What to say to this girl...

[Guest]

ok, My best wingman and I went out one night and went sarging frenzy when I was back in Austin.
We basically approached any girl around us. Even when we were walking etc.
Well this isn't field report or anything. We gamed a big mixed group and I managed to pull, isolate hb 8.5.
I got her number and vibe was great and everything. It was back in mid-May when I got her number I believe.
It's been 1 month and haven't called her back. although, I let her know that I have to graduate and won't be back in Dallas until like end of May. (she is originally from dallas and was in austin for her b-day party)
When I number closed her, she asked me "so when you gonna be in dallas again?"
I assume she was interested in me.
With Bliss grand opening coming up and everything, I can get few selected people to come with me for free. (dallas downtown clubs have expensive cover fees.... i noticed. unlike austin. :/) I thought it would be a great social proof since my friend is CEO of entertainment organization. He'll probably let us into VIP, too. (at least i hope :p)

So the question is... what should conversation be like when I call her? I mean I don't even know if she remembers me.
Is taking her to club for day 2 a bad idea? I'll appreciate helpful feedbacks.

[Guest]

I'm gonna give you a little advice...

I have NOT done so many things in life. With regards to women I have NOT approached some of the most beautiful women I have seen. I have NOT tried to ask out some of the most beautiful women I have seen. I have NOT done a lot of stuff with regards to women that I should.

So with that said what do you have to lose? Give her a call. You are a busy guy. You see lots of women. You just now found time to hang out with her. I think I would start out with texts.

I don't think it is a bad idea at all. I had a really good day 2 one time out at a club. I had really good social proof and had a great time. Sounds like you will have some good SP as well.

[Guest]

From my perspective , you MUST I repeat must keep her on the hook, via good text game, email etc. If its been 1 month since you contacted her, she has probably interacted with other 450 guys. So why would you STAND OUT. This is why we must be unforgettable. Hope that helps.

[Guest]

I've set up via text a D2 almost 2 months after the # close on what i thought would be a stale number... it's never too late.

i wouldn't even call, just text and I'd say something like

"Hey it's Sleek from Austin, i'm finally back in town. Free tues? lets grab a drink at X bar @ 8PM and catch up"... if you call you end up blowing all your 'catch up' talk on the phone call which would be great ice breaker for the D2.

i personally wouldn't do a club(not to say its wrong, clubs aren't my strong suit) for a D2, or on a fri/sat, just be careful, there will be alot of shiny objects at a club on the weekend.

[Guest]

thx playas for da good advices