What methods have worked for YOU?

[Slick85]

I am wanting to know what methods have made you the most successful... and not a girl every now and then, but on a consistent basis... and please don't give me any "believe you can achieve" type stuff, just concrete techniques that have helped you hookup
thanks

[Lion]

If you can dream it, you can do it!

Cocky/Funny works best. But that's not really even a method, eventually it will just be your personality. I pick and pull what I want from each method, but I would never limit myself to one. What you should do is just get out there a few nights a week and try stuff out. Some things will work for you, some won't. You won't get handed pickup skills on a silver platter.

[tpxgloveboy]

i've only been successful at this twice.....only because i've tried it just twice.....in the same night too....maybe I was "on" that night or something....but one of my major sticking points at the moment is coming off as just wanting to meet ppl and not coming across as more of a fclose, and I've been trying to change this as you will read...

On one girl, I told her I was gay and that she looked cute and how I might ask her for her number if I was straight, but the only reason I would ask for it is for us to go shopping....then we get into talking about what guys she would want to fuck,marry,kill at this party we were at....she picks the guys....the guy that she picks that she wants to fuck...I talk him down saying I would never go for a guy like that because he just doesn't seem to dominate in the sheets.....then I start telling her how I'm a little rough with women, how I want to make a woman feel like she is a woman and give examples......she ate it up, got her number, we've been texting, and just today, we text and she's says, "well you're a stripper and I know you like rough sex....."...my response is "ya those are 2 out of 3 qualities that I tell ppl when they ask me to describe myself".....naturally she responds with "well what's the other quality...." my response: "i can't tell you....I can only show you".....then she says, "oh my.....the images that are popping into my head right now are enough to make jenna jameson blush"

another girl at the same party tells me she's studying to be a sex therapist and we naturally start talking about sex.....

my point is....i didn't start talking about sex with these 2 girls until comfort was developed, but i was surprised that I didn't get a slap in the face or get called out for being a pervert

women like sex as much as guys or maybe more

what i've found out is that it is okay to talk about sex and not be considered a creep when doing it.....i'm only 21 and only been in the game for several months, but still learning tonz all the time

[Lion]

You've been in the game several months but you've only tried it twice? That doesn't make sense. But it sounds like you're doing fine. Keep doing that, just with more girls. And yes, of course it's ok to talk about sex. Everyone on the planet is here because of sex. All women want is some serious deep dicking.

[playercool]

What sucks is I don't have a method. I have taken little bit's and pieces from MM. I think I have some natural game. And unfortunately Alcohol tends to do wonders. Mix all 3 together and add in cocky/funny with some good negs and I have had success.

Someday I am going to build a routine stack and blow the doors off a joint. Well at least get blown by a 9+.

[Vector]

I am wanting to know what methods have made you the most successful... and not a girl every now and then, but on a consistent basis... and please don't give me any "believe you can achieve" type stuff, just concrete techniques that have helped you hookup
thanks

What will work for you depends on your personality, and what strengths you have right now.

If you're already very social and outgoing and have a positive attitude, but you can't seem to close, or you end up being "just friends" then you will need one thing, whereas if you're a 'nerd' who usually avoids talking to strangers and prefers (and is better with) deeper intellectual conversation, then you're going to need something very different.

Excluding relationships with women, do you have your life together and are you on a path that you are proud of, or are you somewhat embarassed about your current trend and feel uncomfortable giving women the unvarnished truth?

You don't have to answer these questions for me, but these are some of the considerations that I think will influence what will work for you and what won't.

[Fuzz]

These aren't really methods, per say, but these are three things that have helped my game immensley:

1) Dressing with style. Even if you're not physically attractive women will somehow be fooled into thinking you are.

2) Not caring about the outcome. Basically, but setting a frame in which having sex matters as much to you as not. That is not to say, never escalate sexual tension, but not to worry about whether or not you get a particularly girl, because your neediness will be easily transmitted to others.

3) Being comfortable around women. This means interacting with women a lot. Not just women you're hooking up with or trying to hook up with, but forging platonic relationships as well. The more you are around women, the easier it'll be be for you to interact with them, and plus it'll make you more attractive in the eyes of other women.

Of course, I'm still new to all this, but so far these are the core principles that have helped me along. If anyone wants to eveluate them and maybe even criticize them please feel free to do so.

[El Fenix]

My natural style is cocky funny. I worked in the service industry for years, and was cocky funny with customers, long before I heard of the community.

When I started out, I learned routines, and openers, and used that as my framework, and less of what I naturally am, thats an asset. I served the structure, instead of using it to serve me.

I finally realized I had some things going for me, that I had abandoned. If you see me out now, its more of me being a smartass, within a general MM framework.
Routines are there to move things along, or to bring out of conversation falters. They are like guardrails/training wheels and a catalyst all at the same time.
To paraphrase Style: i thought routines were the entire bike, but then i found out they were the training wheels, and meant to keep me between the guardrails, and on track.

[Slick85]

im decent looking... probably a 7 or 8 maybe depending on the girls tastes, dress metro but not too much, in shape, no im not a nerd