Another New one.

[Gonzo]

I feel like my life is on hold, like I'm waiting for something. I think too much about women when I should be focusing on myself and actualizing goals. It seems like if I could just get this part of my life handled and not over value women I could move on. I need a reframe. I'm here to learn.

[north21]

I understand perfectly because I am roughly in the same spot. The reality is that learning seduction is seductive. I have college finals this week and I am spending four times as much time on learning the game as I am on school. Its rough.

But learning the game can help you get what you are trying to buy from the world with everything else.

job?= women
money?= women
most hobbies?= women

Just balance your life, get the girls, and then you will be doing what you love because you love it, and for no other reason

[Stance]

Get out in the field and break through the barriers... if you're hung up and have woman on the mind all the time, then maybe your seeking something else besides the lifestyle. As TD & Style have said in many ways... you need to make inner game strong before you'll really be able to play the game well. So like you said man... reframe... and get your mind right. Focus on yourself first... think of the woman and the game as just another hobby and you'll do well.

Also, if you're not developing yourself physically/working out... then I highly recommend you get started... not just because you'll look better, but because it'll help you relieve some of your anxiousness and focus your mind.

-Stance