Easy way to pass every shit test.

[Scoundrel]

Whenever yo think she's testing you give her a little IOD and ask "is this a test?"

[Westfall]

Whenever yo think she's testing you give her a little IOD and ask "is this a test?"

IMO, that sets a horrible frame. She should not be the one testing you to see if she is good enough for her, it should be you testing the girl.

A better way to pass every shit test is to become high enough value where you are unreactive and outcome indendent.

[Scoundrel]

Westfall, this is a way of reframing her test without jumping into her hoop. If she is testing you, she is attracted to you. If she's not attracted she wouldn't bother testing you. It's you calling her on being attracted to you in a suttle way. You just busted her.

[Westfall]

Have you tried this tactic successfully with a girl? I can tell you, if you do you are buying into the frame that she is testing you. I know that if she is testing she is attracted, but does she know what that means?

Im certain this will set up a frame of her testing you, which is not the frame you want.

[Scoundrel]

Yes, I use it often. whenever it comes up. Moreover, I've been using it for many years. I just never thought about posting it because it was something that came out of me naturally.

I think I understand why you may be having trouble understanding why it works. It's in the way you ask it, in the tone of your voice. This is going to be a little complex.

When you ask her you have to lower the tone of your voice in pitch and turn slightly away from her. This is a repore breaking tactic I learned during my RSD bootcamp last year. It must be done playfully.

Just try it. If it doesn't work for you don't use it again. If it does then do use it. It's funny because the chick knows she's been busted. I've seen them blush when I've said it.

Also it won't work in every set. You have to use it on a chick with enough brains to understand irony. This also may be why it's not coming across to you in text.