Newbie Mission

[Tribulus1000]

Yeah I just posted this for someone else. We should come up with a couple of different missions and a quick kick start for newbies.

Have fun
Do 1000 approaches. (any and everywhere)
Practice eye contact on everyone and without being nervous
Say hello/hi to everyone, after a while
start asking questions: How is your day, Do you know where XYZ is, etc.
Even talk to guys when you are out. To them Talk about sports/work/weather etc.


Dont read too much material, just enough to get you started. If you can afford it, take a boot camp. This will warp speed your progress immensely.

passive value does help:
Get your hair styled (not necessary but shows you are in know)
body language
Work out
Cloths, this depends on your own style/age/personality

Right on brother.

[Guest]

Yeah. I've seen this in a number of places, and think it's perfect for a newbie mission.

[url]http://www.pickupguide.com/mysconv.htm[/url]

[chirojeremy]

I am game. Today I needed to go grocery shopping. I tried to talk to, say hi or have a conversation with about every decent girl I passed that was by herself. I even tried to get a number from a girl, but she said she had a boyfriend and that he would not appreciate that very much. I smiled and said well at least you were good practice.

I dont know about the going out 4 nights per week. I am a full time grad student and I dont have the money to be spending on going out all the time. I would like to focus more on coffee shops, grocery stores etc. I dont really want to meet some superficial wanna be model. I want the girl that looks like she could have been a model, but has substance and intelligence...

Then again, having a hot slutty chick every once in a while cant hurt...

[Tribulus1000]

I am game. Today I needed to go grocery shopping. I tried to talk to, say hi or have a conversation with about every decent girl I passed that was by herself. I even tried to get a number from a girl, but she said she had a boyfriend and that he would not appreciate that very much. I smiled and said well at least you were good practice.

I dont know about the going out 4 nights per week. I am a full time grad student and I dont have the money to be spending on going out all the time. I would like to focus more on coffee shops, grocery stores etc. I dont really want to meet some superficial wanna be model. I want the girl that looks like she could have been a model, but has substance and intelligence...

Then again, having a hot slutty chick every once in a while cant hurt...

Nice. Its good to test it out.
Well since you're on a college campus, daygame makes more sense.
In fact, I've heard those college campuses are THE BEST for daygame.

As far as their personality goes, look for the ones that flirt with you and give you IOI's. If they meet your standards, then plow ahead.

You might get a hold of the Venusian Arts Handbook and have a look at the M3 model.
Going Direct and expressing yourself with honesty and sexuality with a girl works very well.

[dubya]

I dont really want to meet some superficial wanna be model. I want the girl that looks like she could have been a model, but has substance and intelligence...

Then again, having a hot slutty chick every once in a while cant hurt...

I fully and completely understand what you mean.

Four nights a week is what Mystery suggest.

IMO, while Mystery does have a lot to offer I do not believe that everything that he say (or any other guru) should simply be taken without question. The quantity of set you open is really more important then how often you go out with the specific intent of opening sets. It is better to integrate the behavior into your day to day life. You want to be comfortable talking to girls in the grocery store or the circle k, not just in the clubs and bars. I've opened girls at job interviews. You can run game essentially anywhere.

To me this is much better then going out four nights a week. This mind set gives you more flexibility and more control. it allows you to meet more girls because you are meeting them all day everyday and not just on the nights you go out. Also I personally think the quality of the girl in the store is going to be higher then those you'll likely meet in the bar or club.

Be open to meeting girls in every venue you walk into.

[Dax]

There is some great advice in this thread. I couldn't agree more with incorporating this new approach and attitude towards "gaming" in your everyday life. This is where true change begins.