Punish bad behavior?

[Scoundrel]

First a little back story. I met this chick Xmas eve. She was working in a strip bar and I pulled her back to my place for a SNL. We've hooked up a few more times sense then and she appears to be completely smitten with me. She often blushes when we talk and gets very giddy.

Last Sunday she was supposed to come by my place, but she didn't show. I didn't text or call her. I just went to bed at my usual time. The next morning she started texting me saying how sorry she was. At first I was flat just saying "okay" and "I may give you a chance to make it up to me." Her only excuse for flaking was she was shooting pool with friends and lost track of the time.

We've made a plan to see each other again Wed. night. My issue is that I feel I need a way to show (not just tell) her that her flaking will not be put up with. I need something solid. My first thought is a spanking. Bend her over on my kitchen table and give her a few smacks on her tight little ass. But, not in an angry way. More of a flat, cold way, if that makes sense.

input welcomed.


Any thoughts?

[Gamble]

I don't really think that the spanking would be right in this situation for the sole fact that she would probably enjoy it too much to count as punishment. I think that a mental punishment would go a lot further than a spanking in this case, as in telling her how you feel about her flaking on you and then changing up your body language to reflect your attitude about it. That's just how I would handle the situation.

Girls like spanking too much to be a good form of punishment, lol.

[Scoundrel]

Have you ever seen a film called "The Secretary?" If not, you should.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aSEY0q1POE0&feature=PlayList&p=5804F4AC8B41BDC7&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=3