A couple of things...

[Gamble]

First off a mini-FR, second is my application to be admitted into the VIP board, and third is an announcement I need to make.

First Point:
Saturday night I went out to a party with Lucky, one of his friends, and the HB that I met Friday night. All night I was just building buying temp. When the partying was finally over, we started to escalate in my car. It got really hot on our way back to her place when she asked me a question. "When's the last time your had sex?" I lied. I told her three weeks even though it had been 6 days...

Then is where I fucked this up. I asked her what her answer would be to that question and when she wouldn't tell me, instead of just fucking dropping it, I say: "Oh, what's it been? Two days?" The only reasoning I have behind doing this is that I had been drinking and I was just way too comfortable. She immediately closed her legs, propped her feet up on the dash, told me to pull up my pants, and lit a cigarette.

What I had done here was set off the alarms of her ASD. I called her a slut or insinuated that I thought she was a slut. I dropped her off at her place and drove home a little drunk, horny, and lonely.


Second Point:
I would like to hereby submit my formal application to be a member of the VIP board:
I know who you are Mojo! lol

Third Point:
My announcement to the board:
After a brutal recovery from my fuck up Saturday night, I am happy to announce the start of an LTR with her. I promise that this will not affect my activeness or growth in the community. I actually don't remember what to do in an LTR because it's been so long since I've been in one (over 3 years...). So I don't know how long it will last, but I do still wish to help out in any way that I can.

[Mojo]

No need to submit an application for the VIPua lounge. You and the other guys are in.

As for the "When was the last time you had sex" question, this is a common question. My reply is either to steer the conversation away, letting her know that I would rather just focus on us OR tell the truth. One time I got that question and I told her, 2 and half hours ago

It depends on what you feel would be the right answer at the time.

[RockStar]

LTR = good PUA

good for you Gamble! personally i think a PUA in an LTR is a no bullshit guy with really tight game. Besides isn't that the point of all of this.

Rockstar

[Lucky9]

I agree on the LTR, I think its a good thing if thats what you feel. Alot of people think LTR is a bad idea but if you share common interests and feel strongly then why not?(Rhetorical question) Its also possible ASD was triggered earlier and put up because she felt uncomfortable because she had to much to drink. Its possible that it wasnt what you said but how she was feeling. At times I believe girls can look for reasons to not seem "easy", this would be used because they are uncomfortable and this might not have had anything to do with you or what you said, although what you said was what she was looking for to slow everything down (maybe).The reason I say this is because the whole night she was asking me "Do I look drunk? Do I seem drunk? Really do you think I am drunk?" and she was obvioulsy into you, just a possibility and another prospective.

[the_devil]

Just for clarification. LTR is Long Term Relationship?

[Gamble]

Yup