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Postby dubbinson » Thu Oct 22, 2009 9:07 am

I was talking with Dante last night and we were running over some ideas to tell if a girl really is interested or not. Tell me if this one is any good.
For the last three weeks me and this girl, HBcheerleader, have been texting pretty much everyday, but it isnt really going anywhere. And i don't have very many oppurtunitys other than school to game on her because im grounded(lol something i'm sure none of you miss about being young). She always waits for me after school at the same spot and we talk then but nothing really more. So I've decided to stop texting her and meeting her after school until shes texts me or calls me without any prompt by me, hoping that will give me an IOI. Again since we are in highschool, for most of the girls you have to put in a shitload of effort and not get much out........so i dont expect too much :/
Do y'all think im doing the right thing? or have any suggestions?? especially about improving my text game because at the moment its pretty much all i've got

As always, any and all help is appreciated

Thanks guys,
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Re: FR/HELP!!

Postby Scoundrel » Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:40 am

Dude I got laid like crazy in high school. But, that was the 70s and maybe things have changed. How long has thisn been going on? If it's more than a couple of days and you still haven't put the move on her you may already be in the friend zone. Have you beeen taking her up the kino ladder? Get her alone and go for a kiss.
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Re: FR/HELP!!

Postby dubbinson » Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:28 am

Haha, Its not that I don't get laid. It just that the girls that I seem to be most attracted to are the good girls, where more often than not, if I don't hit on them the first time I meet them its an automatic induction to the friend zone! That's were this one has seemingly settled, any ideas on how to get it out of there?
Also could that be considered a sticking point?? Being attracted to the good girls?!

I appreciate the feedback but i feel that I havent made her comfortable enough with me to go in for the kiss yet, does the mean more kino escalation?

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Re: FR/HELP!!

Postby Scoundrel » Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:38 am

Kino is the key. Just start by putting your arm around her shoulder while you're looking away. This move is called "the claw" and it's like magic. But, do it in a picking on your little sister sort of way. Try using false disqualifiers. But, keep up the kino. Get her used to you touching her and take her up then ladder. But, you have to be able to sense if she's uncomfortable. Stop if she tenses up any.

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Re: FR/HELP!!

Postby RockStar » Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:00 am

Yeah scoundrel is right kino is the key to a successful sarge. check out Speers on youtube. Mehow also has some great kino routines.

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Re: FR/HELP!!

Postby dubbinson » Thu Oct 29, 2009 8:32 am

Men,
So Kino is something I should use on every girl, not just the ones im trying to fuck? I understand that it builds comfort and i know its effective, but i don't really get it what im supposed to do. I understand kino is kinesthetics and that its just alot of touching and contact. But are we talking the casual arm slip on the shoulder like Scoundrel suggested or something more along the lines of tickling or something?
A appreciate the help though.

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Re: FR/HELP!!

Postby Scoundrel » Thu Oct 29, 2009 10:11 am

I start kino with a simple tap on her hand or knee while making a point in our conversation. Next, I'll lean in to whisper something in her ear while putting my hand on her thigh. I don't have a set routine I use. What I posted above is during a seated set.

Basically, you are just getting her use to you touching her. You have to pay attention to how she's reacting in her body language. If she tenses up any, take it down a notch and start again. Kino is won in the take away. When you stop touching her she misses it and feels the loss.
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Re: FR/HELP!!

Postby RockStar » Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:17 am

kino can also be used to pump buying temp during attraction thats where I use it a lot. The claw (as scoundrel mentioned), the spin which is just grabbing her hand and spinning her like you would if you where dancing, the swing hug which is picking her up and spinning her in circles, very caveman very effective. grabbing her hand and holding it while you talk to her. slapping her ass. The half nelson full nelson father nelson...which is speer funny as shit. knuckles, high fives. I'm telling you to look up mehow or speer on you tube you will learn a lot. The more comfortable you feel doing kino the more comfortable she will feel because it not a big deal, that's how you are.

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Re: FR/HELP!!

Postby dubbinson » Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:45 pm

This is great!
Thanks alot guys, I will watch the Youtube videos and If I have any more questions I'll let y'all know
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