It is crazy how everyone is getting pissed at what this girl wrote. The reason is because she is rejecting all of us so we are getting very defensive over some crazy blog.
I don't know this girl but I will say this about her. I would bet a decent amount she wrote this because she has had a huge run of scum bag guys. Or at the very least a bunch of guys who have options and learned quick she wasn't "the one" and probably played her.
Do you know what your perfect girl is? When you are out and you don't find her do you still hit on the non-perfect girl? Of course you do. We all do. Just like us she will sway from that list and go with her non-perfect guy as well.
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by Guest » Wed Jun 18, 2008 8:17 pm
I have no problem with what she is looking for in men and everything. We all do want hotties and she is no exception. I just kinda felt bad for her and wanted to point out her attitude. She thinks everyone who is not like what she described are insignificant and lower status than her. Like... she thinks she is better than everybody etc. I just don't like people with attitude like that. People who are stuck up like that are usually rude and needy.
I might get little more intimidated when I am talking to hotter girls, but i wouldn't treat girls who don't fit into my ideal description or less hotter girls like a shit. I don't tell them to f*** off.
She reminds me of girls from MTV's TV show called "My sweet 16th birthday." I saw one episode of that, and never watched MTV ever again. I knew it was dropping my IQ.
You know that incident where these highschoolers beat the crap out of one girl just so they can be on MTV? well they all went to jail. MTV kills ur brain cell!! watch out =P
I might get little more intimidated when I am talking to hotter girls, but i wouldn't treat girls who don't fit into my ideal description or less hotter girls like a shit. I don't tell them to f*** off.
She reminds me of girls from MTV's TV show called "My sweet 16th birthday." I saw one episode of that, and never watched MTV ever again. I knew it was dropping my IQ.
You know that incident where these highschoolers beat the crap out of one girl just so they can be on MTV? well they all went to jail. MTV kills ur brain cell!! watch out =P
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by Guest » Wed Jun 18, 2008 9:35 pm
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It is crazy how everyone is getting pissed at what this girl wrote. The reason is because she is rejecting all of us so we are getting very defensive over some crazy blog.
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No. How can she reject me when I haven't even given her the oppertunity to know me?
What I can derive from her blog is that I don't think I'd like her very much. She seems to have this opinion that she deserves to be treated like a princess [b]because of her looks.[/b] This "I'm hott to all guys mindset" is such a huge turn of to me...
It wo uld be less annoying if she had done something to stand out and earn this outlook on life, but no, she was just born with a certain genetic code. Meh--that does not impress me. I spent 7 hours Sunday with a very attractive girl, many would consider her a 9 but she had the attitude of a 7--not being sure she is hot--not being too confident--being playful and giving me a pouty face when I told her she looked similar to the Orangatang at the zoo :-) I found myself becoming much more attracted to the girl.
Attraction when earned is much more appealing to me than physical beauty. I don't undertand why guys give so much more value to an HB 9-10 than 7s & 8s. I think the result is a bunch of bitchy 9s-10s who have the attitude that they dont need to work to attain value in my eyes. I'm okay without these girls.
There is nothing more beautiful than a girl who has attained a 9 or 10 ranking (speaking of total value here) in my eyes but who still views herself as a 7ish girl. That's the type of girl I fall for--one I find irresistablly beautiful, but who look at herself as being so awesome :-P
Westfall
It is crazy how everyone is getting pissed at what this girl wrote. The reason is because she is rejecting all of us so we are getting very defensive over some crazy blog.
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No. How can she reject me when I haven't even given her the oppertunity to know me?
What I can derive from her blog is that I don't think I'd like her very much. She seems to have this opinion that she deserves to be treated like a princess [b]because of her looks.[/b] This "I'm hott to all guys mindset" is such a huge turn of to me...
It wo uld be less annoying if she had done something to stand out and earn this outlook on life, but no, she was just born with a certain genetic code. Meh--that does not impress me. I spent 7 hours Sunday with a very attractive girl, many would consider her a 9 but she had the attitude of a 7--not being sure she is hot--not being too confident--being playful and giving me a pouty face when I told her she looked similar to the Orangatang at the zoo :-) I found myself becoming much more attracted to the girl.
Attraction when earned is much more appealing to me than physical beauty. I don't undertand why guys give so much more value to an HB 9-10 than 7s & 8s. I think the result is a bunch of bitchy 9s-10s who have the attitude that they dont need to work to attain value in my eyes. I'm okay without these girls.
There is nothing more beautiful than a girl who has attained a 9 or 10 ranking (speaking of total value here) in my eyes but who still views herself as a 7ish girl. That's the type of girl I fall for--one I find irresistablly beautiful, but who look at herself as being so awesome :-P
Westfall
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by Guest » Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:47 pm
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It is crazy how everyone is getting pissed at what this girl wrote. The reason is because she is rejecting all of us so we are getting very defensive over some crazy blog.
