Lion wrote:grimm1111 wrote:Anything unusual or interesting could get you opened, that's not getting you laid. In fact, very few girls will sleep with you just because they're physically attracted, even drunk girls. The game is played in comfort.
There's a big difference in wearing a silly hat and having a great body. Whether you want to admit it or not women love muscles. Turn on the TV, how many skinny or flabby sex-symbols do you see? None. They all have great physiques. If you don't want to work out, that's cool. You can still get girls. Just don't kid yourself and think that it doesn't make any difference because it absolutely does. And instead of being that guy that doesn't work out and telling me it doesn't make any difference, why don't you ask someone you know that has transformed their body and ask them if it has made a difference. The point of the game is to become the complete package. That includes the way you look. So we can stick with having an average body (we know what average means) or we can be the guy that stands out physically in a crowd. Even if it's only, as you say, a placebo effect you will still feel 10 times better. What's wrong with feeling 10 times better?
For the record, it works both ways. Girls will sleep with a guy solely because he is attractive. Girls will also sleep with guys because they have great game. Let's not discount any one way. Before you start a flame war, it is my opinion that you DO NOT have to be attractive to get laid.
Flame war? Not sure what that is but is sounds like a waste of time.
Look, I really don't do the whole ego thing, but I do believe in putting yourself out there as honestly as possible so to answer you fairly - I'm a good looking guy, and I've been to the gym a time or two.
Here's what I've noticed - you're free to disagree. There is a small percentage of girls that will sleep with you just for your looks, provided you don't fuck it up. Just like there's a small percentage who will sleep with a guy just for his money. But it's never been the quality girl I would choose for myself.
The other thing it does is it gets you instant IOI's and proximity during the day - but not as much at night/bars/etc. I'm curious to see if it makes a bigger difference with day game than just as an approach-invitation-getter. I don't do too much day game now, but there may be something to be said and explored there. I can't comment since I don't have the experience.
Internet - who knows. I don't do online game right now. I imagine it would help here since they don't have much else to go on.
Aat the bar girls just do not seem to give a fuck, that's the flat out truth. Maybe I'll get some EC, some proximity.
Look, I've been blown out of a set by a guy named Tenmagnet when in Las Vegas right before joining this community. The guy's like 5'6 and 10 years my senior, but being a MM instructor his game was just so tight he pulled a 9 right from under my nose by coming in to the set by buying me a beer, and then being more interesting and challenging. Am I mad? Not at all. Lesson learned.
My women are always telling me how good I make the love. I move my butt in a circular fashion...it does the job...