How to Proceed From Here?

[Guest]

Hey everyone,

I am still trying to meet and lay the girl again from my SNL outside the bar. I have been texting her fairly regularly and keeping it light. I talked with her on the phone for about 5 minutes on Sunday but then she had to go because she was walking into a movie theater. I texted her yesterday with the following callback humor:

Me: Hey there lil dress maker, hows the day?
Her: Ah its good I just finished working and now im thinking about a nap, im going to see spamalot tonight. How are you?
Me: It's been a great day and prob check out the scene tonight. Stop havin dreams about me...I'm copyrighted :)

She didn't reply to this at all. She is usually slow to respond but has always eventually responded. Last weekend I baited her to suggest a fun place in OKC to go to and then invited her but she was at work. This weekend I would like to try to see her in OKC. I have a few questions:

[list]When should I text her again? Today? Wait a day? etc.[/list]
[list]When I meet up with her, should I just meet her and her friends at a bar with my friends or should I do something with just the 2 of us?[/list]
[list]I don't think my text was over the line, but let me know what you think.[/list]

I appreciate it!

[Guest]

Not that I'm any expert, but I don't think the text was not over the line for sure... tho maybe might have sounded a bit forced? instead of the dream thing i might have thrown a neg on going to see spamalot -- geek alert!!! i like monty python myself but you can totally rip on her for that i think ;)

when you text her, work in something like 'how was your geek group meetup at spamalot' or something... lol

also since you guys have already done the deed has there been much sex or innuendo banter going on?? my experience from someone who doesn't text back in a reasonable time so far is they know you want them and don't feel they have to respond... she needs to be chasing you! not sure how to make that happen other than hinting at going out with other women

then again as a newb I probably don't know shit and you shouldn't listen to me ;)

[Guest]

I'm gonna offer up my two cents sir.

There is a high probibility this girl has many guys trying for her affection. Why do I say this? Well she went outside a bar and got nailed by a guy she met a few minutes earlier.

This to me is a girl you call at 2 AM after the bars are shutting down. She is a little slut bag whore and should be treated as such. Wow that sounds really bad. I hope this girl doesn't turn into your girlfriend...hahah...

I think she was having fun with you and doesn't want it to be anything more than just that. A roll in the hay every once in a while. That is how I would have it be. It might turn into something more down the road but for now it is what it is.

[Guest]

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I think she was having fun with you and doesn't want it to be anything more than just that. A roll in the hay every once in a while. That is how I would have it be. It might turn into something more down the road but for now it is what it is.


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That may very well be and that is totally fine with me :) I am thinking I may just tell her to come to the bars with us.

[Guest]

I agree with PC. You are trying to put out alot of "boyfriend" talk, and she isn't biting. Not a bad thing, she, at this point, just isn't looking at you in that way.

"Hey sexy"
"Does Gene Simmons tongue turn you on?

Keep it sexual, but non creepy, and any further correspondence should be with sexual intentions in mind. Read CJ's FB rules.

[Guest]

Finesse and PC are spot on. Sometimes a SNL is just that, a SNL. She sounds like a good FB! Call her a little bit after 2 AM and see what happens. Don't forget to wipe your dick off on her pillow on your way out!

[Guest]

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Don't forget to wipe your dick off on her pillow on your way out!
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HOLY SHIT!! that is the funniest shit I ever!! I am still learning about this FB stuff. This will be a good case study ;)