Direct Method by PhPeters87

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From Post: Direct Game: Pro's and Con's

PhPeters87 is a member of Direct Method Forum on YourDatingDoctor.com.

[quote= "phpeters87"]The thing about Direct Method is that 99% of guys out there can't or won't do it, and even if they try, they can't do it correctly.

Why? Because they don't have the balls to do it. They need to hide behind indirect opinion openers to protect their fragile ego's from possible rejection, and they've been brainwashed not to show interest.

Also, it shows you have BALLS - huge balls which again, 99% of the guys out there do not have the courage to approach directly and most important, correctly.

It also creates massive attraction when done correctly in most cases.

Not all, but most.

I recently had a HB 9.5 trembling and repeatedly saying "Oh my god" while doing my direct approach on her.

Do you think asking her if she flosses before or after brushing her teeth, or who lies more, men or women would have gotten that reaction?

Of course not.

One of the argument that the excuser's make against direct method is that "you give away your power" by opening directly with a compliment.

If they think that doing so "gives away power" then they never had any in the first place.

When I open direct and I have a 9+ literally trembling, who has the power in that interaction?

These guys hiding their interests are not men, they are scared little boys because they don't have the balls to show what they want and more importantly, to go for it and to express it without apology or without excuses.

Direct Method works on numerous levels, probably even some that we are not even aware of.

But the main reason is that it shows you have a big pair, and that you are not afraid to show her your big pair either.

That creates massive attraction, instantaneously.

And yes, it is fun even if you get rejected, you can be creative and have fun with it to the point where you can even turn it around. Especially when you don't care about the outcome.

Just concentrate on showing your interest, and not having any reservations about showing your interest or hiding it or any of that BS

Also, and this is very important, is that you must be direct and free of excuses in all aspects of your life, not just when it comes to approaching women.

Why? Because you will not be congruent with it unless you live it.

Women can sense fakers from a mile away. They have a "sixth sense" for BS

Since I've started adopting a non-excuser lifestyle, it has made a big difference in my personal and professional life.

I've recently been promoted at my company and not only do I now have my own office, but I got a nice big raise to go along with it and I can attribute much of it to being direct and not being an excuser, like so many of my co-workers who have seniority over me, but weren't promoted like I was because they are excuser's who blame others and don't take responsibility if they make mistakes, which everyone does at one time or another.

There is more to it, but I would say much of the reason I got the promotion and the nice, big pay raise is because I've adopted the non-excuser attitude and not only talk the talk, but walk the walk so to speak.

You can't selectively be an excuser in some parts of your life, but not with women and expect the direct method to work for you.

With a direct, non-excuser approach, you have to go all the way, in all aspects of your life, otherwise you're wasting you're time.

Speaking of excuser's, is anybody been watching the "Pickup Artist" show on VH1 with Mystery?

It is a reality show where Mystery teaches guys to become Pick up artist's and every week, one guy is eliminated until one guy is left.

He is then declared a Master Pick up artist and wins $50,000 and travels around the world with Mystery, learning and teaching Mystery Method. (aka "Misery Method")

After a month, one guy has kiss closed a drunken club girl who was at best a 7, and another guy number closed a coffee shop girl who was a 5

That's it. After a month, that's the furthest these guys have gotten with girls.

IMO, this show is a disaster for Mystery, as his method isn't getting these guys very good results and reflects poorly on his method.

Ironically, the best looking guy on the show still has Approach Anxiety and has difficulty approaching.

Why? Because MM focuses on external tricks and tactics and gimmicks, and not on addressing the internal issues.

Which brings me back to my point of you can't expect to use tricks and tactics and gimmicks and expect to attract women.

You must practice Direct, no, check that - you must be Direct in all aspects of your life, otherwise you won't see positive results as women can spot a fake, an excuser from a mile away.

After spending 10 years off and on in "the community" I have come to the realization over the last 2 or so years that a direct, non-excuser lifestyle is your best option for meeting and attracting beautiful women.

There are no shortcuts. Tricks and gimmicks will get you limited, short-term results, with a limited demographic. Mostly drugged and drunk, low self-esteemed club chicks who go home with a different guy every weekend.

That's fine once in a while, but some of us want something more, like a woman of substance to match a Man of substance.

Be her Prince, her Knight in Shining Armor and not a (Peacocking) Jester.

I got into Direct to meet and attract hot women, but I ended up with much more than that, and meeting and dating hot women are a part of the deal.

Am I dating and doing 9's and 10's on a regular basis?

No, but I'm 47 years old, and I'm dating and doing more hot chicks in their 20's then when I was in my 20's, and I have a sense of control of my life that I've never had before. [/quote]
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