changing first impressions

[Honesty]

I have been going to college for 4 or 5 years and have tried to talk too many of the women at my college or I have talked to someone they know. I find it apparent that they think I have DLV. My question is how do I restore my value to my peers. In “The Mystery Method,” I have made some recent changes that have seemed to give me some added value, but I have tried to avoid opening my mouth much past, “hi, how are you doing” in order to avoid demonstrating lower value.

My question is, how do change someone's first impression of you. Many of the venues I hang out at are full of people I recognize from school and who believe I have DLV than them. I don't wanna change venues and try to reinvent myself. I want to make this one work.

Any suggestions?

~Honesty~

[Dax]

I have been going to college for 4 or 5 years and have tried to talk too many of the women at my college or I have talked to someone they know. I find it apparent that they think I have DLV. My question is how do I restore my value to my peers. In “The Mystery Method,” I have made some recent changes that have seemed to give me some added value, but I have tried to avoid opening my mouth much past, “hi, how are you doing” in order to avoid demonstrating lower value.

My question is, how do change someone's first impression of you. Many of the venues I hang out at are full of people I recognize from school and who believe I have DLV than them. I don't wanna change venues and try to reinvent myself. I want to make this one work.

Any suggestions?

~Honesty~

Hey there Honesty,

It seems that further development in your inner game is very necessary. The Mystery Method covers mostly strategy...I would aim for an additional resource. Umm...there are plenty of things out there, but I think Style's 30 day challenge in his 2 book set would benefit you. Mainly b/c there are many tools in there about imroving yourself and your value..outside of strategies and bars. It's cheap and will no doubt benefit you in some way.

It seems that you may be a bit paranoid of others' opinion. Forgive my judgement, I'm just telling you my advice. Afterall...you are telling us what their opinions are of you and you don't really have a clue...you're just guessing. I think the first step would be to let go of your need for the approval of others. The way you carry yourself at these venues can change their perception immediately. For example; if you walk around watching these people and analyzing their occasional glances at you...you will certainly appear to be a needy follower who is unsure of himself...

You should get rid of the negative connotations of having lower value. You are independent, life of the party, and confident in everything you do. Go into the venue with that mindset and just enjoy your company and what you are doing in that moment with those people. The people you are targeting will see and feel this alpha male energy you are radiating. Seriously...take yourself out of your head and picture what the scene looks like when you act the way you normally do...then imagine what it would look like if you were the guy mentioned above.

With enough practice and internalization, you will be fighting these people off with a stick. Good luck man.