Craft the Keys to being more Fun

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This came through my email today from stylelife...I enjoyed it so I thought I'd share

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How to Become the Source of Fun
By Tommy D
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If you are around a bunch of people who know how to have a
really great time, you may be able to have a bit of fun just
by hanging out with them, but this sort of "fun leeching"
isn't recommended. The disadvantages include a dependency on
others, as well as being known as 'the tag along guy' who
doesn't really add any fun to the group. You don't want to be
that guy.

You want to be the primary source of the fun around you. When
this is the case, you can have fun whenever you want. Plus,
others will want to join in and will work to be around you so
that they can be a part of your world. You are about to
receive some insight on how to achieve this, including tips on
Reframing Your State of Mind, Filling Your Social Calendar,
Having Interesting Things to Discuss, Maintaining Balance, and
Building the Right Social Circle. Let the lessons begin...


REFRAME YOUR STATE OF MIND

Realize that part of having fun is learning that ANYTHING can
be framed as fun. Tell an adult to clean the leaves out of a
pool and they may get grumpy...but assign the same task to a
child and they will use the opportunity to create a game where
they get to go on an underwater adventure to collect the
ancient leaf artifacts in less than five minutes.

Get in touch with your inner child and remember how to reframe
things so you can TRULY ENJOY THEM.

Have the ability to approach anything with excitement and a
smile. Smiles and positive energies are contagious. When you
smile, people see you are enjoying yourself and want to be a
part of it.


FILL UP YOUR SOCIAL CALENDAR

That being said, you are still going to want to have plenty in
your life that you enjoy with or without a reframe. This is
why, in order to start having more fun, it is critical that you
keep a Social Calendar. You will use this calendar to pencil in
your appointments, dates, holidays, activities, and many
other things that we are about to cover.

One of the biggest benefits you'll notice to keeping this
Social Calendar is that you will always have something to look
forward to.

A fun person always has something to do tomorrow, this
weekend, and next Wednesday. Don't sit around without a game
plan. Know what your next event is and when it is. It could be
something as simple as riding a bike, or as grand as going to
Burning Man.

As a general rule of thumb, have one of these tentative social
events planned per day. You don't have to go to every single
one, but you will always have the option.

Learn to have fun through diversity. Don't plan all of your
fun events in one category such as only sports or only
clubbing. Variety is the spice of life. Check out concerts,
art shows, cool restaurants, parasailing, road trips, house
parties, and movie premiers, just to name a few...mix it up a
bit.

These events can be anything else you could enjoy with others,
or alone for that matter. Don't be afraid to go stag. If no
one is around, it is still OK to be going to events and having
fun. A guy with a truly fun life is in it for himself, not to
impress anyone.

Now that your social event calendar is filled, when you're
asked, "what are you up to today?" You will never need to
respond with 'nothing' ever again. When you are with a group
of people who have lame plans (or no plans at all), you will
always have several fun things to recommend, and people will
associate you with fun.


HOST YOUR OWN PARTY

In addition to attending these events, now and then you should
host your own party (we can teach you how, if you need help).
Try throwing a sleep over bash, a board game night, a BBQ, or
any other type of event that gives a great reason to have a
group of people over to your house. This will give you a
chance to reward the worthy people in your life by fully
allowing them into your world as they are welcomed into your
home for a fun evening.

Make sure that your place has plenty of interesting
conversation pieces lying around. This could be artwork from
your trip to Peru, Tarot cards, personality tests, a book on
the cube, sex dice, whipped cream, or anything else that will
give you a chance to demonstrate higher value or build sexual
tension. The Stylelife Academy explains how you can fully utilize
these types of tools...if you'd like to learn how, step-by-step,
please check out this page:

http://www.stylelife.com/phase2xl/afterhours.php

By completing the Stylelife Missions on "Craft The Keys to Being
More Fun", you'll also learn exactly how to make sure your
room is set up for maximum enjoyment. Things like Guitar Hero,
Twister, Scrabble, Wii, and Cruel Intentions can always be
ready for you when you need them. After you master this
course, the simple line "Come back to my house and lets..."
will instantly get people excited about going to your place,
because of all the cool stuff you have around.

Remember, your house should be a fun place, thus reflecting
the man who owns it.


HAVE INTERESTING THINGS TO DISCUSS

So now that your social calendar is filled with fun events,
you may wonder what you will talk about while you're there.
You want to add activities to your life that you have a
passion for and develop a desire to share this passion with
others. Your hobbies are a great place to start. Everybody
deserves at least one hobby...and I recommend that you have a
few...

