July FREE Presentation w/SAYBER: Friday 7/15 @ 8:30pm

[Mojo]

Sorry, I'm a little confused...will there still be a presentation then tonight with Sayber in place of Dan, or will Sayber be the speaker when this is rescheduled on the 22nd?

Sayber is speaking tonight in his place.

[whatsup]

Great talk by Sayber.

some key takeaways:

->Why stress working for what you want out of an interaction? ...better to create options for yourself, *KNOW WHAT YOU WANT*, test for it, move on if it isn't there

->How do you know what you want?
Pay close attention to your interactions. What did you like? What didn't you like?


Thanks for putting this together. It was cool to meet some guys from the local community as well.

[Icarus]

Even though Dan couldn't make it we had a great speaker take his place. Thanks Sayber!

Met some cool dudes and definitely excited to go out again.

The biggest takeaway for me was the 3 relationship types Sayber talked about. In the hierarchy of romantic involvement they were: Romantic, Friends with Benefits, Fuck Buddy. The way you treat a girl, talk to a girl, and the places you take her determine which slot she fits into. For example don't take a girl to a nice wine bar and tell her she looks stunning today if you just want a friend with benefits, since that's a romantic date and will set the tone of your relationship later. Instead take her to a friend place like a coffee shop or something more low key, maybe tell her she looks sexy as fuck in that dress and then go from there



Anyways, it was great meeting you guys and definitely looking forward to going out more. I was the guy who drove 20 hours to move down here btw.

[a-ho]

Great talk from an awesome guy! It was refreshing to hear from someone who breaks the mold and had a ton of great info on relationship management. I agree that the most valuable info was how to slot women into relationship roles by how you talk to them and where you take them. It's something that never occurred to me. I'm really looking forward to seeing everyone again Friday!