My text game (updated, 1 last question)

[YellowStarS2k]

Comments and critiques requested and appreciated, as I'm completely new to PUA. Hell, I'm just a wannabe PUA, I'll admit it.

Day 1 (daytime)
I walk into Bank of America to withdraw some money and replace my debit card. It takes forever. I chat it up with a cute asian girl who also goes to the same college. She seems to be attracted to me, and I flirt with her. When we're done, I ask, "So, for taking so long, do I get something in return, like a courtesy credit, or your phone number?" *scribble* "I'll call you this weekend.

This was 2 fridays ago, so 2 weekends have passed. This is the text conversation we have today (mostly word for word):
Me: Hey it was nice meeting you. I'd like to take you out to lunch for some stimulating conversation later this week. How does Saturday sound?
Her: who is this?
Me:Playing hard to get already huh? Do you give your number out to that many guys? Haha
Her:haha what?
Me: so you really don't remember me huh? You should. You gave me your number.
Her:From the bank?
Me: Yep my name is Joey if you have forgotten
Her:Aww hey Joey! It was great meeting you too. You seem really nice. Haha for a stimulating conversation? lol
Me: Nice huh? I must have made a good first impression then. Sure lunch for some stimulating conversation. Coffee is too cliche, although lunch may be too.
Her:Haha that sounds great but I gotta admit that I am dating someone but I would love to gain a friend? Sorry dont wanna give the wrong impression Or don't wanna waste your time at least
Me:That's okay, I'm gay.
Her:Hahaha shopping buddies?
Me:hahaha, awesome! I can pick out what I think will look great on you. Gay Asian men have exceptionally good fashion, even moreso than the average gay man.
Her:Awesome! I would love an honest opinion. Do you have class tomorrow?
Me: Class and work. Damn girl, you're going to call my bluff about being gay huh? Ouch. I really must have confused you on the day we met then.
Her:Haha where do you work?
Me: BS about work. I must admit I'm also in a relationship and it's coming to a close. HEY! and who said that I wanted to date you anyways? I'm just trying to make new friends.
Her:Haha damn boy.. I'm pretty much the same. Mine is going shitty lol. Well you work extremely late. bla bla, I don't ever see you at school, I'm there from 11-3 tomorrow
Me:Haha there's gotta be a reason why you gave me your number more BS about work. Noted that I have weekends off.
Me: Yeah, I if I saw you at school before, you would have given me your number sooner.
Her:Haha you're so silly! Well.. Glad you messaged me! Saturday seems like a plan.. I'll let ya know whats up then k.
Me:Yep, nice chatting with you.

Think I might have a chance with her. She seems to show interest and told me that her relationship is going shitty. Insights?
Thanks.

[playercool]

Here is my take.

Calling the gay card works. It works well if you can play it right.

For example me and Lion were out Saturday. We played the gay card. It almost worked too good. Now me and my chick were all over each other. He later Kclosed his chick. The whole night they were questioning the gayness. I believe we both dropped that we were actually Bi. At some point I think we should have dropped the gay card but we didn't. I know we went home alone so I am questioning how long you play it.

If you are going to play the gay card you have to play it in a way that she questions it. I am not exactly sure how you will do this. I am just giving you something to think about. If you leave it in the LJBF zone too long that is where it will most likely stay. In addition even if she becomes a good friend if she really believes you are gay then you can't hook up with her friends. At least she won't hook you up with them.

You definitely did well dropping her shield. She probably doesn't even really have a BF. I would say if you play this right you have an extremely good shot.

Build Attraction
Escalate
She will question.
Escalate anyways.
Tell her your Bi.
Escalate More.
Never bring up the gay thing again.
Escalate.
She will question again.
Tell her you are 70/30 Straight/Gay
Escalate hoping she drops it for good.

Goodluck

[YellowStarS2k]

I'm not sure if you or her picked up on when I said "You're going to call my bluff about being gay huh?" That worries me because both of you missed it. I guess what I said was too subtle when trying to correct my image.
Oh well we'll see how it goes. Thanks for the input!
Any comments on anything else? My flamesuit \ n00bsuit is already on.

