by Stryke » Sun Apr 19, 2009 1:03 pm
I was at a club yesterday went through the standard steps of the Emotional Progression Model even tho it was a little rocky, I recieved compliance, she succesfully qualified and then I hit comfort. Usually in comfort I always try to kiss close, the tension was there, but when I used a kiss gambit it didn't go through as well as I hoped. Anyways got the number close but for some reason it didn't feel as satisfying as a kiss close. There was a discussion on another forum that I frequent about whether it was better to go for a kiss close or a number close. A kiss close has the ability to solidify attraction because before the kiss IoIs can be misinterpreted or fake but a kiss is usually a good indicator that she is into you. However with kissing she might be more standoffish later because she could have the perception that just because you kissed her within a little while of meeting her you might think she is easy and no girl wants to be considered easy. There was a guy in the other forum where his game was to be high energy open basically every set in the room and then begin number closing but no SameNightLays or kiss closes. However that was what he said worked for him. I was interested in thoughts about whether it is important to kiss close or wait for the 2nd time out with the girl to initiate this? Also comfort is one of my sticking points right now if a girl won't kiss in a club then spending too long in comfort seems pointless, ecspecially if you are unable to bounce her to another location, at the same time getting her number and then leaving might not solidify the chance you get a day 2.