So this girl is really busy...

[Merco]

I am in a few classes with this HB9 two days a weekat UNT, a one hour and twenty minute stretch, then the second day is almost 4 hours, and we get along great. I opened her the very first day with "Who's your favorite TMNT" She ate it up and now I use it on a fairly regular basis, though its hard at college, all these girls are almost too young to know who they are

Anyway, I'm way past the point of gaming her in the class room anymore, we have a great rapport with each other, I always get a big smile from her everytime I walk into class, she goes and grabs notes and scantrons from the front of class for the both of us, and I've got kino to the point I can brush her on the leg or even poke her in the side to get her attention, but the other day I asked her to "hang out" after our next class we didn't have together, but at the same time, and I get, "oh, I just wanna go home." She lives 45 minutes away, and I can understand the draw of leaving, I live on campus so its no big deal to me (I wanna go get hammered or do anything right after class so I don't have to sit in my dorm). I respond, "Oh, your tired, i understand." Then I get, "No, I'm just so busy all the time."

That was Monday. Today, she left early from a three hour class we have for a hair appointment. She told me about this in our first class and explained, "it's the only time I have to get anything done, I have to leave early." I feel like I have great comfort and pretty good attraction with this girl, cause we talk everyday we have class before and after, she has never mentioned a boyfriend, but I know where she works and that she has several roommates, and hates watching the super bowl with her family, and other personal stuff like that. But I don't really have a moment outside of class, at least not any longer than grabbing a bite to eat with her before, to get to know her better and even game her outside of school. I'm stuck in the fucking Study-buddy Zone I guess

So, i know its a lot of shit but not much detail, but pick this apart the best you can guys and tell me where I fucked up, how, and if its repairable. I can't really just walk away from this since we have 2/3 of a semester left together, and I want to make the most of it. A part of me feels like she is being genuine in her, "I'm really busy" statements. I mean it's not like she has ANYTHING invested in me enough to change her daily routine for me, and if its really busy one, then how do I break into it?
Thanx in advance guys,
Merco.

[JP2008]

Man, to be honest it seems like you are getting a bad case of oneitis. I think you should back off but not be cold just keep it relaxed. If you are already getting resistance I don't think pushing harder is going to improve the situation. However if you play it cool and be the relaxed, confident study partner she may begin developing a desire for you fueled in part by your indifference.

[Merco]

ya, that's what I was afraid might be happening. This girl is really smart and really hot, and in the same field of study as me, which all leads up to being super desirable. I still have other prospects I'm pursuing here, but if she was interested at all I would drop them all together. She is def the keeper type, but that's the oneitis mentality, and i def don't wan't to give someone that kind of power over me. I'll just be chill but uninterested the rest of the semester, it's gonna be hard as hell. I guess I'll just start flirting with other girls next t me in front of her. There is actually another HB9 thats sitson the other side of me, but she doesn't always show up to class...plus that chick is way more naive.

Thanx man,
Merco.

[JP2008]

The more girls you date the less interested in this one you will become and that will likely make her more interested in you. I would put her out of your mind and work on your Game, that way you are investing yourself rather than in this one chick.

JP

[playercool]

Agree with JP.

Keep in mind you will not only be in class with her for the rest of the semester you will probably see her the rest of your school career. HB9's usually have hot friends. This may eventually work in your favor.

Goodluck