My Personal Take On The Game

[V]

the results are amazing. It is fantastic to see a guy go from geek to sheik in a matter of months. It is always satisfying to see this transformation over and over again.

When we were outside Taco Cabana smoking I could tell you actually believe in this. It's good to know people believe in the product they are pushing instead of faking their life.

It's great to read a person's take on the game in relation to their lives. I think many guys who get into the game are the "nice guy" who just didn't get the girl. Learning some social skills doesn't turn a nice guy into a jerk.

Before I got into this scene I had been with around 16 or 17 girls. I was ok with girls, but not excellent. I had periods in my life when I was surrounded by sex constantly and then I had periods when I didn't have anything. I never knew the mechanics of what I was doing but after reading several books I have at least a basic knowledge of why it worked. My main goal behind this entire thing is to understand people in general and why they do the things they do. Getting laid is just a side benefit.

[Mojo]

the results are amazing. It is fantastic to see a guy go from geek to sheik in a matter of months. It is always satisfying to see this transformation over and over again.

When we were outside Taco Cabana smoking I could tell you actually believe in this. It's good to know people believe in the product they are pushing instead of faking their life.

Great writing!! Very well put.

Thank you Boyracer and V. This community can change people for the better. To be better a man is walking the same natural path as being better with women.

[Mojo]

I hope that this group of guys will grow and benefit from what is found here, in this community. I have been lucky and am very grateful for where I am now in my life. I am taking an extended vacation to travel the world for an indefinite period of time. Though I want to see some of you before I go. The VIP room has been reserved at the Martini Park (in Plano) for January 5th. All of you are welcome. I will be posting the information shortly under Sarging Mission and Events. I leave the country January 8th.

On a final note, I had posted this thread (below) in response to my take on the game. I know all of you will recognize how awesome this stuff is. I have realized that this technology must be used with admirable intentions or ultimately it will backfire. To get a high caliber woman you must be a high caliber guy.

Sparks had asked me the following question:

I have noticed that you run things here in a positive fashion. That's really cool.

I would like to know what your take on the game is. How do you see it? How does it fit into your life?

-Sparks

Excellent question! I thought some of you might be interested in my answer, so I am posting it here:


Learning the game is more than f-closing NFL cheerleaders or having a MLTR with a blonde, brunette, and red head (for good measure), it is about building men. The skills you learn here are applicable to all parts of your life. You must strive to heighten inner game, in other words, you must better your individual integrity. Have principles. Integrity. Maintain a balance in your life. Simply be good. I remember a quote (though do not recall the author): “I am a citizen of the earth. My religion is to do good.” The attitude this quote communicates is important. Be good to your fellow man. Be good.

Men find this community cause they are not good with women. And not being good with women has its roots in a subconscious that is not programmed correctly. Whether it was the verbal programming (a friend saying “you suck with women”), modeling others (mom and dad who lack a solid relationship), or specific incidents (being shot down by girls at an early age) all contributed to a mis-programmed mind. It is important to re-program your mind to be emotionally/mentally healthier. Learning the game leads to you realizing there is a problem. Once the problem is realized, you now can solve it. Though some don’t, and here lies the danger I hope all of you will avoid (at least those who had such bad programming)…

No matter what you learn here, if you don’t better yourselves, that will be communicated subconsciously to women who will pick that up in a negative vibe. Some, who never solve their inner game, still learn the powerful, manipulative aspects of the game and use it to control others. I’ve seen this and it is sad, indeed. Neil was aware of the misuse of this power. In “The Game” he hinted at the more powerful techniques while not providing the actual methods and even provided an incorrect technique as to not let any joe schmo run around using this stuff. Much of the advance skills must be used with integrity. Also, down playing the community a bit at the end, again, very smart as to not encourage an army of joe schmo's flooding our ranks. Neil and I have a mutual friend (shameless Social Proof ), Jen, a model and entrepreneur in Southern Cali. When we were first getting to know each other, we had a series of talks about her friend, Neil’s, book, “The Game”. I had said:

I have read Neils book, The Game. Though he has published some of the methods of pick-up, I am glad to see he had purposely put in the wrong methods for some of the more powerful techniques. The technology is neutral, though unfortunately man is not. These methods should be used with the utmost integrity.

Jen's response:

It's nice to see someone mention integrity in the same paragraph as The Game. Doesn't happen too often. Excellent observation re: the technology and man. You seem like a really good person. I'm really glad to have made your acquaintance. it made my day

The technology is neutral. The game is not bad or good. Only the man determines it so. When it is used for honorable purposes, the results are amazing. It is fantastic to see a guy go from geek to sheik in a matter of months. It is always satisfying to see this transformation over and over again.

Also, a side note; Jen is a very positive person. By her expressing how I made her day, had made my day. Those with their inner game together tend to be much more positive. And positive people tend to be happier. And people tend to gravitate toward happy people.

So, this is my take on the game. It is a tool that can be used for good or evil. Use it for good. And if you learn the “super powers”, do not fuck up a woman’s mind. Use it for good. Use it to become better at pick-up. Use it to become better.

- Mojo

[Smirks]

you should move this to the "best of the forum" section, bro.

[MagicBalls]

Good post, Mojo.

It's funny, because I was thinking about the neutral aspect of PUA while reading Frame Analysis: An Essay on the Organization of Experience earlier today at the bookstore.

It reminded me a lot of the research that is done into computer security. For example, a conference on computer hacking attracts both "black hats" and "white hats." Black hats use the knowledge maliciously, whether for fraud, to steal government or corporate secrets, vandalism, or bragging rights. White hats use the knowledge to protect systems against black hats. And it's interesting that they show up at the same conference and socialize with each other.

One aspect of interest to hackers is social engineering. To me, PUA/Venusia Arts/Whatever is essentially about social engineering. Social engineering is everywhere. You cannot look in any direction or go any place without someone, directly or indirectly, trying to get you to do something, whether it's voting, being a responsible citizen, believing in something, or parting with your money.

Eventually we are so bombarded with so many messages that it becomes an illusion that envelops and ensnares our reality, and we end up living in a snow globe of commercialism, nationalism, and dreams engineered with planned obsolescence.

PUA's did not invent social engineering. Research into social engineering goes back to the invention of Muzak in the military-industrial-government complex of the post-war era in post-modern society. It goes back even further than that, in a less scientific context, with the not-too-attractive Cleopatra seducing Roman conquerors to consolidate her power over the nation of Egypt.

As PUA's we're just learning to use and add to the body of knowledge that has been built for centuries so that we can move in this world, and at least have an illusion of control in our lives.

How you use it is up to you.

As for me, I got laid off recently. It took me two weeks to start working again. I'm getting a bigger paycheck than I was before, so I was able to turn a negative into a positive. Was it Lady Luck? Only if her last name is Cialdini.

[Mojo]

Thanks guys. That is my hope for this group, for the guys to learn these skills and use them responsibly.

It took me two weeks to start working again. I'm getting a bigger paycheck than I was before, so I was able to turn a negative into a positive.

That is a good frame to have as you can always turn something negative into positive. Even the Black Hat hackers do a good dead in testing out the security of computers, pushing White Hat hackers to improve that security.