by Guest » Tue Jun 10, 2008 6:35 pm
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intresting... i haven't engaged in sexual interactions with any1 but one person so i wouldnt know... its do to my lack of practice i guess because my friend says i know too much of this stuff to not do it... they say i come on too strong and then be an asshole to them which makes me seem a bit creepy... i really dont know how to fix it
any suggestions westfall?
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Heh, Im an asshole to girls, but I view this more as a screening for them. If they can't handle me, then I wouldn't like them anyway :) Yesterday I used my Zebra opener which is a selective (e.g. Brad P.'s). This opener works well some of the time, but yesterday it went horribly arry. The girl was very upset and behaved quite irrationally. I like this opener because girls who aren't smart won't get it, girls who don't have a sense of humor won't laugh and play along, and it also weeds out girls that lack confidence.
My personality is a shit test to girls. If they pass, then good for them, if not, then they miss out on the WF expericne.
Of course don't be an asshole if you are not one...you're likely not as big of an asshole as I am....note: even though I am quite an asshole, I still like to be nice to girls when I deem them worthy of my kindness (through qualifcation).
As to being creepy don't worry about this. My theory is that creepyness comes from hiding your intentions or not being guinuine... Don't try to get something out of the girl though suplicative means, trickery, or manipulation and you should be fine. Being outcome independent helps a lot too. I think that just being comfortable with your own personality to show it to a girl guinuinely and without 'tactics' or trying to DHV or present yourself to her in a way she would like (which btw, is qualifcation to her) goes a long way. Sure every girl isn't going to like you or be able to handle you, but no matter your personality some girls will like you--guinuinely find your personality irresistable.
Aside from that, keep going out and getting feedback. This will cause you to grow in your understanding of the underlying princaples of attraion, as well as exposue you to more women, which is great because some of them are really awesome.
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