A great way to pick up a new hobby is taking a class in your
area. By taking lessons to learn how to become a better
dancer, artist, musician, gardener (or whatever else you can
think of), you will become a more skilled person. Your new
skills will lead you to more fun, provide you with topics to
discuss, and make you more attractive in the eyes of women.
Being interested in something makes YOU interesting. Plus,
while at your new class, you can meet new friends...and new
girlfriends.

In addition to being able to talk about topics you have a
passion for, you should also have a stack of party games ready
to go at all times. Ideally these should be things that
require little to no set up or planning. Games like telephone
and 20 questions work well, along with all the great
demonstration of higher value (DHV) routines taught at The
Stylelife Academy.

For example, this week's upcoming Stylelife Underground:
Technology for Members Only E-LETTER features The Sneak's
"Qualities of Movement DHV". While this tool is extremely
effective at generating attraction in the field, that doesn't
have to be its only use. Running routines like that for your
friends and party guests is a great way to captivate their
intention and make everyone's night more interesting and
enjoyable.


MAINTAIN BALANCE IN YOUR LIFE

There is no doubt that being social is important, but with all
of these events, classes, hobbies, and parties, make sure
you maintain a healthy amount of free time. Be willing to turn
down some fun nights for some well deserved rest if your body
needs it. Have 'you time' to do whatever. Make sure you have a
buffer in your day for these kinds of things, and to keep you
from having to rush. A guy who is fun to be around is never
nervous, in a panic, or in a hurry. Set up your Social
Calendar to allow for smooth sailing.


BUILD THE RIGHT SOCIAL CIRCLE

Once you have all of the above in place it is time to start
being selective about who you want to share it with. Stay away
from downers, including women. Regardless of what she may look
like if she is a burden, consider whether you should end the
relationship. If she makes you crazy, then you are settling
for less than you deserve.

Find the people who mesh well with you and add value to your
experiences. Hang out with the type of crowd who can keep up
and contribute to the fun of the night. The right group can
take any event and turn it into a wonderful outing.



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Become Your Best Self and Land the Women of Your Dreams
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The techniques in this week's Weekend Wingman explain how you
can become more attractive in the eyes of women by creating a
life filled with fun and exciting activities. When you master
the skills introduced here today, you will be surrounded by
people who see you are having a great time and will want to
join in and have a great time with you...this absolutely
includes sexy, highly desirable women.

The most desirable women respond to the kind of man who knows
how to present his best self, a self that has been infused
with confidence from his previous consistent successes. A self
who is fully competent in creating the connections you desire
with the people around you.

You could have total control over the mental, emotional, and
physical connections you make with the women you meet, but in
order to gain this control, some work and dedication is
required on your part.

When you're ready to make the commitment to achieving your
dreams with women, The Stylelife Academy is ready to teach you
everything you need to know. Using the most effective tools
and resources - available only in the Stylelife Academy - you
will learn all the secrets of success to go from the minute
you see a beautiful woman, to the minute after you've had the
most passionate encounter you could ever imagine.

For example, in our Stylelife course "Craft the Keys to Being
More Fun" you will be sent on a series of special missions
designed to bring out the best most fun parts of your
personality. You know how sometimes you have a moment with
friends where you are all making each other laugh and crack
up? After this course, you will be able to do that
CONSISTENTLY with people who prior to tonight were TOTAL
STRANGERS!

But seriously, that's just the beginning. Learning to enjoy
yourself and have fun is crucial, but we know you also want to
land the girl you desire and have even MORE fun when the two
of you go home together. That's why you'll want to take
advantage of Stylelife's "Craft the Keys to Being More Fun"
coursework, along with the huge selection of over 500+
missions that will teach you to make the connections you want
with the women that you desire.

PLUS, in addition to your coursework, The Stylelife Academy
will send you supplemental materials every single month,
delivered directly to your mailbox. Within will be CDs, DVDs,
and Newsletters featuring Style and his Coaches...not to
mention some other special unannounced surprises along the
way.

The journey ahead is going to be exciting, and life changing.
Have no fear though, you aren't in this alone. All of the
Stylelife Community will have your back along the way. Your
fellow students, the Stylelife coaches, and Style himself are
standing by to answer all of your questions on the forums, the
coach flashchat sessions, and the teleconferences.

For detailed descriptions of each of these tools, along with
all of the other features and bonuses accessible to guide you
to a future of unlimited social success, check out the
following link:

http://www.stylelife.com/phase2xl/afterhours.php

Have a great weekend...

Happy Holidays,
The Sneak

[Smirks]

I probably should have cut the sales pitch stuff out, but...meh.

[EL CHUPACABRA]

True...true!