[Lion]

Playercool, I don't think we should have dropped the gay thing. Our downfall was that we simply didn't invite them over. Keep playing the gay card while escalating sexually. For example, I'm 70/30 then kiss her and say now I'm only 60% gay and keep going. Deep down they knew we weren't gay, but it would have been fun to let them try and "turn" us straight. Yeah, you're instuctions at the bottom are good.

YellowStarS2k I wouldn't have come clean about the gay thing, at least not so soon into the convo. And she didn't even mention it, I would have left it out in the open. Let her wonder about you. When you said you weren't gay it's almost just like telling her you are interested in her. You still have a chance with her, she mentioned her relationship is not going well. Break out those bf destoyers and then get some kneepads for her.

[YellowStarS2k]

And she didn't even mention it, I would have left it out in the open. Let her wonder about you. When you said you weren't gay it's almost just like telling her you are interested in her.

Ahhhhhhh, I see. I didn't even THINK about I could use the gay situation to display disinterest! Thanks to you and playercool for pointing this out to the noob.

[YellowStarS2k]

Under further scrutiny, I find 2 things I could have done better.
1. She probably didn't remember my name. I could have made her guess my name and give her shit about it.
2. I probably could have said bye better, like "Bye, new shopping buddy." or something like that.
any opinions? I think I'm overthinking it.

[Solace]

Playing the gay card is a touchy subject. Juggler who works with vibing, recommends only talking seriously about ur sexuality. However in ur case I kinda like the way u secured ur day 2 by saying u were gay. She immediately became comfortable with the idea. Now trick is to make sure she knows sooner than later that u aren't gay or else it appears as though u lied or have inner game issues.

I never play the gay card myself, only because I'm a bit efeminate, and normally people might assume that I may be so. I prefer things like shopping, I love new clothes and I'm very fashion oriented. However most girls after spending a few moments in convo with me understand that I am straight and are aware that I am a very sexual person. Solid text game though! Ud be surprised what u can do with txts. I went a month without an actual phone cause my microphone busted twice. I sent 6000 txts that month. I am at a level where I am learning how to evoke desired emotional responses strictly using txts. Its an amazing side of game, similar to facebook or online dating.

[YellowStarS2k]

I'll make sure I seduce her so well, there will be no doubt in her mind I'm gay. I mean straight! haha

[YellowStarS2k]

It's on!

Me: Hey cutie, we still on for tomorrow? I can pick you up around 3 or 4.
Her: Hey! Awesome but I dont get out of work till 330 so four would be great!
Me: Alright, shopping buddy! Pick you up from the house \ apt or work?
Her: Where are you coming from
Me: I live right behind your bank of america.
Me: I'm going to wager a guess that you either live in carrollton or near UTD. (she seems like a carrollton girl)
Her: lol carrollton ten min away from bank. You wanna pick me up at home?
Her: So that way I can change or I can meet u up somewhere
Me: Haha I knew it. Sure. A pickup can be arranged. No Bank of America pride? Or are you getting dressed up for me?
Her: Haha <address>
Me: Ok, 4 it is.
Her: Great! See ya then buddy!
Me: Ok. Make sure you put on my favorite perfume
Her: Haha don't flatter yourself
Me:

Did I overdo it with the last 2 lines? What does she mean when she says "don't flatter yourself"?
Does she think I'm too cocky?

[playercool]

Did I overdo it with the last 2 lines? What does she mean when she says "don't flatter yourself"?
Does she think I'm too cocky?

No she is just playing the game.

You maybe overdid it just a tad on the last two lines. The thing is though you are still going out with her. On top of that you started putting her in the mindset that she is doing this or that for you. Getting pretty FOR YOU. Smelling nice FOR YOU.

I have a feeling you will be LJBFed really quick with this one unless you escalate in a rapid manner. Even if you are just remember its all experience.

Keep us updated on how the shopping date went. I hope you prove me wrong.