What's up people!! well i wasn't able to post any new articles lately because i didn't have a computer near me but i'm back!!!! Well this week i'm going to be talking about blind dates!! and well this post is not going to be huge or something that it will take you a lot of time to read!! it's simple and i will try to keep all my following posts like this one!!!
well then having said that i can start talking about how some people fear blind dates because they don't know the guy or girl that they're going out with, and they think that this increases the chances of the famous"everything went wrong"...
well i say that is not necessary truth!!!
my best advices for blind dates are!!!!
1. Don't be nervous..
even though you and we all know you are nervous!! try not to act nervous !!! think on anything that makes you happy or that makes you relax... imagine that you're going out with your budies, what would you do? how would you act?? well do the same!! remember she is probably nervous too,
2. Don't try to make a good impression!
Trying to make a good impression always leads to problem!! i'm not saying that you should be a jerk or worst a weirdo but act as you normally would!! Don't try to impress her by trying to be someone that you aren't.. just BE yourself!! if she likes you for who you are it's awesome if not well it's her problem
3. Take her to a fun date
many guys make the mistake of taking their dates to places such as restaurants or to the park... etc.. well you know what? she's been there before!! and because you don't know her really good yet, taking her to some boring place would be the perfect time for some awkward silence!! we all hate awkward silences!! instead of taking her to the movies or to the restaurant take her to a place where you can do activities such as riding a horse or to swimming or even better play some sports, something she usually wouldn't do on a date!!
and well blind dates are always hard but think on this!! she may be nervous too and you are so what's the problem?? what's the worst thing that could happen??
my best advice??
just have fun!!!