I think my myspace may have F'd me

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99 percent of all my interaction with the internet is done on my motorola Q. Even now Im on my cell typing this. Certain things are left out when you use your cell for internet, pictures for example. A chick whos neck I was burried in, put that very picture on my comment section. I didnt catch the fact that the picture was on there for about 5 days. I aint slick like some others and need a bit more discretion with my world.

Im thinking another target of mine saw this picture before I took it down. Since then interaction has been very spaced out. This chick and I had a day two that went very well and interaction was great up untill 3 days before I took the pick down.

Im at a total loss here. Do I let everything go and just say fuck it? Do I just brush the day 2 chick off and keep rolling? I think I did this to myself by not defining my roll with said chick as a non-boyfriend guy.

This a framming issue? Is it just in my head? Is there a way to recover? Should I even bother? I dont mind cutting the thread or even passing her on. Ug, need a little input.

[Guest]

Why does it matter so much? Are you looking for an exclusive relationship?

[Guest]

It ony matters because I didnt sleep with her.(wow, that sounds bad) I dont like Fing up and here it just feels like I did.

No, I dont want a long term/exclusive relationship here. That came across as wanting one?

[Guest]

your actions by removing it tells me that you didn't want others to see it.... regardless of the gender who see's it.

Of course thats only one way to read that. There are multiple ways. It depends on how you play it from here. When dealing with the girl that you suspected saw it, don't even think about it man.

I think you're still ok.

[Guest]

you should text her about how you have a stalker following you all over myspace lol -- you could say you met this chick and gave her your myspace and now she just won't leave you be :) you haven't made it til you got your first internet stalker ;)

[Guest]

I think you should of left it. This new girl isn't your girlfriend and now it looks like you have something to hide. It lets her know she has some competition. Chicks dig dudes that other women want. they are weird like that.

[Guest]

man i've been burned more than once by myspace photos/comments. Now everything is approval only.

I'd say screw it....

But i would like to point out for any PUA that is actually looking to settle down, know that any girl that turns into an LTR WILL dig through every previous comment and also go to every other girls page to see what you posted there. I've even been confronted by dudes well down the line from comments i've posted on girls' pages. One in particular ...to the extent that a STR i was in, shagged a couple times, i had a couple comments on her page, a guy that wanted to PROPOSE to her about a year down the road, emailed me to inquire about a couple comments that were posted during their early dating timeframe.

Those comments can be evil.

[Guest]

Yeah you over reacted bro. I would put it back on your comment section. It will help unless the girl is just a psycho jealous freak. And umm if that is the case it is prob best you don't sleep with her...

[Guest]

You over reacted. It's your world, not hers. Do what you want. Don't worry about how that may look to others. If you don't apologize for who you are you'll be surprised how much MORE people are attracted to you. I think you admitted guilt by taking down the pic.