Sex creates feelings for girls! FU*K!

[coolguy]

I would suggest, its time to play another tiype of game and see how far you get away with it. You know, the needy, nice guy shit. I dunno if you can do it though, the sarging kinda force that trait out of us completely. But hey, maybe you can come up with routines, and lines how to get rid of girls who wont leave you alone! could come very handy!!!

[Westfall]

I would suggest, its time to play another tiype of game and see how far you get away with it. You know, the needy, nice guy shit. I dunno if you can do it though, the sarging kinda force that trait out of us completely. But hey, maybe you can come up with routines, and lines how to get rid of girls who wont leave you alone! could come very handy!!!

Why I'm posting this I'll never know...

I don't have a lot of trouble with girls not leaving me alone like all you PUAs do, but I did have one such experince in my past and I found a way to get rid of the girl.

It was my first SNL. She was a Chi-Omega sorirty girl. Chi-Os are lovely girls, this one was not. After we had sex she became quite obsessed with me, calling me and leaving me weird voicemails where she would beg me to be her homecoming date, one where she claimed she was pregneant (which really messed with me, god* knows we don't want any lil WFs runningaround causing a ruckus...). It was bad, so much so that when she offered me a 3-way I turned it down.

She had her friend call me and tell me I was an asshole for ignoring her, blah blah blah.

At this point I broke into tears over the phone and told her that I really liked Amy and wanted to be with her but I had found out I have AIDS.

The tears were fake and I don't have AIDS. But she didn't know that.

She eventually figured out that unlike Robert Reed, I have plenty of T-Cells, but she still left me alone.

Westfall

*me

[Bull Run]

one where she claimed she was pregneant

I once had a girl call me and blame me for getting knocked up. Granted, I wasn't the father but when I dumped her she was so emotionally destraught that she sought out the affection (read cock) of her ex. He got her pregnant, and I got the blame.

P.S. I've told girls before a TON of BS to get them to go away, among the best lines are:

-I'm secretly gay and have decided to come out of the closet, do you think
-My family had an intervention the other day and I'm checking myself into AA, I can't handle any more drama right now
-I just realized I'm still in love with my ex
-I'm being transferred for my job
-I've become a born again Christain and as such have re-virgintized myself and will no longer be able to participate in the reindeer game you refer to as sex

[niceguy]

This is a great post, as I wish I had something like this to give me a heads up before I ran into trouble/burning of bridges. For a while, I thought it was just me and my dumb luck.

I spoke to my good friend Lucky31337 about this and he fed me this...


"Why are you saying this? Where is this coming from? All that matters is that when we're spending time together, we enjoy ourselves completely. We're having a great time.

But the rest of it, all those labels, it's just bullshit, and it's drama that means nothing. So having that conversation with me leads nowhere, we don't even need to go down that path, so quit trying to take us there."


I've also added, "You do have fun with me when we hang out, right?" This is the advanced usage of Tie-Downs (right? don't you agree? correct?)

Normally, Tie Downs evoke a 'Yes' answer. In this case, I use it at the very end of a long winded statement. With her saying 'Yes' at the end, she has validated the whole statement, which means she agreed to...

-When we spend time together, we enjoy ourselves.
-We have a great time
-Labels are bullshit drama
-This convo leads nowhere with me
-Don't bring it up again
-You have fun with me

After conveying this, drop the thread and move onto another topic. As far as you're concerned, this relationship talk is now a dead issue.

It has been extremely effective for me. I have 2 FBs now. 1 that I see once a week and another that I see twice a month. I hope it brings similar results for you.

-niceguy

[Fuzz]

Have to revive this thread because I'm in a situation where the girl is getting too attached. Here was my stradegy. When we first started having sex I decided to never bring up relationship talk ever. I was preparing for the time in which she would bring it up. The probelm is, she never did. At first we would introduce each other to other people as "my friend." But the way she treats me in front of her close friends lead me to believe there's an understanding that I am her boyfriend (something I have NEVER admited!) What's worse I start to feel obligated to be around her and hang out, and if I'm out somewhere with her and there are other women, I'm afraid to persue them, because I'm not exactly sure where we stand in this relationship, and I don't want her to think I'm playing her or being a dick. The icing on the cake was the other night when she told me her mom invited me over for dinner. Her MOM! I told her no, but I was legitimately busy that night and she already knew that.

Anyway, I do like this girl and think she's really cool. I wouldn't mind being her friend but I have to do something. Any tips?

[playercool]

This is why I am so upfront with girls. Here is what I tell all girls:

I have no interest in having a relationship right now.
I fuck other girls.
I go out and meet girls all the time.

Here are my latest introductions from FB's.

Whos this? Ohh this is my hump buddy.

Is this guy your boyfriend? No he is just some asshole.

All these girls do bring up the relationship talk. I just reiterate the above and they usually chill out. I have even had girls tell me the next day hey sorry for being so gay last night.

Why Lie???

[Fuzz]

I don't want to lie. I had every intention of being upfront and honest, but she has never once talked to me about relationships. Maybe it's my fault for not bringing it up?

[Fuzz]

Here's another thing that shoots me in the foot. I assume she thinks we're in a relationship, even though we've never talked about it. Because this seems to be her frame, I start to feel guilty about gf/bf type stuff. Not spending time with her, not calling her back, her possibly being jealous of another girl (hasn't really happened yet). She knows I hang out with other girls, but I'm discreet sort of person, and I don't tell anyone who I'm fucking or not. This is going to make it look as though I've been lying to her all this time, if she does think we're actually in a relationship. Imagine I go out somewhere with some other girl and her friends see me making out with another woman. This looks really bad. Saying I didn't know we were exclusive seems like a pretty pitiful excuse.

[dubya]

-I've become a born again Christain and as such have re-virgintized myself and will no longer be able to participate in the reindeer game you refer to as sex

You know what... I'm just gonna randomly start telling people this just for the fuck of it.

[playercool]

Fuzz:

Never be afraid to lose the girl. You guys have never had the talk so unless your actions speak lounder than words you are ok.

For example last night I took a FB out to dinner for her birthday. My wings gave me shit about this move. The girl wants more than I am willing to give her. Now my action of taking out her to dinner speaks loudly how I feel about her. But thank goodness my words speak louder. She knows very well where I stand and what our relationship is.