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No. How can she reject me when I haven't even given her the oppertunity to know me?
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She is rejecting all of us by her comments because none of us are that guy. That is what I meant. For example she says she wants a big guy. That means there is no way she would be into me...IN THEORY. From what I have seen no one from this board is her type.
That is all I meant man.
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It is crazy how everyone is getting pissed at what this girl wrote. The reason is because she is rejecting all of us so we are getting very defensive over some crazy blog.
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No. How can she reject me when I haven't even given her the oppertunity to know me?
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She is rejecting all of us by her comments because none of us are that guy. That is what I meant. For example she says she wants a big guy. That means there is no way she would be into me...IN THEORY. From what I have seen no one from this board is her type.
That is all I meant man.
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by Guest » Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:55 pm
Guys.. give her a break... It is a blog... she is sharing her thoughts to the world... it is a wishful thinking in that moment of her life... it could be just the frustration from her last experience with a chubby PUA who stole her heart... OR she is just having a period.
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by Guest » Thu Jun 19, 2008 8:29 am
I don't see a problem with anything she wants... everybody has what they're looking for. The only problem I have is like westfall said, her shitty attitude. She's the kind of girl that I'd pick up, fuck a couple times, and drop like a sack of dirt because she may be pretty on the outside but (at least from her blog) does not seem like it on the inside. If she's anything like her blog in person I'm not even sure I could stand her as an FB unless it involved not hearing her talk ;) Now if her post were the same thing w/o the attitude, I'd actually feel sorry for her that she keeps falling for the PUA guys even tho she (thinks she) wants something more meaningful... but I can't really feel sorry for her at all because of her entitled and stuck up attitude.
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by Guest » Thu Jun 19, 2008 10:29 am
I think all of us are missing the point.
Initially I tagged her as a low value girl because she appears to have a really shitty attitude. Fact is that I don't really know that for sure...none of us really do.
I think the blog is symbolic, however. Assuming of course that it is true. It reeks of superficiality and shallowness. In which case the blog, and the writer, should be attacked. The issue is that we really don't know what she's like. Could be that any one of us could meet her, show her our personality, then we assess her value, and we find that she's a great person.
Grain of salt my friends, grain of salt.
I think the real take-away from this is that this girl, just like everyone on the freaking planet, has some ideal vision of her perfect person living in her head. Or, at least she thinks she does. In practice, she's going to end up falling head over heels for a guy that doesn't really resemble the guy she described in her blog. As a matter of fact, the mere fact that she's putting these qualities on paper tells me that she probably hasn't regularly been with a guy like she has described. If she has always had relationships with a guy like that in her blog, do you think she would set out to put all of this on paper as if she were requisiting this combination of traits? NO.
PC alluded to it earlier, as did I when I quoted the 'speed date' study. In theory we have a vision of what we want. That's our higher level thinking rationalizing what we want and why. But, attraction is built just as much on biology as it is on rational thought. At the end of the day, we simply don't fully know what we want until we're presented with it...
Initially I tagged her as a low value girl because she appears to have a really shitty attitude. Fact is that I don't really know that for sure...none of us really do.
I think the blog is symbolic, however. Assuming of course that it is true. It reeks of superficiality and shallowness. In which case the blog, and the writer, should be attacked. The issue is that we really don't know what she's like. Could be that any one of us could meet her, show her our personality, then we assess her value, and we find that she's a great person.
Grain of salt my friends, grain of salt.
I think the real take-away from this is that this girl, just like everyone on the freaking planet, has some ideal vision of her perfect person living in her head. Or, at least she thinks she does. In practice, she's going to end up falling head over heels for a guy that doesn't really resemble the guy she described in her blog. As a matter of fact, the mere fact that she's putting these qualities on paper tells me that she probably hasn't regularly been with a guy like she has described. If she has always had relationships with a guy like that in her blog, do you think she would set out to put all of this on paper as if she were requisiting this combination of traits? NO.
PC alluded to it earlier, as did I when I quoted the 'speed date' study. In theory we have a vision of what we want. That's our higher level thinking rationalizing what we want and why. But, attraction is built just as much on biology as it is on rational thought. At the end of the day, we simply don't fully know what we want until we're presented with it...
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by Guest » Thu Jun 19, 2008 12:13 pm
I'm 5-11 but I won't date women who are over 5-6 or so. Ideally, I like them 5-4 to 5-0.
One of my last girlfriends was 5-8, in heels, she was eye level with me. SCARY!
Funny thing is, most of the 9's and 10's are too tall for me. Taller women are generally more attractive. For some reason, probably psychological, it's just a lot harder to lead a women if she's as tall as you.
One of my last girlfriends was 5-8, in heels, she was eye level with me. SCARY!
Funny thing is, most of the 9's and 10's are too tall for me. Taller women are generally more attractive. For some reason, probably psychological, it's just a lot harder to lead a women if she's as tall as you.
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