The Pitfall of Knowing the difference.

[Guest]

A Farmer comes home after a hard day work and see his wife in bed.
Farmer's wife slaps him in the face.
Farmer says "What was that for?"
Farmer's wife says "That is for 30 years of bad sex."
Farmer scratches his head and than slap her in the face.
Farmer's wife says "What was that for?"
Farmer says "That is for knowing the difference."

This joke has some wisdom.
This doesn't apply to guys who had married before.

The girl you are going to marry... the ONE with the brains and all the badass qualities will have to measure up to the greatest sex from the “dumbest wrong girl” you ever had. Because you know the difference.
And by that you are going to rob yourself and your relationship, one of the most intimate thing that you have to give. If you are successful at many F-close, You might even develop a thirst for different variety and not be able to stand the same girl for more than a year. Path to a divorce. Or maybe she is the one cheating on you because she was picked up from the bar many times.

I also think there is a the “Wild Passion New-ness” factor. After 8 years, 10 years, 16 years… I don’t think that passion is there anymore. I like Alphagame’s plan… get 3 girlfriends and rotate them out as it gets old… but that leads to eventually growing old alone.

I don’t have the answer… this is what I see so far.

[Guest]

Ok a few of you have read this thread... What do you think? Does anyone have something to add to this.

Am I full of shit?

[Guest]

It all has to do with ego.

[Guest]

What happens after when you said your 10 interesting things?
When there is no more interesting thing about you?

Ok the game is intense in the beginning with rising the level above normal and then it is a big let down of normal-c.

For LTR, I was reading some stuff by CR James... I think you have to have a Goal other than PUA and a Passion for something else other than to fuck.

[Guest]

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I also think there is a the “Wild Passion New-ness” factor. After 8 years, 10 years, 16 years… I don’t think that passion is there anymore. I like Alphagame’s plan… get 3 girlfriends and rotate them out as it gets old… but that leads to eventually growing old alone.

I don’t have the answer… this is what I see so far.
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I can tell you the above quote is bullshit. "New-ness" factor is just an excuse. You can definitely have growing passion for the same woman your whole life. A woman that dedicates her life and love to you.

There is no one answer to the question you pose. I have read and contributed to long threads on this exact topic on Fastseduction.com. Every man mates his own path.

One point I note as particularly relevant is a historical one. Look back over (even recent) history and you will find we live in very different times. Polygamy has been the norm in human society for centuries at least. You think Kobe or Beckham having "bits on the side" is unusual? Ever been to France? Italy? What about Pakistan?

You also don't mention children or procreation at all which is central to the topic. Ever read Sperm Wars? The dice are indeed loaded my friend.

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"What happens after when you said your 10 interesting things?
When there is no more interesting thing about you?"
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Are you for real? This makes me sad.

[Guest]

I will checkout fastseduction.com


haha... you're right... if I said 10 interest things and that is what I used to attract them into opening up... I should be able to get into a convo with them and learn something about them and reflect back.