Question for online sarging

[Guest]

Due to time constraints with school and other commitments I seldom have time to go out to bars to sarge. So I have turned to other means such as facebook and what not. Well..... in real life girls know what they are getting up front since they can see the whole package. I'm a decent looking guy the only thing is I grew up in a lesser than affluent household. So now that I've been putting myself through school I can finally afford to work on the one thing that I've always wanted to do, such as my smile. I've finally gotten braces and I'm at the age of 26. The thing is girls on Facebook obviously can't see my braces from my pictures since they aren't closeup head shots.... they tend to be group outings or other events.

So my question is... should I disclose this information to chicks up front after we've talked for a bit on facebook before we meet? Or should I just meet up and if they ask just play it off with a joke?

[Guest]

don't mention that up front. if u tell her that up front, she might think ur bugged by it. just act as if it is not a big deal and wait until she askes in person. that's what i would do.

[Guest]

sal paradise is a good reference for this topic

[Guest]

Braces wont' be a deal breaker for a girl thats really into you or worth your time. Build that attraction up. Make her crave your mind and the person you are. That way when you do meet the whole braces deal won't matter.

Chances are she has similar appearance concerns about her self. Nobody is perfect!

Never disclose a negative about yourself early on. This whole game we play is about sales and marketing yourself.
Thats what will carry you to the next level.

[Guest]

Thnxs for all the good advice guys I appreciate it.

[Guest]

Would it bother you if she had braces? Nah prob not huh?

I remember reading something a few years ago that went something like this.

The guy is out on a date. He has a huge zit on his forehead. At some point he mentions it. The girl never thought anything negative of it. But after he mentioned it all she could do was sit there and focus on it.

The way I look at it you are improving yourself. She will think the same thing.