how to cancel a day 2??

[Guest]

So whats the best way to cancel a day 2?? A bad experience has left a bad taste in my mouth and i just dont wanna go. I dont wanna be a dick, so you can keep those to yourself, but I dont wanna go. This chick wont be putting out and Im not looking to make any more "chick" friends. little help fellas. day 2 is tomorrow...

[Guest]

the possitive feedback I get here is amazing. Im not kidding but, lets just say for aurguments sake, I just dont wanna. Whats a polite, or at least non rude way to get out of this?

[Guest]

I'm one of the ones who will agree.

You can still have a lot of fun, regardless of if she "puts out" or not. Just go with it, then you can maybe even use her later to get a girl who WILL give you what you want.

[Guest]

ug, i was affraid of that. there just aint a pua way of bowing out of this. I just hate to go with my gut on this one. how can we not have a routine for this? someone needs to make one.

[Guest]

I'm not going to try to talk you into making her your friend. If you want to fine, If not, that's fine too. It sounds like you just want sex from her. Be honest. Tell her. Tell her she's a great person and all that other bullshit and then tell her you'd like to have sex with her, but you know she's not going to, and sex is important to you, so you don't really want to go out with her unless you know you're going to be getting some. Yeah, she'll probably think you're a dick....but if you don't want a friendship out of it, do you really care what she thinks? At least you were straight up honest with her about it. How many other guys would actually tell her something like that? She might change her mind, who knows.

[Guest]

if u wont go send me her number and i'll go instead

i promise she wont bfffffffffffd me =P

[Guest]

Haha

It is so funny. Girls will flake on us and have absolutely no remorse. Here you are wanting to flake but feel super bad about it. Trying to think of the perfect thing to say.

How about you just call her and say hey I'm not gonna be able to make it out tonight. Let's rescedule for another time. Then just let things between you diminish.

You can come up with a billion excuses such as work or something really good just came along and you need to see about it. If you show excitement in your voice she will be ok with it.

Or you can do the thing that is hardest and be honest with her. I don't know about saying you just wanted to fuck her but you can say that you just aren't into her.

Call it off before she does...

[Guest]

I personally don't lower myself to "flake" standards, but if you must do exactly what playercool says.

You know i hate ho's who flake on me. I call them weak! So be a man and don't be one of them.

One of these days I'm going to start a website with pics and names of ho's who flaked. It will be like the hall of shame!

You mean to tell me you can't at least go out with this chic and better yourself from the experience? I learn something about women everytime I go out with one. That's what PUA is about buddy.

[Guest]

I swear I hate you hookers. Im going, Im going. I feel sorry for this chick though, Im gonna be a dud.

[Guest]

howie i hope you have google size server capacity for that website cause if you start in dfw you may run out of space!

sterling man just go and practice. You may not be in the mindset to want to game her since i can tell that's where your mind is now but go and practice merging sets pawning her even. That's what i've been doing when i'm not out sarging really instead i look at a situation i dont want to be in as practice. At work i have a couple of really loud alpha type guys that sit around me and all day I amog them and bust their balls ever chance i get. It's just practice for me so when i'm in the field and need to use those skills i'm ready. I've been out with chicks before that I could care less about sleeping with and i usually just wound up making it my own little game and I'll try or say random shit I normally wouldnt just to gauge their responses. ok i'll shut up now but damn try and be positive and have fun...it's why they call it a game. : )