're fun, happy, flirtateous ....(did I spell that right?) and you're in can tell they like it.
When you get to the point where you can be playful and girls are happy to chat, then you need to start pulling the energy back a little and being more selective and asking more open ended questions.
There is a delicate balance between the energies and the vibe of how you come across.
When they start becoming interested, watch for the IOI's and the buying temp to go up.
The next time you go out, remember this....
Don't think of all the things that stop you and make you feel down or like you have to TRY or please anyone.
Instead, focus your attention on all the things that SUPPORT you and tell yourself "I'm awesome!!"
If a girl blows you off, just remember, she did that BECAUSE YOU'RE AWESOME!!!
You're friend is just jealous of you becuase you're awesome.
Try that. PM me if you'd like.
-T
When you get to the point where you can be playful and girls are happy to chat, then you need to start pulling the energy back a little and being more selective and asking more open ended questions.
There is a delicate balance between the energies and the vibe of how you come across.
When they start becoming interested, watch for the IOI's and the buying temp to go up.
The next time you go out, remember this....
Don't think of all the things that stop you and make you feel down or like you have to TRY or please anyone.
Instead, focus your attention on all the things that SUPPORT you and tell yourself "I'm awesome!!"
If a girl blows you off, just remember, she did that BECAUSE YOU'RE AWESOME!!!
You're friend is just jealous of you becuase you're awesome.
Try that. PM me if you'd like.
-T
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by Guest » Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:00 pm
[quote1215655198=Tribulus1000]
Yeah. It happens. Probably the best state of mind to be in is one where you're fun, happy, flirtateous ....(did I spell that right?) and you can tell they like it.
When you get to the point where you can be playful and girls are happy to chat, then you need to start pulling the energy back a little and being more selective and asking more open ended questions.
There is a delicate balance between the energies and the vibe of how you come across.
When they start becoming interested, watch for the IOI's and the buying temp to go up.
The next time you go out, remember this....
Don't think of all the things that stop you and make you feel down or like you have to TRY or please anyone.
Instead, focus your attention on all the things that SUPPORT you and tell yourself "I'm awesome!!"
If a girl blows you off, just remember, she did that BECAUSE YOU'RE AWESOME!!!
You're friend is just jealous of you becuase you're awesome.
Try that. PM me if you'd like.
-T
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Yeah. It happens. Probably the best state of mind to be in is one where you're fun, happy, flirtateous ....(did I spell that right?) and you can tell they like it.
When you get to the point where you can be playful and girls are happy to chat, then you need to start pulling the energy back a little and being more selective and asking more open ended questions.
There is a delicate balance between the energies and the vibe of how you come across.
When they start becoming interested, watch for the IOI's and the buying temp to go up.
The next time you go out, remember this....
Don't think of all the things that stop you and make you feel down or like you have to TRY or please anyone.
Instead, focus your attention on all the things that SUPPORT you and tell yourself "I'm awesome!!"
If a girl blows you off, just remember, she did that BECAUSE YOU'RE AWESOME!!!
You're friend is just jealous of you becuase you're awesome.
Try that. PM me if you'd like.
-T
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