I think this group is really great

[Rembrandt]

I've been reading and posting some on here for a couple of months and really appreciate all the help i've received. I'm 35 and have had problems with shyness all my life especially around attractive women. I've clung to past girlfriends because I knew it would hard to find another one and I don't want to do that anymore. I've let women treat me badly and all that other stupid AFC stuff.

I'm just now starting to implement some of the things I'm learning. I'll be honest....it's really difficult. I do love it though when I learn about something that I've been doing wrong and had no idea that it was the wrong thing to do. It gives me hope. I also like the fact that almost everyone says that this stuff has helped to improve other aspects of their life. I think my career has seriously suffered due to my lack of confidence and social skills.

All of my friends are married and have kids. I'm not single because i chose to be. That's really embarassing to admit. I'm not really as pathetic as I sound...I promise. haha..