What girls want

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As Paul Harvey says...."The rest of the story..."

The majority of guys on this forum have seen this girl. She works at one of the bars where lots of PUAs hang out. In fact, I bet most of the guys in here have hit on her or at least flirted with her at least once.

I got her phone number and link to her blog by not hitting on her. And I don't plan to. She is very social, seems to know everybody and probably has a lot of friends.....social circle!

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haha how did you get her number and blog without hitting on her?? just cover ur intent and talk like u want to be friends wit her?

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haha how did you get her number and blog without hitting on her?? just cover ur intent and talk like u want to be friends wit her?
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I don't know about Twitchy's specific circumstances with that girl, but I sometimes find a girl has more value as a social contact than as a delicious moist vagina. A girl who is a bartender would be a good girl to know, and may benifit me more as a friend ( social proof, plus networking to multiple DMVs in the form of her friends). Personally I've number closed girls I wouldn't even fuck with my worst enemies' dick because there are benifits to doing so. For instance there was this hiddiously fugly lesbian bartender at TGIF, I was *extra* nice and playful with her and she loves me now--everytime I go in there, she gives me mad social proof. I've also number closed half of the gay guys in Shreveport. (insert joke here) But in all seriousness I have no hidden intentions here with them, it is just good to be socialbe--you never know when they are going to have a hot female friend (Well if they're gay, lesbian, or fat chick, then they do have hot female friends)

I suspect Twitchy didn't have to hide his intentions with the girl because they were actually just to be friends with her.

I think it is good to simply though your personality out there, and screen the women that it wouldnt work out with, and friend the rest--you don't have to try to fuck every girl you meet.....Besdies her friends might be hotter :)

Westfall

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hmm that make sense.

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Completely agree. We go for hotties, they go for hotties, and most of the 'best puas' make the same comments about 'sense of humor' though in a different context (telling guys that a girl who doesn't vibe with your sense of humor isn't worth it, ala c&f).

I find a similar irony also in the fairy tale from disney vs. dismissing her because she's not a lady.

Who decided ladies don't cuss anyway...was it lil ol Cinderella?

What she wants is not all bad, and she sounds like she's taken a chance with her heart and been disappointed repeatedly, a fact I think we can all relate to.

All that said I would ding her on the double standards. She wants tall men, but wants humble men? Huh? She wants sense of humor, and intelligence, *and* monogamy...what guy with height, a nice body, a sense of humor, monogamy...and the icing on the cake...a sweet guy...is going to not have the self esteem to recognize what he is and is therefore going to settle for...er, um, settle down!~! I meant down!! ;)

She obviously wants God's gift to women...haha.

If you've got it all...why keep it to yourself?! What selfish man in his right mind would deprive all those wonderful women out there of all those good qualities...sorry but I couldn't do that to America, North America, the World.

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hahaha well said, Shaddox

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I find a similar irony also in the fairy tale from disney vs. dismissing her because she's not a lady.

Who decided ladies don't cuss anyway...was it lil ol Cinderella?[/blockquote]

I think there is a certain ellement of class that she is missing. I don't mind at all when a girl uses language that is traditionally viewed negatively by prudish memebers of society...in fact, I would appericate more a girl who challenged our social and political norms in a thought provoking way even if that makes others uncomfortable. The blogging girl wouldn't likely fit into my view of what is attractive in a woman. Additionally I doubt she and I would be able to connect on an emotional level. Additionally there are simply too many sweet girls who will try really hard to keep a guy happy (and in m y case appericate me for the qualities I wish to be appericated for) to enter into a monogamous relationship with a chaotic and demanding girl.

[blockquote]What she wants is not all bad, and she sounds like she's taken a chance with her heart and been disappointed repeatedly, a fact I think we can all relate to.[/blockquote]

Meh. Her #1 quality is attractiveness. I'm a self-serving shallow bastard and that's not even the most important quality on my list. It isnt just that what is important to her doesnt match up with what is important to me, it is that she doesnt appear to have enough life experince to realize what is important.

If you had a choice between dating a 10 that has a bland personality and a 7 that is witty, makes you laugh, and successfully tires to make sure you have fun when you are with her, which would you date? As long as a girl is a 7 she is attractive enough for me...the other qualities are far more important, lest I get bored with someone who is pretty to look at, but dull.

[blockquote]All that said I would ding her on the double standards. She wants tall men, but wants humble men? Huh? She wants sense of humor, and intelligence, *and* monogamy...what guy with height, a nice body, a sense of humor, monogamy...and the icing on the cake...a sweet guy...is going to not have the self esteem to recognize what he is and is therefore going to settle for...er, um, settle down!~! I meant down!! ;)[/blockquote]

That's really not to much to ask, I mean for the right girl I plan on doing what I call "Semi-Monogomy" or Semogony, which is where I date/fuck fewer girls, which could one day lead to Monogamy. I think the end result of being with one girl and developing a life long relationship with her is a more important goal to me.

[blockquote]She obviously wants God's gift to women...haha.[/blockquote]

Of course, but she's not my type so I don't see that happening.

[blockquote]If you've got it all...why keep it to yourself?! What selfish man in his right mind would deprive all those wonderful women out there of all those good qualities...sorry but I couldn't do that to America, North America, the World.[/blockquote]

It is not my duty to selflessly please all the women of America. If I could attain more personal happiness by spending time with one girl than multiple ones, then that is the most rational path for me to take.

Westfall

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Westfall, your post is both highly moral and very serious. For your witless logic, you get no points.