Sex, seduction and the importance of music & lighting

[Alphagame]

Ok guys, I've learned something about seduction and while others may already know this by heart, it was something I've only recently figured out.

About 2 months ago, I pulled a woman back to my house from the bars. I had just recently purchased a new stereo that allows my ipod to connect to it. Anyway, as we were fucking, she REALLY got into it when a certain song came up. I mean, she was going nuts.

Women are way more emotional than us. So if you prefer sex with music, it's like 10X more powerful with women.

That said, if you drag a woman back to your house, ALWAYS turn on some cool seduction music. In fact, before I go out, I turn the stereo on just in case I pull some tail to the house. That way, I don't even have to turn it on. It's already there as soon as we walk in.

When you get ready to start the heavy make-out session and seduce her, the right music can increase your odds dramatically. My personal favorite is The Cure - Mixed Up. This music is the best seduction music on the planet. Also, turn it up LOUD when you get ready to start the seduction. It helps a lot.

The other thing is, the darker, the better. Lights turned on everywhere in the house is not good. If you plan to seduce in the living room, keep the living room lights turned off. Maybe a hall light should be on.

I also do this now too. Before I go out, I set the light up such that there's enough to see what we're doing when we walk in and I don't have to touch a light switch. We can get drinks and talk with the lights the way they are when we walk in, but as for the living room couches, it's dimly lit.

As for the state break, basically, this is how it goes for me. We walk in, the stereo is already playing regular music from my iPod. We talk a little and get some beverages. When I get ready to start the seduction, I say "Hey, you should hear this. This is the coolest music. You like The Cure?" Then I walk over to my iPod, which sits in a stand above my TV, I punch the button a few times and its playing. (iPod is nice...there is no fumbling through a stack of CD's and all that shit) Then I turn it up loud. Then I grab her hand and drag her to the couch and say "Get your ass over here, you." Immediately start making out. A really good move is to sit her down on the couch, then straddler her, such that your knees are on the couch on the outside of her legs, lean into her, grab her face with both hands and kiss her.

The right music. Loud music. The right lighting. Helps a lot.

[zine]

there's nothing like fucking to techno...

I agree with this. I always have the mindset that I am going to get laid that night if I'm really in to any of the girls I meet, so might as well prepare the room for when the girl comes over.
Only problem I've ran into. Don't put too much effort into it. You still gotta make it seem like it was a spur of the moment thing that she came over and you had sex with her. Too much effort is needy and can fuck you over.

Good advice man

[Smirks]

Ambient/Lounge music is the bestttttt for this.

http://shoutcast.com/sbin/shoutcast-playlist.pls?rn=841&file=filename.pls

[dubya]

Man I'm getting horny just listening to this shit... this is fucking awesome dog... Yeah baby... Okay I'm gonna go rub my nipples now while I'm chilling to this groove salad music...

[Finesse]

Groove salad is fucking awesome.

[dubya]

Your dancing penis banana makes me hot too btw...

[DateDemon]

I have a friend who is a totally natural with women, and he had a playlist he titled "Hardcore fucking" I wish I knew what was on that lol but he swore by it.

Oh and that groove salad is pretty awesome. thx for the share.

[DateDemon]

The advice is really good, and though I will admit I do not use music as much as I should I am very for preparing before in case a girl comes back to your place.

Besides setting the lighting well, you need to keep some condoms near your bed so you don't have to kill the momentum to get one. Also if you are chilling on a couch and there are pillows on the couch. I usually move the pillows to the sides so she has to sit in the middle closer with me. You also want to keep in mind that when she gets there its all about comfort. Going somewhere new will be a nervous experience naturally so you need to go out of your way to make the place as comforting as possible. YOU NEED TO CLEAN YOUR BATHROOM. If you think there is any chance a girl might come to your place clean your bathroom. Girls care about that. Whenever you go out also make sure your place is ready to bring a girl back. I mean maybe not when you are leaving for the day but any time you go out at night you never know when you might run into an awesome girl and you don't want to win the lottery of getting a girl when you weren't expecting it only to take her back to a crappy place.

Also all table surfaces should be clear or almost clear. For some reason it just looks a lot better. It also allows you to highlight certain things. If you have a cleared off night stand with only a book on it. She might ask about the book. Or if it has a little cool sculpture or whatever.

I am sure I will think of more in a bit but thats a good start

[Twitchy]

http://twitchypua.blogspot.com/2007/06/ ... r-pad.html

[dubya]

One of the things I thought was interesting on the OVERPRICED Mystery's video archive was how he talks about getting the girl involved in setting up the romantic atmosphere, e.g. Telling her to pick some music from your collection... grab a CD off the top shelf where all the good stuff is while you are setting up some candles... ect...

Now, take this post with a grain of salt... As living with my parents I've only brought one girl home since I started this and well... didn't do any of this... and wasn't really prepared to have her there.