by Guest » Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:28 am
On the escalation:
Keep in mind that you started the conversation by talking about creeps from facebook, a category she could have easily put you in. Then you went to her wearing only the boots. I think you put her in a bad frame from the jump. You gave her a hint that you might be a creep and then you might have confirmed that fact. I think it would have been better to either not mention how you got her number, or say something like, "you know if you give your number on facebook you might have a fun and exciting guy text you at 11:30 and distract you. You wouldn't want that, would you?"
On the neg:
I didn't take it as a neg. There was no compliment there. You came across as affected, which is bad. And you backtracked from your joke. If she didn't like your joke, then maybe she'll like the next one. Don't apologize.
On cologne:
Choose a cologne that smells good when mixing with your skin. The oils on your skin will mix with the cologne and make a scent that is distinct to you. You get the best scent from the wrists and neck, because there are major arteries there and they are exposed. If you spray it on at least 2 hours before you're with women, then it won't be too strong. I don't agree about the crotch. You don't want to mask the natural musky smell of sex that attracts women. The whole reason you have pubic hair is to trap that musky smell. Women have an evolutionarily developed attraction to that smell. Go ahead and spray it on your lower back if you want a hint of the smell when she's going down on you, but I personally don't see the point. If she's that close to putting your cock in her mouth, it's a done deal anyway. Why not trigger those receptors that will make her pussy wet and make the little man in the boat start rocking?
In general:
Great job! You met a girl out and started up a conversation. I'm not being sarcastic. There are many guys who post here about 10 times and then never come back. They don't leave their house. You're out there practicing your skills. You're analyzing your game so you do things better the next time. Keep it up and it will become second nature.