Unique

[Bull Run]

I love being a part of the Community with all of the great ideas and insight that is floating out there I know I've been able to accelerate the effectiveness of my Game a ton versus had I been forced to do this completely alone. For that, I want to thank everyone...especially anyone that I've winged with. The impact you've had on my Game has been greater than I can ever articulate. Thank you.

Having said that, lately something has been bothering me about the Community and some of its members. Some of the feedback I and others have gotten on the board from the faceless PUAs out there (read guys that many have never met and, in some cases, hope to never meet) regarding my and others' Game has been bothersome.

These guys post comments about how you did or are doing something gravely wrong because your actions don't fit into the frame of their Game. Fact is that your Game is your Game, mine is mine. I'm sure your Game works wonders for you (I geniunely believe that everyone on here is successful to some degree). But I'll bet that if I ran your Game I'd be horribly unsuccessful.

There is no ONE successful type of Game. There is no ONE way to pull a chick. I've sarged with guys that I thought had the most ridiculous Game ever. BUT, they were successful regardless. Where they would pull with that type of Game, I'd fail miserably. The reason? Because they internalized it and because it's tailored to their personality, to the type of women they seek to pull, and to their strengths.

I think we all forget that we view another's interactions with a woman through the lenses of our Game, not through the lenses of the Game the guy was/is running on her. Sure, sure there ARE certain hard and fast rules in the Community, I'll agree with that ALL DAY. But let's keep in mind that we are UNIQUE, each and every one of us. As such it only follows that our respective Games will be UNIQUE.

Constructive criticism is always welcome. But, a lot of guys on here like to think of themselves as the next guru. Well, guess what? You probably aren't, so stop thinking of yourself as more than you are. The Game is about being humble, dedicated, and willing to better yourself. In this world, respect only comes through results. Show me you can pull someone and you have my respect. Until then, you're unproven. Period. And, whatever it is that you have to say will be taken with a grain of salt. Period.

This leads me into another rant. Gurus. What's the big deal about these guys? Sure, sure they may have great insight that they've garnered through years of practice and we should respect their knowledge and experience BUT they don't belong on a pedistal. They're human just like you and I. Worry about your Game first. Worry about trying to improve your own unique way of pulling girls. Calibrate, improve, reframe, analyize...if you focus on your Game you'll become a guru in your own right. These guys aren't shit compared to the damage you can do in the field.

This post might seem inflammatory but, I view it as the truth. And, I'm confident enough to take the heat...

Fire away!

[Alphagame]

Totally agree that there's no one way. Mystery Method is not direct game, but lots of guys use direct game with good results.

[Westfall]

Well said Bull Run. There are a lot of guys in the community who are self-diluted idiots who think they're good. They run around giving unsolicited advice to people who are way better than them what THEY are doing wrong.

I'm not talking about anyone who has skill giving me feedback, I always appericate that.

In short, I concur with BR.

Westfall

[p4nzer]

I don't really think it's necessary to respond to feedback esp from these nameless dudes. I for one, love feedback whether positive or negative, but I don't make it a point to address every single one of them; especially extremely negative ones from these "faceless" guys you've never met before.

Addressing them almost always ends in a lame flame war. Arguing over the internet is like the special olympics, even if you win its still retarded.

That being said, I enjoy self-critical posts and hope you'll continue them so we can learn from them.

[JP2008]

Arguing over the internet is like the special olympics, even if you win its still retarded.

I am so stealing that line, you are hilarious!

[zine]

Arguing over the internet is like the special olympics, even if you win its still retarded.

rofl, I agree with this post bull run. I know I've been guilty of arguing with people like that. One thing I have noticed though is that the guys like that are only around for a little bit then after awile they just fade away. I am willing to help anyone that wants help, but I am only willing to listen to those who have earned the right for me to listen to them.

[Dragon]

...This leads me into another rant. Gurus. What's the big deal about these guys? Sure, sure they may have great insight that they've garnered through years of practice and we should respect their knowledge and experience BUT they don't belong on a pedistal. They're human just like you and I....

It took me awhile to figure this one.
After watching VH1 on PUA, I thought Mystery was the best. Than I read, The GAME and Mystery was a mess.
In the Mystery Mind Series about AMOGing, Mystery was interviewing with Matador and Matador's frame is actually stronger than Mystery's frame.

Yeah, you're right he is human just like anyone of us.

To prove your point further, I noticed there is alot of Gurus out there and each have their own particular spin on the game. I am sure each one of us will have to reflect off ourselve on how it is to be played.

[Bull Run]

I for one, love feedback whether positive or negative, but I don't make it a point to address every single one of them; especially extremely negative ones from these "faceless" guys you've never met before.

I agree. These 'faceless' guys are lame, douchebags that like to try to tear someone else down to make themselves feel better. It's like playground bullies all over again.

That being said, I enjoy self-critical posts and hope you'll continue them so we can learn from them.

I will continue to post. I've found that writing out my thoughts and experiences really helps me to better analyize what did and didn't go right. It helps me better understand how to calibrate my Game. And, I think others find my experiences and take on The Game helpful.

We call it The Community for a reason, we're all in this together. Alas, douchebags with insecurities exist everywhere.

The weak will always try to bring the strong down to their level...

[JP2008]

You know what they say about opinions...

Seriously, it would be nice if we had more positive energy on here. So on that note, have I mentioned how great you guys are?

JP

[H_Raja]

Agree totally. You have to develop your own game. Everyone's personality is very different. It's great to share some tips in a positive manner, but keep in mind what works for one doesn't work for another. I also wouldn't trust advice from someone who doesn't spend much time out in the field.