She threw out the dreaded 4 letter word.....

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So im havin a normal text convo with this hb 7 and she starts in with the whole scale test shit and i roll wth it, after talking with carmel I now know that was a total AFC move, and then she drops the whole I love you line to me! So, my predicament is, I like the girl but dont want to be tied down yet but at the same time I'm afraid if I blow it off then she's gonna get distant. What do i do?????

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just play through. Tell her the truth. You still want to hit that shit, but "need to be free to experience life and all the great things in the world."

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what's the scale test? who says i love you through a text the first time? how long has she known you??

whatever you do don't fall for the trap :) she's trying to put you in relationship mode

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I heard a good response to this from the Don. It is basically, "You know, I have been with girls who really push to define what we are at the moment. But I really like what we have going. It is laid back and we just take things as they come."

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I heard a good response to this from the Don. It is basically, "You know, I have been with girls who really push to define what we are at the moment. But I really like what we have going. It is laid back and we just take things as they come."
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that sounds familiar...

To give a background story for the noob that cant post well. This is the first girl i helped him game when he was learning. most of the interaction was text based. he fclosed her the first time he met her. instead of sticking with the fbuddy frame he constantly talks to this girl in a relashionship frame. Problem 1

Problem 2. When she asked you how would you rate her on a scale of 1 to 10 you didnt play it off, try to avert the question, and you gave her an 11. Jumped right through the hoop. Furthermore you then reciprocated the issue by asking her what she would rate you on a scale of 1 to 10. She gave you a 100 and then the thread continued to the i dont want to sound wierd but i think i love you comment.

Problem 3. The way you answered her question...which this is a guesstimation on my part because i dont know what your answer was, but lately you havent been taking my advice well for god knows what reason. Its been two days and i know you have had more interaction with her since then.

Problem 4. You want to keep her around and not let her be with other guys but you want to go out and do as you please. Uhm NO not gonna happen. You cant have your cake and eat it to. Especially when you framed her in a relationship tone instead of FB

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the plot thickens :) not to threadjack, but what's a good response to someone that asks you to put them on a scale?

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I heard a good response to this from the Don. It is basically, "You know, I have been with girls who really push to define what we are at the moment. But I really like what we have going. It is laid back and we just take things as they come."
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Nice. I like your framing style!

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well i appreciate all the responses thus far, but some people might want to use a lil more tact in there response. yea im a noob but i would like to get a lil more feedback than just one person.....

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put you on a scale? Id say about 120 pounds. must have had a big lunch :)

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nice.....