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Postby Skaldgrimnir » Thu Apr 03, 2008 10:32 pm

Isosceles,

I am pretty new myself, and I'm not worried about anyone bringing down my game. I have things I am working on. I will take care of me. But you and I can go to the same venue, talk to people, and have fun.
The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me. - A. Rand
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Postby zine » Thu Apr 03, 2008 11:14 pm

isoscoles I'm still holding you accountable for the positivity challenge man.. All the stuff you just said was negative, real?... sure, but how can you view all those things in a positive light?
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Postby isosceles cheese » Fri Apr 04, 2008 1:53 am

zine wrote:isoscoles I'm still holding you accountable for the positivity challenge man.. All the stuff you just said was negative, real?... sure, but how can you view all those things in a positive light?


the positivity challenge died. I feel like shit and the only way to change that is to see a light at the end of this tunnel.
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Postby El Fenix » Fri Apr 04, 2008 10:59 am

isosceles cheese wrote:
Let me guess.

When you do get close to a girl you tend to get the "Lets just be friends" speech?

Right now I'm really stuck on the idea that there is no way any of these women want me talking to them. I have shitty cars, only make OK money, I'm not very attractive, out of shape, and am generally mediocre. I'm like a base model car. Sure I'm reliable and get good mpg and just so happen to be RWD, but I don't have leather and nothing special.


If thats your self perception, then you need to work on THAT first. If you dont think you have value, she surely wont.
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Postby Bull Run » Fri Apr 04, 2008 12:08 pm

El Fenix wrote:
isosceles cheese wrote:
Let me guess.

When you do get close to a girl you tend to get the "Lets just be friends" speech?

Right now I'm really stuck on the idea that there is no way any of these women want me talking to them. I have shitty cars, only make OK money, I'm not very attractive, out of shape, and am generally mediocre. I'm like a base model car. Sure I'm reliable and get good mpg and just so happen to be RWD, but I don't have leather and nothing special.


If thats your self perception, then you need to work on THAT first. If you dont think you have value, she surely wont.


El Fenix is 100% right. Why don't you start to improve on the things that you think may be lacking? Go to the gym. Upgrade your waredrobe. Maybe some continuing education of some type to improve your work status.
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Postby zine » Fri Apr 04, 2008 12:34 pm

fix anything you don't like about yourself. If something you don't like about yourself can't be changed then accept it as part of the amazing person you are.
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1.you can become an amazing manipulator
2 you can become an amazing man

If you are not escalating then you aren't doing anything.

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