Too Much info in my head/Fucking up my game?

[Bolaz]

1st of all lets start by saying i have always been a natural and never had problems approaching sets or being nervous around woman and i've been with more than a handful. I have always been a very social person and i was introduced to the game about 10 months ago and became fascinated with it, a little improvement doesn't hurt anyone right?

Last nite i went to Blackfinn with a couple of friends and at one point we were standing by the bar in the backroom when all the sudden a HB9 starts bumping into me by "accident" while she was dancing.

Me: Do you always run everyone over when your dancing (smiling of course)
HB9: Yes, why you don't like it?
Me: I didn't say that! but by the way you move i can tell your the lil sparkplug out of the whole group
HB9:No im not, she is. Points at her other friend
Me: ALL THE SUDDEN BLANK

So i just rolled off and ejected.

No because i was nervous or anything, i never get nervous approaching a woman. I think that lately i have been doing sooo much research on game. Reading styles new book, refreshing on MM and learning a lil bit of David de Angelo and Ross Jeffries. That theres sooo much info in my head that i didn't know where to take it next.

Has this hapenned to anyone in here? any suggestions on how to deal with this?

[EL CHUPACABRA]

1st of all lets start by saying i have always been a natural and never had problems approaching sets or being nervous around woman and i've been with more than a handful. I have always been a very social person and i was introduced to the game about 10 months ago and became fascinated with it, a little improvement doesn't hurt anyone right?

The "game" has always been around us... we have just not always known how to get the ball rolling like all the other natural pimps out there. That my friend is why all of this is here. I'm just saying!


This happens to all...just chill! Sounds like you had the ball rolling on the set hell, she came to you brother. With all that comes to us in life you have to live and learn! Everyone has nights that your mind goes blank myself included, we are human. I think the key to it all is that we gotta get to this stuff being second nature.

Have you ever had a "dry spell" in which you were getting no love at all and the very next week you laid three HB's in a single weekend? In my opinion if you bombed on that set you should have gone after the next hottie you saw! The question is....did you do this?

[Bolaz]

1st of all lets start by saying i have always been a natural and never had problems approaching sets or being nervous around woman and i've been with more than a handful. I have always been a very social person and i was introduced to the game about 10 months ago and became fascinated with it, a little improvement doesn't hurt anyone right?

The "game" has always been around us... we have just not always known how to get the ball rolling like all the other natural pimps out there. That my friend is why all of this is here. I'm just saying!


This happens to all...just chill! Sounds like you had the ball rolling on the set hell, she came to you brother. With all that comes to us in life you have to live and learn! Everyone has nights that your mind goes blank myself included, we are human. I think the key to it all is that we gotta get to this stuff being second nature.

Have you ever had a "dry spell" in which you were getting no love at all and the very next week you laid three HB's in a single weekend? In my opinion if you bombed on that set you should have gone after the next hottie you saw! The question is....did you do this?

Of course everyone has had a dry spell at one time or another, so i know what you mean in that sense. And yeah i was looking for another set to hit, but the music was really loud in there and it was packed as hell to the point that you couldn't even walk through there (I hate that) so we went outside got a table and just hung out for a lil bit and went home. I was really in the mood to sarge but to tell you the truth i didn't see anyone really that was my type at all besides that chick that came up to me

[Tribulus1000]

Has this hapenned to anyone in here? any suggestions on how to deal with this?

Sure man. It happens to everyone. Blanking out, stalling out, being an entertainment monkey and getting her too excited, and the ever popular not kissing her.
I had a "date" the other week and I was totally AFC. I wasn't that interested anyway.

I would do some of that positive affirmations stuff from Originator. Its posted here on the board.

[Smirks]

This is the biggest problem I have right now. I'd say 3 out of 5 sets I open I go blank pretty early in the set. My mind just freezes. So, I feel ya there...and if you find anything that helps this, let me know!

[Bolaz]

I would definetly let you guys know if i can come up with something to deal with this. I think what im gonna do for now, is just put all the books down for a couple of days, let my mind relax and just go sarge my ass off and see how my skills go with every set that i open.

[Smirks]

That's the exact advice a member of this community sat me down and told me last night...so I did B&N day game for an hour and a half this morning when I got off work, and we're going out tonight. Hammer this shit out and hopefully get over it.

[Tribulus1000]

Yeah go out. Talk to women.

The seduction community uses marketing and scare tactics on its potential customers.
Some of these tactics do work in the field on women as well.

But it does tend to overthink or complicate things more than they have to be.

If you can walk up and talk to a woman, you're probably 90% of the way. Being calm, centered and being persistent is what is required.
The thing you must keep in mind is that girls like you.

I met a shy girl a few weeks ago on a blind date who was extremely quiet and shy. I had no interest because she didn't talk to me.

Come to find out, she REALLY liked me. But she didn't know how to show it.

Those little compliance tests are useful. Learn the Trust Test and Mystery's Kiss Close.

Stalling out is normal.

A few things you can say:
"Hey we had our first awkward moment. Awesome." (high five)
"Do you like chocolate? ...Cool you're my new girlfriend."
"Are you the quiet type? Mom told me to watch out for you."

You're right about going out. The Field is King.

[EL CHUPACABRA]

Well men after the game(cowboys) tonight I'm starting with fat girls.... Ya know to build my confidence!! haha

I need to get the baby batter off the brain tonight...this girl I met about a month ago is really into me and I feel that she sees me as husband potential. I know, scary right?... Ladies always see me as the nice guy so I'm gonna put on my game face tonight! I'm gonna be the"evil one"..
If my mind goes blank I'll just start the negging it most always works for me. I'll report this evening or in the late morn if things go well.

Bolaz I hope that all this crap that people throw at ya helps!!

[Bolaz]

Thanks for the help guys!

I do know the trust test and the kiss close, so im good on that. Like i said im just gonna chill and go with the flow since i have always been a natural anyway so im not scared of approaching sets. And im definetly try to concentrate to go with the flow of the conversation and tweak it here and there depending where its going instead of trying to figure out what routine im gonna use next.

And chupacabra your right, first open the fatties to get things going, FTMFW!!!