by Scoundrel » Mon Sep 07, 2009 6:54 pm
Gaming on the net is HARD. But, it's there and there are a number of free dating sires. So, why not take advantage of it? The more hooks you have in the water the better.
Just create an interesting profile. Have some good pics of yourself doing fun things. I have a pic of me water skiing on my profile. One trick I discovered is to have pics of yourself with girls, but crop them so the girl is mostly out of the picture. This gives you some "social proof" without looking like you are trying to brag about how many girls you get.
As for as the messages you send, I've had the best luck sending cocky/funny stuff and push pull. But, you have to be careful. Sometimes it can read like an insult when if you said it, it would be funny. Push pull also works, but you have to do the pull part last and follow it up with a question.
Don't get in a big hurry to meet her. Instead tell her about how much fun you had last weekend at so and so bar with your friends. This will make her want to go with you an wonder why you haven't invited her.
If you have any other questions feel free to post them.